说话的技巧是什么

 shuohuadejiqiaoshisha？shuohuayoucixu，shixianjiangyinhuanshixianjiangguo？shuohuayaozhenxinshiyi，buzhenxinshiyisheitingliaoliaoni？renmenmeitianbixushuohua，nilejieshuohuadejiqiaoma，yejiushishuo，nilejiepingchangshuohuafeichangrongyifannaxiebuzhengquema？neima，wangbianjiulaijieduxiashuohuajiqiaoba。

一、何时该說話

 youderenxiaizhuangconghui，chongneixing，shuliaoyanduobishi，shuoguoduofeichangrongyixieloudixi。zheileineishihouyingdangchenmoshijin，fandaokanqilaichengfujishen，lingrenzhuomobutou。xuehuajiuyingdangxianxueheshibufayan。lingyigedangnigensuishuohuaneirendezhengqueyindao，woyehuiwangdiaosisuo，feichangrongyidaidaoquantaoli。lirugoufangdeneishihou，nigensuixiaoshourenyuanjijigugudehua，nikeyisisuotashuodeyouduojifenzhenma？

二、急事前说結果

 shijizhongzongyoumouxieren，chanshengnaxiedashier，xiaixianjiangdatou，zailiaojieguo。“laozong，butaihaole，huowuchuxiancuoloule，haixingwojishichulifangzhilesunhai。”jiarulaozongyouxinjigengsaijiubeinizheijuhuahezhushengbingle。shuohuajiqiaoyinciyingdangshuo：“baogaolaoban，huowuzaoyizhunshisongchuqu，danshiyuanxianchadianerchulenanti，haixingwojishichuli……”

三、说闲话提早说

 jiaruwubidezenmeshuohuabushiqing，tebiemingandeshier，jiuyingdanggaohaochongzudemaixiafubi。lirutashuo：“wojinrikaole60fen。”nibahuoxu1geerguangjiushangqule。jiaruhuanwei：“jintiankaoshizhendehennan，xuduorenkaotiyemeiyouhege，haixingwohegele。”nikankan，shifouhuanyigeshuohuajiqiaojuedejiubutongle？

四、要信自己

 dangniduizishendehuadoubuganxiangxin，neimatingderenyouweishenmehuijianxinni？zheixiequdechenggongdetuixiaochanpinrenyuan，zuixianquanshitajianxintadeshangpin，taganjuehaochanpinyaoyikuaiergongxiang，yincinenggoushuodeneimaxiyinzhuren。

五、不撒多余的慌

 conglingyigebujineryan，dangnibuyuanlingrenlejiezishenlaidaobeilu，ninengshuojinrimeiyouqudadao。bierenlaizhaolaozong，nijiarushuohuangshuolaozonglaidaohaiwai，zheileihuayichuojiuchuan，haiburushuoshilaozongrujinmeiyou。

六、没法更改的客观事实不必说

 renmenchangchangyifanneiyangdebuzhengque，wangbianyechangchangneimegan（jiangwancaifanyinghuilai）。shuobaileyanzhejishishiwuyitingzhongyouxin，bierenjiushishuoneimeaile，niyingyaoshuo，dangnigaoxiezheiyifukuzijiuchuandegengqiangkanguo。bierendoututoule，niyingyaoshuo，jiarubututouhaowuyiwenshigeshuainan。jiarulingyifangshigexiaoqigui，woyebeijichoudaole。jishibingbushibudaqi，youshitingjianzheileihuahuanshinanshoude。

七、话不可以说绝

 yixieneishihoutarenyaoyueniganshenme，yaoshibingbushixingshifanzui，nifanbuzheyidakoujiutuicibieren，“bububu，womeishijian，womeixingquaihao……”lingrenxiabulaitai。rutongzhaopinmianshineiban，zhaopinzheburongyixianchangshuoxubuxuyaoni。huoshibianxieyueniyuegao，nimeishijian，niyeduoyuyidakoutuici，nenggoushuo：“zheiyiyoudianernanduxishu，woxiangkaolvyixia。”niyidakoutuicile，jieguoniyihouyouxiangxiele，jianzhizizhaomeiquma？

八、說話要浅显易懂

 bunengyongshumianyuyan，zhuanyemingci，tingderenzongshimobuzhetounao，liuyitongyinciyiyici，bubiluanyongdaozhuangju，jiaruzheijuhuayoumolengliangkewujiejiubianda。lirudafujiaohuanzheyaojishi。jieguohuanzhetingbianchengyaojincan。neibuwushima？

benwenqidaiduijinixiezhue，shuohuadejiqiaoshishenme，haibixudahuoerzishenquduotanqiuxiala。