关于说话之道的建议

 ruguonifajue，yibangrenxingzhibobodishuohua，ruguoniyishuohualai，dahuoerjiushunjianjingle。zheishi，niyingdangziwofansile。shifouzishenshuohuanantingni，neima，youmuyou shuohuazhidao detiyini？

一、六招说话之道的提议

1、shuohuayiqian，qingshiyongtounao。

 yixieshier，shuochulai，jiushoubuhuijiale。huoxunijuedehenshuai，kelingyifangneixinzhenshiduinitaoyan。buhuiliaotianbingbushicuo，keshijiarunilejiezishenbuhuiliaotian，quehaimeijingtounaoshuohua，jiushishuobukejiuyaole。

2、youxingqingshiyouzishendebiaozhun，erbingbushizhigaoqiang。

 dusheshiyiyuzhongde，erbingbushichongzhezishendeqinqipengyoushuomouxiebuhaotingdehua。buhaotingdehuagendusheshierzhongdingyi。shizaitaiyouxingqingdouhao，jiaruzuichunyizhishuobuhaotingdehua，jiubingbushiyouxingqingle，shibeiai。douneimedaderenle，doubukeyihaohaoshuohua，danshihenbeiaide。

3、jiarubushanyushuohua，ninengxuehaozixiqingting。

 haikeyizuo1gezixideren，zuishaoburongyilingrenfangan。youzishendekanfashihaoshier，buyiweizhenenggousuibiancaitatarendekanfa。helanqimengsixiangjiafuertaiyiqianqueshuoguo，“wofanduitashuodemeilianggezi，danwoshisibaoweinvshengshuohuadezhipeiquan。”danbubibatarenjiduzhu，jiansuankeboqueshihaome？

4、pengdaozishenbuxihuandeshier，qingyixiaoerguo。

bishangzuiyizhihaode，bubizaitarenjingtounongnongdeneishihou，jiangchumouxiedaoweikoudehua。

5、bubineizhishuobailedezihaogan。

bubizhigaoqiang，dahuoerquanshigongpingde，sheidoumeiyoubisheihao，dahuoerdezaoshoudoubutong，zuichunbaorongdian，gongmianzhi。

6、kanshujixuexipeixunshuohuazhidao

 nenggoukanyixiashujie，lirucaikangyongdeshuohuazhidao，meizhangquanshirangtanhuaneirongyuelaiyueqingsongyukuai，jiniyubierenjiaowangyegangkaishiyuelaiyuequwei，bingpeishangtusijihuituderangrenkuangxiaochatu，haosicaikangyongdezhuchirenshejifenggexiangtonghuopokeaisuijiyingbian，raoyoulequ。caikangyongdeshuohuazhidao2shikuobie4nian，caikangyongxinganwudaodeshuohuazhidao，jiushishuo“xintengni”；youyuwojiangdejinigaoxing，niyehuiwobeifangdaonixinzhong。yingjiyanlianshuohuajiushishuoyingjiyanlian“zenyanghetarenjiaowang”

qidaizheizhongshuohuazhidaodetiyiduijinixiezhu，zaidaoshihoudepenyouxianliaozhongnenggoukaixindekaizhan。