我不堪的过去会毁了我的未来吗？

　　fenshouhouwanhuinanyouxuyaoduozhangshijianshiyijianlingrenxinshenggulvdeshi。meiyiduanaiqingdehuifushijianbingmeiyouzhengquedaan，zaiyuzhuduoyaosu，rufenshouyuangu、aiqingnongdan、gerentishengdeng。youderenkenengzhixuyaojigexingqinaizhijiribiankequdechenggongzhongguiyuhao，eryouderenqueyaohuashuyuenaizhishushiniandeshijian。fenshouwanhuinanyoudeguochengdangzhong，zuizhongyaodeshiyaojiduifangchongzudeshijianhekongjian，zhongxinsikaoaiqing，bingziwotisheng，neiyangcainengzengjiachenggongdekenengxing。yiner，reqinghenulishijiweizhongyaode，shijianzhangdumeifagudingbudong，zuizhongyaodeshixuanzeshihezijidelumian，jiyubicizhijianchongzudeshijianququanyuhewanliu。

　　探寻挽回爱情的时间之法

　　fenshouhouwanhuinanyouxuyaoduozhangshijian，fenshouhou，henduorenkaishikaolv，wanliunanyoubixuduojiushijian？zheishiyigexiweierfuzawenti，meiyouyigequeqiededaan。danshi，womennengtaolunyixieguandianhefangfa，yibangzhuzijixunzhaozhaoxunaiqingdeshijianzhifa。

　　理解分手的主要原因

　　zuixian，womenyinggailijiefenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。fenshoukenengfashengzaigezhonggeyangchangjingxia，rujiaoliuwenti、buheshiqixuwufadiaohedechabie。genjuziwofansiheshendusikao，nikeyigenghaodelijiecunzaidewenti。zheijiangbangzhunifenshouwanhuinanyoudeguochengdangzhongxunzhaoshidudeshijianyumubiao。

　　给与彼此之间时间和空间

　　wanhuiaiqingbixujiduifangchongzudeshijianhekongjian。rangfenshouqingxuhuanhechulai，jishuangfangzhongxinsikaoaiqingdejiyu。zheiyiduanshijianjiangweinintigongsikaoyuchengzhangdejihui，tongshiweinanyoujiyulengjingfenxideyike。buyaojizhebawojihui，fanershiyizhuiqiutishengzijiweizhongxin。

　　复建自信与单独

　　zaifenshouhou，niyexuhuijuedezixinxinshoucuo。danshi，yaoxianghehaonanyou，womenxuyaofujianzixinxinbingzhanshidandudexingge。zhiliyuziwotisheng，zhuiqiuzijidemubiaohelixiang。zhanshichuyouquhejiankangdeshenghuo，rangnanyoukanjiannidediaozhenghefazhan。

　　改进沟通与理解

　　youxiaodegoutonghelijieshiguanjianxingde。yidanniyunanyoudoujinglileyiduanshijiandelengjinghefazhan，shizhezaiciqudelianxi。lingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，biaodazijideguandianheyixiang。genjutouminghezhenchengdejiaoliu，dajiakeyigenghaodelijiebicizhijian，chulifenshousuoyinfadenanti。

　　重建信任

　　fenshouyebansuizhexinlaideliekai。weilewanhuinanyou，womenxuyaozhongjianxinren，zheijiuxuyaoshijianyunuli。jianshouzijidefuwuchengnuo，zhanxianzhongchenghechengxin。genjuxingdongyuyizhidezhuyaobiaoxian，zhengmingzijishizhidexinlaide。jianjiandi，tabazhongxinlejiedaozishenjiazhihewendingxing。

　　灵活应对挽留的时间

　　suiranwomenyaocongyixiejingyanhegushilidedaoshejilinggan，danwanhuiaiqingdeshijianshigetihuade。meiyiduanaiqingdouyouqidutedeguijihejindusulv。yiner，shizhongbaochilinghuohexixin，qianwanbuyaobeigudingshijianjiagousuoxianzhi。yunanyoudeaiqingfazhanxuqiushi，jiyubicizhijianbaoronghelijie，keyiweileyitongxingfuerfendou。

　　fenshouhouwanhuinanyouxuyaoduozhangshijian，fenshouwanhuinanyoudeguochengdangzhong，shijianshiyigezhongyaodeyaosu。danshi，shijianbingbushiweiyidezhongyao，gengweiguanjiandeshibicizhijiandefuchuhenuli。genjulijiefenshouyuangu、jiyubicizhijianshijianhekongjian、fujianzixinyudandu、gaijingoutongyulijiejiqizhongjianxinren，womenjiangtishengqudechenggongwanhuiaiqingdehaojihui。haijide，zhenzhenzhengzhengaixideshineigeren，erbuzhishishijian。