导师精选：女人怎样撒娇，才能让感情保鲜？

zuijinkandaoyigetucao：xiandairendeaiqingjiuxiangyiwansushimian，qianjikoutebiexiang，chidaohoumiandaoshiyuelaiyuefawei。

 womenpingzhebennengxihuanlingyigeren，danmeiyouzhangwozheifenxihuandenengli，budongzenmebiaoda。youqishizai“duliziqiang”、“nvqiangren”dengxinnvxingbiaoqiandeguoduguchuixia，sajiaoshiruobeihenduorenbuxieyigu。

shishishang，sajiaofanershiganqingzhongdebaoxianji。

一、撒娇是一种情绪情感表达

《sajiaonvrenming》limianyougetinghuodesajiaogeng：

“tutuzheimekeai，zenmekeyichitutu？”

 nanzhudenvpengyoushenansajiaozhidao，cihuayichu，nanzhubianmeizhe，jimangquhongtanvpengyou，batadepengyou，sajiaojueyuanti，anliannanzhudenvzhuliangzaileyipang。

二、撒娇要适当，更要真实

dangran，wulunduirenheshiqinglaijiangyuemanzekui。sajiaoguodule，caishi“zuo”he“wuliqunao”。

 ouersasajiao，nanrenhuijuedexinxian，huiduiniyouqiubiying，ruguonizhengtianmeishijiuduitasajiaonanrenyehuigandaoyanfan、shenzhipijuan，yinweizheizhongbushisajiao，shi“guodusuoqu”。

 fadiazhishisajiaodebiaomian，bingbushisajiaobenshen。zuirangnanrenzhimingde，bushinvrendeyanzhiheshencai，ershinvrenbenshendemeili。

 gaojidesajiaoshiyizhonghenlingdongdexingwei，baokuoleyigenvrendejiaomei、wenrou、qingqu、tantu、zitaidengdeng，zheixiedoushijianlizaizirandeqiantixiabiaoxianchulaide。zhiyouziranliuludedongxi，caihuixianhuo。

 sajiaobuxuyaozhangpiandalun，tongchangzhiyaoyilianggejiandandeyuqicijiuxingle，liru“yi、he、yo、xi…”，shuodeshihouzaipeihezhitidedongzuo，shentiyaofangruan，shengyinyaofangqing，zirandibiaodachunidexuqiu。

jugezuizhiguanjiandandelizi：

nimenzaiyiqichifan，yinweitameiyoujinijiacai，nijiunaoqingxu。

jizhunaoqingxu，budengyufapiqi。

 zheishinichuizhenaodai，menmenbule。tawenni：shibushicaibuhekouwei？niyaotou。tayouwenni：shibushigongzuobushunxin？niyaotou。

 zuihouwenni：daodizenmele？nikelianbabadetaiqilai，zixingxuanyigezuimeidejiaodu：niyiqiandouyaojiwojiacai，jintianquemeiyou，woyebuxiangzheiyang，kejiushihaoshiluo，ganjueyaoshiqunile。

yibanqingkuangxia，nanrenyouliangzhongfanying：

diyizhong，renjunbujin。bianxiaobianjinijiacai，ranhouanweini，hongni。

 dierzhong，kuxiaobude。jijuedenikeai，youjuedenixiaotidazuo。neizhongnvxingdexiaoxinyanhuolinghuoxian，nanrenhuijuedehenxinqi。

 bushibukeyizijijiacai，danshigengxiwangduifangzhidao，zijihenzhongyao。woduiniwenroutitie，tongshiyexiwang，yezhidexiangshoudaonidechongai。zheiyouhechangbushiganqingzhongdezengtianji？ qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

三、你可以这样“撒娇”

sajiao，shinvxingteyoudemeili。

yiduanhaodeganqinglibukaizhangqidexianghuxiyin，sajiaozhishiqizhongdeyizhong，youxiaodanshiduanzan。

neimeruhejiang“sajiao”dexiaoguoyanzhangni？dajiabufangshizhecankaoyixiajidian：

1、保持适当的距离

wulunniduomexihuanyigenanren，douxiangyaohetazaiyiqi，nibuyaoshikenianzheta。

 yinweixihuanyigerenkandejiulejiuziranhuiyanjuan，jiuruhunyinzhongdeqinglvyiyang，tamentiantiandaizaiyiqizhanzaiyiqi，zuizhongzhihuirangbiciyuelaiyuetaoyanduifang。

 lianggerenzaiyiqi，wulunduomeenaitianmishijianyizhang，dangbaduifangdeyoudianquanbudoutansuowanbizhihou，kandaodejiushiduifangdequedian。

yidannizaiduifangshenshangzhaodaodezhiyouquedian，meiyouyoudiandeshihou，nijiuhuifaxiantabingbushiniaideyangzi。

 suoyizailianaideshihou，yidingyaobaochishidangdejuli，buyaozhengtiandounizaiyiqi，zheizhihuirangnimenzhijiandehaogandusuoduan，shenzhiwanquantaobuguoshijiandejuli。

2、duozengjiafenkaidejihui

 shidangduozengjiafenkaidejihui，rangyigenanrenxiangnianni，jinanrenzaochengyizhongruojiruolideganjue，tayueshixiangyaozhuazhu，yuebunengwanquanyongyou。

 bushiwanquanbujitaxiwang，ershizaitanengkandaoxiwangdedifang，tameizouyibujiunengdedaoxiexumanzu，keyoubunengwanquanyongyouni，zheiyangtajiubuhuitingzhizhuixunnidejiaobu，ziranainidexinjiubuhuikongxianle。

 shidangzaixiangchujiudeshihoufenkaiyixia，rangbicizaifenkaideshihoumingbai，duifangzaizijixinlidezhongyaoxing，caihuiyiciyouyicidetixingduifang，yuanlaitashenaideshini，taxinlixiangderenyeshini，zheiyangcaibuhuiranglianggerenzhijiandeaiqingyishicainengxianghuaiyibeizi。

3、huochuziwo，rangtayizhizhuixunnidejiaobu

 zaiganqingdeshijieli，xiangyaoyizhixiyinyigenanrenduinidezhuyili，jiubudeburangzijishenshangbaochiyifenshenmihexinxiangan，zheiyangcainengxiyinnanrendemuguangyizhitingliuzainideshenshang，rangtajuedenishishenmide，youtaxiangyaotanzhidedongxi，tajiuhuigenzhenidebufayizhiqianjin，yongyuanbuhuiduicishilexingqu。

erchengweinizijijiushibaochixinxiangandefangfa。

peiyangzijideaihao，dongdebiaodazijideganshou，youzijidexiangfadengdengdoushihuochuziwodedianxingbiaoxian。

 yigenvrennenggouzhuazhunanrendexin，liyoukeyiyouhenduo，keyishiniyangmaoshencaihao，yekeyishiniwenrouxianhuititieren。danzuiweizhongyaodeshiyinweinishiniziji，duyiwuerderen。

 womenaiziji，liancuiruodeneibufenyeaizhe，tanrandijieshouziji，huoxuyenengzaiyicixiangzijibanlvzirandisajiao——woxiangxinninenggouhewoyiqibaohuwocuiruodebufen。

 nvrenshenglaikeai，yuanwomenyouyitiandounengyongbaozijineixindeneigeshaonv，ganyukeai，gengzhidebeiai，rangzheiweikeailingdongdeshaonvweiwomendeganqingbuduandailaishengmingli。

文| 刘裕琪