怎么讲讨人喜欢的话

 yurenchucijianmiandeshihou，zenmetaorenxihuan，rangduifangjizhuzijini，zuijiandandebanfashirangduifangjizhuzijimingzi。jiubiru，duizijidemingzizuojiandan，danrongyibeijizhudejieshao：“woxingjie，jieerliansandejie，renshiwonihuiyoujieerliansandehaoyun。”neimetaorenxihuandehuayaozenmeshuoni？

一、直呼对方的名字

 oumeirenshuohuashichangshuo：“shimisixiansheng，keyilaibeikafeima？”“shimisixiansheng，guanyuzheidian，nidexiangfaruheni？”jiangduifangmingziguazuibian。bukesiyideshi，zheizhongzuofashiduifangyongqiqinmigan，youqishidangnimenbushuxishi，hanchuduifangmingzi，huijiduifangjingxi。

二、保持微笑

 zenmetaorenxihuan？keyiduoduoweixiao。hebierendiyicijianmian，nvrendezanmeiheweixiaohuiyouzhongweimiaodeliliang。moshengpengyoubeiniweixiaoganran，juedenishiyouqinhelidenvren。niduitazanmei，rangbicicongmoshengrenbianchengpengyou。

三、记住对方说的话

 jizhuduifangshuodehua，shihoutichulaizuohuatiyeshibiaoshiguanxindezuofa。youqixingqu、shihao、mengxiangdeng，duiduifanglaishuo，shihenzhongyaoyouqudeshiqing，tichulaizuohuati，duifanghuijuedehenyukuai。

四、适当表达你的瑕疵

 taorenxihuandehuayekeyishidudishuoyixiazijidequedian。biaodaxiacikeyiyingdeguanzhu。shijishangyidingdianxiacizheyanbulebenrendeguanghui。“zheigerenyouxiaoquedian，danqitafangmiantiaobuchumaobing，shigebucuoderen！”leisizheiyangdexiangfanengshenshenzhirutaxinzhong。

五、不过分掩饰自己

 buyaoyanshiziji，bazijizuizhenshidexinggezhanxianduifang。buxiangrangduifangkantouziji，juededuifangfaxianzijiruodianshizaogaodehouguo，keshizheiyangzuodejieguoshi，nishufuziji，yebuchangsuoyuyanziyoubiaoxian。baxinggedezhenshiyimianzhanshiduifang，buhuiyoutaiduogulvle。

六、坐在对方的旁边位置

 henduonvrenhemoshengrendiyicijianmian，nanyixiaochuxintai：weijuhejinzhang。renzaijiaotanshizuozaipangbianweizhi，youyububiyishidaoduifangdeshixian，biyaoshijiechuduifangshixian，rongyifangsongxialai。

 yinci，chucijianmiandeduifangzengjiaqinqieganshi，bikaimianduimiandejiaotanfangshi，yingjinliangzuotapangbianweizhi。yurenchucijianmian，huodebierenhaoganbuerfamenshibahuashuodeqiao。tongchangshejiaoguanxiguangfanderendoushiyantanlinghuo，chucijianmiannengjirenhaoyinxiangderen。