如何提高情商聊天技巧 提高情商说话技巧

wulunjiali.xuexiaohaishiganggangjinruzhichang，wulunzhencheng.qingganhuoyouqing……zaiwomendeshenghuozhong，womenjuedaduoshudedanyouhehuaiyi、fennuhemishi，yijigenbendeyuanyindoulaiziyuwomenruheyutarenyiqiyingyongchengxu.shangtao.zhengchao.shuofu。

tigaoqingshangshuohuajiqiao，shuohuahenyouxuewen，tongyangdeshiqing，tongyangdeshiqing，tongyangdeshiqing，wuxudeshunxu，diaozhengyuqi，huozhehuangechangdideng。，doushiweilebaozhengbutongdeyuqixiaoguo，ranhouyiqixuexihexunlianyuyanjineng。

1.赞美不是你自己

liru，ruguolingyifangshichushi，buyaoshuo：nizhendeshiyigeyouxiudechushi。taxinliyouhenduochushibitahao。danshiruguonigaosutanihuizaiyizhouzhongdeyibanshijianqutadecanting，zheishiyizhongfeichangjingzhidefengcheng。

2.根据第三方的描述

ruguoduifangzaibierenduanduanxuxuditingdaonidezanyang，neibinilijigaosuzijiyaoduodeduo。xiangfan，ruguonizemaduifang，buyaogenjudisanfanggaosubeishangsuren，yimianjiayouhecu。

3.礼貌的话也应该说得恰到好处

limaodehuayushibiaodanidegongjingheganxie，suoyiyaoyoufencun。henduorenweinizuoleyidianxiaoshi，ruguonishuoxiexie。.duibuqi，neijianshimafannile。duiyurencaibuzudexuexi，qingduoduozhijiao。zheizhongquefaganqingdelimaohuayu，keyibimian。

4.解决别人的赞美，说声谢谢

 dangputongrenshoudaobiaoyangshi，tamenzhongdedaduoshurendouhuihuidadehenhao!huozhedaizheweixiao。zuihaoshizhenchengdijieshouduifang，binglijiduiduifangshuoxiexie。youshiduifanghuichengzanwomendeyifuhuodongxi。ruguotashuo：zheizhishiyigebianyidelaiyuan!xiangfan，zheihuirangduifangnankan。

5.欣赏竞争对手的优雅

dangnideduishouhuozhetaoyanderenshoudaobiaoyangshi，buyaojizheshuo:danshi，jishiniburentongduifang，biaomianshanghaishiyinggaishuo：shia，tahennuli。zhanshizijideyouya。

6.责骂也要看关系

zhongchengbuyidingduierduobuhao。jishinixindishanliang，duifangyekenengbuxinshangshenzhiwujienideshanliang。chufeiniduilingyifangyouyidingdeganqinghuoxinren，fouzenibuxuyaosuiyipiping。

7.责骂可以很悦耳

bijiaorongyijieshoudechenghushi：“guanyunide…，yexunikeyitingtingwodeyixiexiangfa。”

8.时间点很重要

zhouyizaoshangbuyao。jibenshang，daduoshurendouyouzhouyiyiyuzhengdezhengzhuang。ciwai，zaizhouwuxiabanqianbuyaosunhaiduifangzhoumoheshujiadexinli。

9.注意场地

meiyoubiyaozaibierenmianqiangongranzemazijidepengyouhuopenyou，zheiyangdehuasixiaguanmenjiukeyile。

10.还明确表示建议

tigaoqingshangshuohuajiqiao,chuletichupipingzhiwai，haiyaotigongbeimiandegaijinjianyi，zheiyangcainengrangnidexunchigengyouganranli。