判断真性分手和假性分手的方法

　　chuguidenanrenqishihenxinlei，yinweitamenshenfuwujinkuijiuyuhouhuimoji。zaizheiyangyigebuhaodexingweishenhou，yunzangzhebujiqishudefenqiyuzhengtuo。tamenyaomianlinbanlvdetongkuyuxinhan，haixuyaochengdanwaibudepingdinghezebei。zheileijingshenyaliyuqingganyaliwuxingzhizhongjiajuletadeshenghuoyali，rangtamengandaoyizhongnanyibaituodekunjing。jibianbiaomiankanqilaixinxinshizu，danneixindeshenshendipijuanwufayanshi。“chuguidenanrenqishihenxinlei”bianchengletamenzishiqiguodequanshi。

　　承受愧疚的厚重重负

　　chuguidenanrenqishihenxinlei，chuguidenanren，shijishangshenfuyizhongkuijiudehouzhongzhongfu。tamenzizhiziyidepanbiangerenxingweiduibanlvdaozhilesunhai，danzheizhongsunhaitongchangchaoguoyancinenggoubiaodachulaidefanchou。meimeikandaobanlvneifushangdeshenqing，meimeikandaobanlvweizijipanbianerkuqideshengyin，neixindounengbeishenshenciteng。zheileikuijiuhezuieganruyingsuixingdikunraozhetamen，xingchengleyigewufataolidexinlizhuangtaikunjing。

　　应对伴侣的痛苦与心寒

　　chuguidenanrenwubiyingduibanlvyintadepanbianjingliguodetongkuheyihan。banlvbenlaiqidaizheyitongchuangshedemeihaojiatinghexingfudeweilai，fanbeichuguiwushengwuxicuihuilelixiang。tadexinlaibeiwanquanchedihuihuai，neixindedaolejidazaochengdeshanghai。kanjianbanlvyicicichendaotongkudeshenyuan，nanshengshenganneijiuhefali。tamenneixinqipantianbubanlvxinlingshenchudewaishang，quewangwangwujikeshi，youyuchuangkouzaijiezhashoushuyewufachediquanyu。

　　承担外部的评定和责备

　　chuguidenanrenjingchangchengdanlaiyuanyuwaibudepingdinghezebei。bulunshiqinpenghaoyou、pengyou、huoshiwangluoyulun，doushiduidechuguiyongyouyanlidepengjixintai。tamenbeichengzuopanbianyujiatingbanlvdeqianguzuiren，zaoshouzhongrendetuomahezhize。zheileiwaibudeyalifumianfankuirangtamengandaoneijiuhebuzaiyouyu，yejinyibujiajuletamenneixindetongkuhexinliyali。danzheizhongpingdinghezebeihuirangtamenshenganxiaochen，zaochengbuzixindexintai。

　　没法摆脱的困境

　　chuguidenanrenmianlinmeifabaituodekunjing。bulunshiweibaochiyigejiatingdepingwen，huoshiweilejiejuebanlvzaochengdeshanghai，tamenwangwangdouhuixuanzechengshouneixindetongku，qinfenwanliubuzhengque。danshi，zheileizhengtuotongchangmeifasuibianwanbi。neixindefenqichixucuicanzheziji，tamenduizishenderengetezhiyujiazhichanshengzhiyi。yucitongshi，tamenzhengmianlinzheduizishengerenxingweichengdandeneizaizhuize。zheileikunjingshiketixingzijizheziji：chuguidedaijiashihennansuibiantaochude。

　　隐藏情感需求被释放

　　chuguidenanrenyeyaoshifangchulaiqiyanzangdeqingxu。tamenyidingyaozhaodaoyigeanquanziranhuanjinglaibiaoxianneixindemimanghetongku，xunzhaojingshenshangdeshiyongyulijie。hejiaren、pengyouhuozhejishuzhuanyexinlizixunshigongxiangneixindetiyan，huoxukeyizaijingshenshanghuodeshujiehehuanjie。yucitongshi，tamenyeyaodongdezhenzhenzhengzhengjienazijidebuzhengque，jiangchuguikanzuofazhandejihui，jinerzaichengzhangdedaolushangzhaodaoyizhonggengjiazhenzheng、gangzhengbuadexingshi。

　　寻找与伴侣的共同愿景

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，chuguidenanrenbixuzhongxinsikaozijihebanlvzhijiandeguanxi，bingxunzhaogongtongyuanjingdeyingzao。zheijiuyiweizhetamenxuyaodaliangdilingtingbanlvdeshengxiang，lejieduifangdeyaoqiuheqidai，erbujiangneixindeyuwangfangzhidiyiwei。weiyoutongguozhenxinchengyijiaoliuherangbu，nenggouchuangsheqiyizhonggengweilaokao、xiangduiwendingdeguanlian，yitongmaixiangxingfudeweilai。

　　汇总

　　chuguidenanrenqishihenxinlei，chuguidenanrenshenfukuijiu、yingduibanlvdetongku、chengdanwaibudezebeihepingding，tamenchuyuyizhongwufataolidekunjingdangzhong。danshi，tamenhaiyoujihuixunzhaoqingganshangdeshifangchulaiheneixindegaizao。genjuyingduibuzhengque、xunzhaoshiyongjiyubanlvgongtongfendou，huoxukeyizaikunjingzhongzhaodaoyitiaozhonggouxingfukuailedelumian。