跟喜欢的人聊天技巧 超实用的聊天技巧

 genxiangqinduixiangweixinliaoshenme？fajuebierenshuoshuocuohuoshizhengchuzaiyigenankanjushideqingkuangxia，conghuihuishuohuaderenhuijijibahuayuanyiwang，titarenjieleweihaihuodeletarendehaogandu。bufangwenzheiyangderenzaishejiaohuodongzhongweishenmehuichibukaini。haiyouderentinglekaishi，yingdangjiulejielingyifangxiayijuhuashuoqinaxie，keshitaconglaibudoujiling，huiweilingyifangbaocunneifen“boxueduocai”dexiaochunfengdeyi。genxihuanderenliaotianjiqiao，guanxintitieyouburoumadehua。

1.看透不说透，给他人留余地。

 shuobailegaoqingshang，congbushihuijianghuaneimejianyi，zhishimingbaizaishenmeshihoubishangzui，bazijikantoudeneiyibufenfangdaoduli，baohutarendelianmian。youyijuhuahenjingdian：“dajiahuale2nianxuehuishuohua，queyaohuashangliushinianlaixuehuibizui。”

2.赞美别人要用心，最好是实际地赞扬关键点。

 youyixierenzanmeibierenhengongshifa，yidianyebuzhenxinshiyi，neiyangdezanyanghaowujiazhi。dajiazhenxiangzhezanmeibierendeqingkuangxia，yidingyaoyongxin，youyunidezhenxinshiyizanmeibierenshiyidingkeyiganshoudaode，erqieyehuijiazhongduinidehaogandu。lirunizanyangyigerenshencaimiaotiao，bibushangxiniyidian，zhijieshuo：nideshencaibililiefeichanghao，tuihenzhi。kuabierenkanqilaimeiburushuoshinideshuangyanzhenhaokan，bilianggaoqiao，kuabierenconghuiburushuoshinidexuexidefangfahengaoxiaolv。

 xihuanyigechuangzuozhe，kuachuangzuozhelihaiwencaifeichanghao，tarenhuijuedeshiyizhongpubiandekeqihua。danjiarunijiangchutawenzhangneirongzhongnayiduanhuayouqirangzishenyougongmingdiandediqu，qidideng，naizhiliuyanbanliuyanzaizhaichaokaobeiyibian，chuangzuozheyidinghuihendadong。qishidewenbenniqueshixiaia，yeshiyouyuwoyiyangniantoudeyueduzhea。tahuiganjuenizhenxinshiyi，bingqiezishendetouruhuodelejudadehaowuyiwen。

3.先毫无疑问后否认

 dahuoerzaiyiqitaolun，haowuyiwenyongyuefayan。youxierenfabuzishendejianyishiwuluntarenshuoxieshenme，diyijuhuakendingshi“budui”、“nijuededebingbushi”，yigebuzixianchurukou，dajiadoutaoyanhezheiyangderenjianghua。sheixiaibeibierenfourena。danjiaruhuangefangshi，xianshuolingyifangfeichangzhidehaowuyiwendedian，liru“nizheileiniantouyeshinenggoude，danjutiqingkuang···”、“nijuededefeichanghao，danwojuedetaolundeshi···”。neiyangshuoxianhaowuyiwenlingyifang，fangzhilenankan，yejiangchulezishendejianyi，goutongjiaoliuqifenshifouhaoxuduoni。

4.至情至性是使你数最多说实话，而不是说不好听得话

 ninengdiaokanpenyoupang，danbunengshuotapangdeshexiangtouzhu。ninengshuopenyouqiong，dannibunengshuotashitaofande。zhenxinhuahewanxiaozhongjianyaobawohaofencungan。tucaohewuru，fengquhekouwuzhelanshiliangmashi。

5.聆听比讲话更关键

《caikangyongdeshuohuazhidao》shangshuo：renzhenwanchenghetarendegoutongjiaoliu，tongguojianghuabatarenfangzaixinli。

 youxierenzaihelingyifangjianghuadequanguochengzhongtajinjinxiangshuotazijixiangshuodehua，budeerzhilingyifangdetihui，haoxiangkanbujianlingyifanggangadebiaoqing。lingyifangjianghuashuodaoyiban，jiubeitameiyouwenminglimaodilikeqieduan，likejiangzishenxiangjiangde。zheiyangderentabuyaoxianglingtingtaren，yewuxutarenlingtingta，jinjinbixuyigefangshixuanxietayaojiangdezheixiehuabale。zheiyankeshuodoubingbushizhenzhenzhengzhengshijiyiyishangdegoutongjiaoliu，jinjindanfangdexuanxiefayanchongdongeryi。

 zhenzhenzhengzhengdegoutongjiaoliushiyaoxianlejieziji。xianlejieziji，zaiquhebierengoutongjiaoliu。zaijianghuadequanguochengzhong，yexuyaolingtinglingyifangyaoxiangbiaodadeyisi，jiyuyidingtiyiheyijianfankui。kanlingyifangshuodeshisha，zenmejiangde，zaisisuozenmehuida。genxiangqinduixiangweixinliaoshenme？genxihuanderenliaotianjiqiao，guanxintitieyouburoumadehua。