导师精选：识别男人爱的真与假，你得这样做！

 guanyuaiqing，youzheimeyizhongmiaoshu：zhenshideaiqingshiyizhongqieerbushedeqinggan，weiyoushijiancaishiaiqingdeshijinshi。weiyouchaofantuosudeai，caiganjingdeqishijiandejiance。meigenvrenduiyuaiqingdoubaoyouzhelangmandehuanxiang，xiwangyudaoderendoushiduideren，duizijishizhenai。

 suhuashuo，rijiujianrenxin，nanrenduinishizhenaihaishijiaai？nanrenduinishixinganqingyuanhaishifengchangzuoxi？shijianjiuledouhuikanchulai。

cengkanguozheimeyigegushi：

xiaofeizaiyigeourandejihuiyudaoleyigenansheng，xiangchuleyigexingqihou，feichangshunlidejinxinglejiaowang，bingfashengguanxi。

xiaofeiduitayiwangqingshen，shenxinbuyi，henbudejiangzijidesuoyoudoutuofujizheigenanren。

 danzaitamenjiaowangbudaoyigeyuedeshihou，nanpengyoujiukaishixiangxiaofeijieqian，meicidoushiyiliangbaiyiliangbaidejie，dangshidexiaofeichenjinzainanpengyoudeailianzhong，juedezheishizhenai，xiangxinta，suoyijiujiele，erqieconglaimeiyouhaiguo。

youyijuhuaqishishuodemanduide：beiaiqingchonghunletounaodenvrenzhishangwei0。

houlaixiaofeicaizhidao，zijijiejinanpengyoudeqian，quanbubeinanpengyouyonglaihelingyigenvrenkaifangle。

 xiaofeifeichangdeshangxin，juedezijibeitaokong、beitouzhileyiyang，suiranzijizhendehenaita，danhaishitongxiajuexinfenshou。yinweitazhidaozheizhongaigenbenjiubushizhenai，ershijiaai。

danxianshizhongbushihenduonvrenkeyixiangxiaofeizheiyangkeyikanqingbingjishizhisun。

dabufendenanrendoushishanyuweizhuangdedongwu，youshihouyigenanrenaibuaiwomen，dancongtadeyanyuhennankanchu。

gengkebeideshi，henduonvren，doushiyongerduotanlianai，nanrendesanliangjutianyanmiyuzongnengbatamenhongdetuantuanzhuan。

 dangran，zheiyangdenvrenbunengshuosha，yinweizaimianduiqitarenheshideshihou，tashenmedounengkantou，zhiyouzaixihuandenanrenmianqian，taxinganqingyuandichenmiyuzheiyangdeaiqinghuangyanzhong。

aidetaishen，huirangnvrenwangjileyaoyongxinquganshounanren。

bushisuoyounanrendouhuixiangwomenaitayiyanglaiaiwomen，shenzhiyoudenanrengenbenjiubuaiwomen。

 suoyinvren，weilerangzijibuzaiaiqinglishoujinshanghai，weilebuaicuoren，fucuozhenxin，womenyidingyaonongmingbai，neigekoukoushengshengshuoaiwomendenanren，jiujingshizhendeaiwomenhaishijiazhuangaiwomen！

四、给你足够的坦诚和执行力

yigenanrenzhendeaiwomen，neimetahuihenbudebaxintaochulaijiwomenkan，jueduibuhuishederangwomenkukujiujiehebaibancaice。

yinweitahaipazheiyangdecaicehuirangwomenbuan，tayezhidaocaiyihuijiyijiganqingdailaibubiyaodewuhuihequjie。

ruguotahenzaihuwomen，neijiuhuirangwomengandaotashiheanquan，buhuirangwomenzaiwuduanhefanfudecaicezhongxiaomobicideganqing。

 zaibicidexiangchuli，tahuiduiwomentanchengxiangdai，huiweilewomenjujuesuoyoudeaimei，huiqingliganjingzijidepengyouquan，jiwomengongkaimingfen，huijiangwomenchongchenghaiziyiyang，rangwomenmeiyouduoyidejihui，bulunwomenfashengshenme，douzhidaotazai。

五、是否会尊重我们

yigenanrenruoshiaiwomen，jiubuhuikongzhiwomen。

zhenzhengdeai，bingbushi：“nibuyongshangban，woyangni。ershinengjiwomenziyou。rangwomenzuozijixiangzuodeshiqing”。

youqishizaiaiqinghehunyinguanxili，nanrenjiyunvrenyidingdezunzhong，caihuirangbicideguanxipingwendefazhanhebaochi。

 jiuhaoxiang，youdejiatingpingshizuojiawudeshihounanrenhuiduochengdanyixie，yinweijiawubushinvrende“zhuanshu”，nandejiuyinggaizuoge“shuaishouzhangju”shenmedoubuzuo。

zunzhongnvrenjiushilijienvren，jiushiguanxinnvren，zainannvguanxizhongjiushiai。renhemeiyouzunzhongdeguanxidoushiwufazhangjiude。

dangran，nanrenzunzhongnvrenyeshifangfangmianmiande。

 meiyiciyuehui，tadouhuitiqianwenwomenshenmeshihouyoukong，huizaiyuehuidangtianzhunshichuxianzaixiangyuededidian，zheidoushizunzhongwomendebiaoxian。

六、未来的规划里有没有我们

yigenanren，ruguobubawomenfangjintaweilaideguihuali，neime，tayidingshibuxiangquwomen。

 weilaiguihuayouwomendeneigenanren，yidingshihenaiwomen。yinweitazhidaomuqiannengjidaowomendebingbuduo，danshitahuinuli，gaosuwomenzaijianglai，shiyouguihuade，erqiewomenyezaitadeguihuazhong，binghuiyiqichaozhezheigeguihuaqianjin。

“womenyiqiquweilai，nizaiwodeweilaili”shiyijulangmaneryouanxindeqinghua。

 yiduanhaodeganqingshizheiyangde，buguanshisheizaishoudaoweiquhuozhetongkudeshihou，douxiwangduifangnenggoujiyuanweiyuguli；youkuailexiyuedeshihouhuidiyishijianxiangdaoduifang，bingjiangkuailexiyuefenxiang。

 bicidexinlidouyouzhebici，duiduifangdeailianzangbuzhu，huicongyanjingli、yuyanli、shentilipaochulai，henbudejiangjintiandiaoleduoshaogentoufadougaosuduifang。

aiqingshijiaohuheronghedeguocheng，shigoutonghejiaohuandexiezuo，erbushizhanweijiyoudekongzhi。

suoyourangzijijuedebushufu、bukuaile、buxihuandeganqingdoushibushizhenai。

 zhenzhenjiajiadechayi，jinjinkansifansuo。yikezhenzhidexinheyikexuqingjiayidexin，zongshiyouchayide，erjudongwangwangshineizaishijiedewaizaitixian。

womendouhuihuodeyuelaiyuewenhe。zhenzhengainidenanren，pajinidebugouduo，bugouainidenanren，shengpaniyaodetaiduo。

yusheng，duibuaizijideren，chenzaofangshou，xuanzeheaizijiderenzaiyiqi。

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