youneimeduoganxingderen,xihuanyurenzuoganqingdejiaoliu,yinweizheiyangkeyilajinrenyurenzhijiandeguanxi,cujinganqing,danbutaihuibiaodaderenhuiliyongqitafangshibiaodazijideganqing,biru:wenbihaodehuibazijidegushixiechengqinggansanwen,gongdajiayuedu,kewangdedaodajiaderenke,yushi,jiuyoudaliangdeqingganwenxueyongchu。
zheishijiehenfuza,fuzadaoxuyaojingchangdongdongnaozi。kanqingchuhenduoshiqing,bushiweilekanqingbieren,ershiweile,rangzijigengqingsong。jiangzijidegushishuojidajiating,xiechengqinggansanwen,zuoxieqingganjiaoliu,yexuzheixiegushihuigaibianqitaderen 。
nihuibazijidegushibianhuachengqingganwenxuezuopin,haishiyurenmenmianduimiandizuoqingganduibaini?qishi,haixiuderenwangwangbuzhidaozenmeyurenmianduimiandizuoqingganduibai,danshizheibingbushibunengxuexide。
一、如何进行情感交流
youderenbenshenhenshanliang,dairenyehenyouhao,danshizhenzhengguanxihaodepengyouquehenshao。ruguowomenguanchayixiatamendeliaotianxiguandehuajiuhuifaxian,tamenbuguanhesheiliaotian,doushizaichuzaiyizhongyibenzhengjingtanshiqingdezhuangtai,congbuqingyixiangbierentouluzijideneixinganshouheqinggan,yebuguanzhubierendeganshouheqinggan。
zheiyangdegoutongxiguanhuidaozhi,bierenduizijidelejiedouhenqianxian,bierenhuishuo:zheigerenbucuo,danbingbushihenlejie。
dangwomenshuolejiedeshihou,biaomianshangshishuolejiezheigerendeyixiexinxiheqingkuang,qishizhenzhengdehanyishi,lejiezheigedeneixindeqinggan。
jinjinshixinxidejiaohuanshiyingdebulezhenzhengdeyouyide,zhenzhengdeqinmiyidingshiyuanyulianggerenqingganshangdebiaoluhexianghujiaoliu。neime,womenzenmezuocainengshixianqingganshangdejiaoliuni?
1、用同理心倾听
yibanqingkuangxia,womenhuiqutingduifangjiangleshenmehua,danshibuhuikaolvzheixiehuabeihouyunhandeshishenmeyangdeganshou。ertonglixinjiushizhanzaiduifangdelichangshang,sheshenchudidesikaoduifangdelichang,bingtiyanduifangdeganshou。
zhiyouwomentongguorenzhendeqingting,lejieleduifangsuoshuohuayudehanyi,yetihuidaoleduifangdeganshou,cainengzhidaogaijinxingshenmeyangdeqingganhuiying。
jiarukanbudaoduifangdeqinggan,shibukenengzhenzhengshixianqingganshangdejiaoliude。henduofeichangshanyubiaoda,danshigoutongdexiaoguoquechaqiangrenyi,yuanyinjiushishuodetaiduo,erbuyuanquqingtingheganshouduifang,yinerzhishiyigerendebiaoyaneryi。
2、xuehuijiaoliuganshou,erbujinjinshishiqing
guoyuguanzhuduicuoderen,zhuyiliwangwanghuijuxianzaishiqingdeluojiheshifeidangzhong,zheiyangdebiaodabijiaolixing,yeshiyizhongnenglidezhanxian。danshi,lixingdebeimianqishishilengmo。neixieguoyukanzhongduicuo,feichangyanjindejiating,shenghuodefenweiwangwangshiqueshaohuolide,yinweidajiazhihuitanlunshiqing,erbushitanzaiyijianshiqingshangbicideganshou。
meiyouganshoujiumeiyouqinggan。suoyi,genghaodejiaoliufangshishi,zaitanshiqingdeguochengzhong,duoshuoyixiazijideganshou,tongshiyexunwenyixiaduifangdeganshou。shiqingzhishishiqing,danshiganshouzhixiangdeshiren,ganshoudejiaoliubeihou,qishijiushizhenzhengderenyurenzhijiandejiaoliu。
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