懂的八个说话技巧 跟喜欢的人聊天技巧

 genxiangqinduixiangweixinliaoshenme？dangzheierzhongrendoufashengzaiyigecanzhuoshangdeqingkuangxia，duiqinqipengyouyaogengshoulianxing，duishengrenyaoduoxunwen，jinyoubawolebixudejibenshangsucaitupiannicaikeyifenbianzheigerenshiyigeyansurenzhenderen，huoshiyigeaizengfenmingderen。bawoxianduhuigengjingque。genxihuanderenliaotianjiqiao，guanxintitieyouburoumadehua。

1、应对“陌生人”和“亲戚朋友”，备好两个聊天系统软件

bukeyiyouyuyouqinqipengyoudaochangzhuyaobiaoxiandehaowuguji，zuihoutongchangshidiushipenyoudelianmian，yediushizishende。

2、不做闭环控制回应，把话头丢回来

 juedaduoshurendaotichuwentideqingkuangxia，doushihuixuanzishenjiaoweishanyudeyibufen，batawendenantipaojitamen，lingyifanghenkaixin，niyeledeyouxian。zhengzhongjiannizhibixujiayixie，“shibushi？”“a？”“zhihouzenmeyangle？”zheiyihuatitaolunjiukenenghuiliaohaozhangshijian。

 bumingbaimeishier，meishenmebigaozhiyigebumingbai，quezhuyaobiaoxiandehenyouxingquaihaoderenjiangnishanyudeshi，lingrengaoxingdele。

3、“很抱歉我说话较为立即”，是最不尽人意的表述

renheshikedoubieqidainishuolelijidehuayihou，yong“henbaoqianwoshuohuajiaoweiliji”jiukeyibasunhaijianshaodaozuishao。

 dajiazhinengjizhunidesunhai。yinciruguonizhunbeishuozhonghuaranglingyifangjingjue，yongjianduandoushihuibizheiwanjiugengyouyong。shuoqijiubiehaipasipolianpi，yaoganjuezhongjiubuyaoshuo。

delehuasuanhaixuyaomaiguai，jianglezhonghuahaiqidailingyifangmashangkuanrongni，zheiquanshibutaikenengde。

4、每一个人都喜爱被赞美，可是尽可能别超出三句

kuazanduolebingbushikanqilaijia，bianshihuikanqilaishengfen。kuazanyaofazifeifu，danyaozhuzhongfangfa。

 youshi“nijintianmiansetebiehao”huibi“nichuanzheiyijianyifukuzizhenpiaoliang”yaohaoyong，youyunongbuhaoniyebujidetashifouzuorichuanleyiyangyijianyifu。

duinvshengeryan，lijiguoduodekuazanhuiyishihuodehaogandu，yihouhuiluogeyouqianghuadiaodeyinxiang。

5、假如不愿回应，反问到是最好是的回应

 zongshihuiyouyixiebuzhangxiaobiannaizhiqianzhangfanshejiaomanderenlaiwenyixieshininankanhuoshijiushinibufangbianhuiyingdenanti，zheigeshihouninenglijiyongyuanhuatitaolunfanwendaota，shizheqianyiyixiazhuanzhuliyeshiduilingyifangdeyizhongtishi。

jiarulingyifangbianshixiangdaposhaguowendaodi，neijiarunibuyuanhuiying，yejiuwuxuzailiuyudi。

6、聊天的“浅谈论话题”，来自于每日的残片阅读文章

zheiyiyouqiheshineileitongshiguanxi，xiawuzaiyiqichifan，zhongwuzaicanqupengdao，youshihouxiantanyiliangjuxiaomonankan。

 xiangbiliaopengyoudetaosexinwen、laozongdebagua，haibibushangmeitianhuafeishifenzhongfangwenyixiameiridexinwenbaodao、baguaxinxi，bianhuibianchengzuijibenshangdetanlunhuati。

7、塑造一两个小喜好，让它变成你话题讨论的一部分

 baxiaoshiniguishuyugongzuozhong，baxiaoshizhiwainiguishuyuzishen，zenyangfengfuduocaizishenshinengfouhaohaodiliaotiandezhujian。yueduwenzhang、gequ，zheizhongwupinyoushitiaoqunti，bingbingbushimeigerendounengshangxiheyougongmingdian。zuoshitimoxing，soujibiaobencaijiyeshiyouqixiaozhonglengmen，kenengyejinyoutongaihaocaikeyigongxiang。keshitesemeishi、yingpian，zheizhongjuedaduoshurendoushihuishezuhenengfabuzishendeguandian。

 shizhexuanyiliangxiangjiaoweidajiadeshiquzuo，huifeichangrongyishinizaiquntilihuodedaliangganenhuikuidexiangsheng。xiangbianweiyigefayangouweideren，qingxiancongfengfuduocaizishenderichangshenghuozhujian。

8、在话题讨论的末尾，把话题讨论抛给下一个人

ruguonidejianghuaguozhangshi，qingshizhezaihuatitaolundemoweibahuatitaolunpaojixiayigeren。

 nizaisuonanmianpengdaoyigenijiaoweishanyudehuatitaolun，huoshinilejiedebijiaoduodehuatitaolun，bianchenghuatitaolundeguanlizhongxinyemeiyoushenmebutaihao，keshijiaruxinlishiyigejiaoweipianneixiangxinghaixiuderen，zongganjuehuatitaolunshuozheshuozhejiujiangwanle，buqingchuruhejiegewei。neimejiushizhebahuatitaolunpaojitarenqumowei。

 liruwufanyouxierentidaomouyidapaimingxing，danniqiahaojiandaoyigetajinqidebagua，nixinggaocailiedijiangwanyoutaoyanzheiyihuatitaolunjieshuzaizishenzheili，bibushanghoubianjiayiju，danshinishizenmezhujianxiaitade？huoshishi，tajinqibingbushihaiyanleyigeshenmedianshijulaizheme？nijuederuhea？genxiangqinduixiangweixinliaoshenme？genxihuanderenliaotianjiqiao，guanxintitieyouburoumadehua。