冷爱：这样做就可以找到女朋友

　　ruguonanrenchuguilegaizenmeban，dangmianduinanrenchuguizheiyijishoudewentishi，dajiabukehushishizenyangtuoshanchuzhi。zheizhongqingkuangshejidaohenduofuzadeqinggan、daodeyujiatinglunlidaodefangmian，bixulizhidimiandui。mianduizheiyangdeshiqing，xutongguogoutongjiaoliu、fansheng、xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhudengyixilieliucheng，zhaodaozuihaojiejuefangan。zhongjiu，guanxideweichiyuxiufu，yeshixuyaobicigongtongfendoude。

　　面对男人出轨：复建信任和追求复合型的路

　　ruguonanrenchuguilegaizenmeban，panbianshisuoyouguanxizhongzuibeishangdekeguanshishizhiyi。dangnanrenchuguishi，nvshitongchangzaoyujidadekuchuyutiaozhan。danshi，mianduizheizhongqingganweiji，womenyinggailizhidipouxibingzhidingshidudexingwei，yifujianxinrenbingxunzhaofuhexingdelu。

　　第一步：面对现实与自身疗愈

　　mianduinanrenchugui，shouxianzhengshixianshi。zheijiuyiweizhebunengtaobihuofoudingchanshengdeshishi，fanershiniyaoyonggandimiandui。yucitongshi，zishenliaoyudoushizhiguanzhongyaode。baochilianghaodexintai，tanxunshiyong，ruhaopengyou、qinren、zixunguwendeng，tamenkeyibangzhunimianduiyuchulizheiyijiongjing。

　　第二步：聆听和交流

　　zaifujianguanxidaolushang，lingtinghejiaoliushizhiguanzhongyaode。yuairenkaizhanzhenchengerduiwaikaifangdeduitan，zhidaotadedongyinyuxinlizhenshitihui。zailingtingdeguochengdangzhongbaochilixinghekeguan，erbushiyiweidichizehuoxuanxieqingxu。genjuyouxiaogoutong，bicinenggougenghaodilejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuhetihui，weijinhoudeguanxifujiandaxiajichu。

　　第三步：考虑到技术专业协助

　　youshihou，qingganweijichaoguodajiagongzuonenglidefanchou。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，kaolvdaoxunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhushizhiguanzhongyaode。hunyinzixunshihuoxinlixuezixunshiyongyouzhuanyezhishihejineng，nenggoubangzhufufuchuliwenti、mianduikaoyanbingfujianxinren。tamenyeweinitigongyidingdebangzhuheshiyong，congergenghaodijiejuenanrenchuguisuochanshengdejiongjing。

　　第四步：重新建立制度和界限

　　fujianguanxibingbudengyugaobieguoqu，ershiyinggaichuangzaogengduozhiduhejiexian，yibaozhengjianglaidewendingxinghehemu。zheijiangbaokuochuangjiangengweizhenchenghetoumingsejiaoliufangshi，zhongxinshenshibicideqidaiyuxuqiu，jiqizhidinghelideguanshuhuoxianzhi。jianliqingchudejiexianheyaoqiu，keyizengqiangxinren，yucitongshifangzhixiangjindeqingkuangzaicichuxian。

　　第五步：时间与内心的自我疗愈

　　fujianxinrenhehuifuguanxishiyigemanzhangdeguocheng，zaizheiduanshijian，bixujiyuduifangyubanlvchongzukongjianheshijianlaiziwoliaoyu。liuyidaoneixinshenchudeqingxubianhua，tanxunshihezijifangfalaijianqingtongkuyugongzuoyali，rujianshenyundong、zaoxingyishu、mingxiangxunliandeng。yucitongshi，peiyangzijigerenxingquaihaoheshejiaoquanzi，bianyuweichibenrenzizhudeyuchengzhang。

　　ruguonanrenchuguilegaizenmeban，buguannanrenchuguidezhuyaoyuanyinzenyang，womendouyaojilao，renrendouyoufancuowuhehouhuizhipeiquan。fujianxinrenyuzhuiqiuwanhuidequedingbuyi，bixuliangrengongtongdefuchuhenuli。neiruguobicizhenxinshiyixiangyao，genjugoutongjiaoliu、renzhihejishuzhuanyexiezhu，dajiayouwangzainanrenchuguideyinmaizhongzaicidianranaihexinrendehuomiao。