冷爱观点：调教男朋友 鼓励比批判更有效

　　dangmianduinanrenchuguishi，nvxingyingdangzenyangchulizheiyiquweixingdewentini？ruguonanrenchuguilegaizenmeban？zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangtantaozenyangmianduizheiyiyanjundexianshi，bingtigongyixieyingduicuoshiyujianyi，xiezhushoushangyifangzhongjianxinren、jiejueqingxu、tuodangguanlijuece，bingzuizhongxuanzelezijideaiqing。bulunshixunqiuwaibuxiezhu、kaizhanxinlingliaoyu、zhongxinshenshiguanlian，huoshizuihouzuochushihezijideguanlijuece，zheizhongdounengchengweijiejuenanrenchuguizhijiongjingdeyouxiaoshouduan。rangwomenyiqitaolunzaizheizhongnijingzhong，zenyangzhaodaoxiwangyuxindeqidian。

　　面对男人出轨，寻求内心的宁静和理解

　　ruguonanrenchuguilegaizenmeban，dangyigenvrenfaxianzijiairenwaiyushi，zuichufanyingtongchangshichijingheyihan。ganqingdepanbianshiyizhongjidadechongji，lingrenshenxianshenshenditongchudangzhong。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，zuizhongyaodeshiyaobaochilixing，shitulejieshierbeihouyuangu。zheibingbushiweileweiwaiyuzhaoliyou，gengshiweilekandaizheizhongqingkuanggengtanranhelixing。

　　面对男人出轨，重新审视感情的前提

　　chuguishiyigeqingchudeshujuxinhao，shuomingcunyouganqingguanliandejiongjing。mianduinanrendebeipan，nvxingyibanyongqingxingdexintaizhongxinsikaozheiduanganqingdeshijixingheanquanxing。shifougenjuyitongdeguannianyumubiao？shifouyouchongzudezhongshiherenke？zhongxinshenshiganqingdeqiantishijiejuezheiyijushideguanjiansuozai。

　　面对男人出轨，维持自尊心和尊重自己的体验

　　beiqipianhepanbiandenvxingkenengjuedezizunzaoshouzhongcuo。danzuizhongyaodeshiyaozhidao，chuguishinanxingdetiaoxuanyiwu，bingbudengyunvxinghaibugouhao。weichizizunxinshifujianzixinyuqingxushenxinjiankangdediyibu。yucitongshi，zaiduidaizheiyiduanganqingkaoyanshi，yexuyaozunzhongzijidetiyanyuxuqiu。

　　面对男人出轨，对外开放沟通交流以寻求解决方法

　　zaiganqingzhong，goutongjiaoliushihenzhongyaode。dangnvxingfajuenanrenchuguishi，duiwaikaifangerchengxindejiaoliubiandegengjiazhongyao。yuairenzhenchengditaolunhaizidexingweihetihui，jiqizheihuiduiguanlianchanshengdeyingxiang。zheikeyixiezhubicigenghaodilejiebicizhijiandeguandian，bingxunqiujiejuewentifangfa。

　　面对男人出轨，寻求技术专业支持和鼓励

　　jiejuenanrenchuguisuochanshengdexinliyinyingbingfeiyishi，zheishiyigejiankudequanguocheng。zaizheiguochengzhong，xunqiujishuzhuanyexinlizixunshihuohunyinshenghuozixunguwendedalizhichishihenyoubangzhude。tamennenggoutigongkeguanjianjie，jutizhidaoxiufurentonghejiejuefuzaqingxudebanfa。

　　面对男人出轨，永远不要忘记自身价值和美好

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，bulunzenyangjiejuenanrenchuguidejushi，nvxingyaosuishijilaozishenjiazhihexingfujiushibuketidaide。buguanquedingshifouyoubiyaozheiduanganqing，zuizhongyaodeshiyaotiaoxuanduitamenzuiyouhaochudelumian，bingqieweizijideaiqingchengdan。

　　ruguonanrenchuguilegaizenmeban，buguanzenyang，jiarunanrenbeipanlexinren，mianduinanrenchugui，zuizhongyaodeshiyaobaochilixinghelixing。xunqiuneixindeningjinghelijie，zhongxinshenshiganqingdeqianti，weichizizunxinhezunzhongzijidetiyan，duiwaikaifanggoutongjiaoliuyixunqiujiejuefangfa，xunqiujishuzhuanyezhichiheguli，yongyuanbuyaowangjizishenjiazhihemeihao。zheixiedoushijiejuenanrenchuguideguanjianyinsu，zuihouxiezhunvxingzainijingzhongzhaodaoshuyuzijidenenglianghemeihao。