学会这些交流技巧 让你成为交际达人

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一、坦诚相待

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二、切记情绪用事

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三、正能量一点

四、要懂得聆听

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五、感情交流的另一个禁忌就是打破砂锅问到底

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六、四大交流技巧让你成为交际达人

1、随身携带纸笔

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2、用衣着品味说话

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3、穿舒服的鞋子

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4、摆脱尴尬时刻

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