感情咨询：怎么挽回出轨的老婆

　　zailihunbulijiadechangjingxia，zenyangwanhuilaopodexinshiyigeyanjundewenti。zenmewanhuichuguidelaopo？jinguanniyijinglihun，danniyiranxiwangyuqianqijianliyizhongjiankangdeguanxi，shenzhikenengzhongxinjianlihunyin。benwenjiangtigong6gejianyi，bangzhuniwanhuilaopodexin，zhongjiandajiazhijiandexinrenheganqing。

　　一、认错并承担责任

　　zailihundeguochengzhong，jiaruniyoucuo，neimenixuyaorenkebingchengdanzeren。zheibujinyouzhuyuniwanhuilaopo，yenengrangnibianchengyigegenghaoderen。dangnichengrenzijidecuowushi，nibiaoxianchuduiyiwangxingweidehuiguoheduiweilaidechengnuo。

　　二、保持理性与尊重

　　zaichangshiwanhuilaopodeguochengzhong，nixuyaobaochilixingyuzunzhong。buyaoshituqiangpotazuochurenhejuedinghuoxingdong。xiangfan，niyinggaizunzhongtadeganshouhejueding，bingyuanyidenghoutazuochujueding。tongguozhanshinidelengjinghezunzhong，nikeyijiangdichongtuheyali，jinerweizhongjianguanxichuangzaoyigegengweipinghedehuanjing。

　　三、展现积极的改变

　　ruguonixiangrangqianqikanjiannidegaibianbingshenzhongkaolvnimendeguanxi，neimenixuyaozhanxianjijidegaibian。zheiyiweizhenixuyaonuligongzuo，gaishanzijideshenghuo，binghetafenxiangnidejinbuhezaojiu。tongguozhanshijijidegaibian，nikeyirangtakanjiannidechengzhanghejinbu，congerzengjianiwanhuitadejihui。

　　四、维持沟通

　　goutongshizhongjianguanxideguanjian。nixuyaoyuqianqiweichikaifanghechengshidegoutong。fenxiangnideganshou、xiangfahedanyou，tongshilingtingtahuiying。tongguoweichigoutong，nikeyijianlixinrenyulijie，jinerweizhongjianhunyinchuangzaotiaojian。

　　五、寻求专业协助

　　jiaruniheqianqizaigoutonghuozhongjianguanxifangmianpengdaokunnan，neimexunqiuzhuanyexiezhushiyigezhengquedexuanze。hunyinzixunshihuoxinlizhiliaoshinenggoutigongzhidaohezhichi，bangzhunimenzaikunnanshiqixianghuzhichibingzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。tongguoxunqiuzhuanyexiezhu，nikeyijizijiheqianqichuangzaoyigegengjiajiankanghejijidehuanjing。

　　六、尊重她决定

　　zuizhong，zenmewanhuichuguidelaopo？nixuyaozunzhongtajueding。wuluntayuanbuyuanyishenzhongkaolvnimendeguanxi，nidouxuyaojieshouhezunzhongtadexuanze。tayaoshijuedingbuhenicongtoukaishi，nixuyaozunzhongtajuedingbingjixuqianjin。tongguozunzhongtajueding，nikeyibiaoxianchunidechengshuhezunzhong，tongshiweinimenbicichuangzaoyigegengjiajiankanghepingjingdejianglai。