冷眼观爱：进入女财男貌模式，花销谁来付？

 zhangdexiangduibuhaokandeyaojizhangdexiangduihaokandehuaqian，zheisihushiyigepubianyuanli。danyijingxuanzejinrunancainvmaodenvshengyidingyaozhuyi：yueshinvcainanmaodeshihou，yueyaojinshenkaixiao。qianwanbuyaochengweizhudongchengdanhuaxiaodeneigeren，huozhe，zhishaoyaorangduifangjuedenimenshizaigongtongtouru。jinrunvcainanmao，benshenzaijingjijichushangjiazhijiubupipeile，zhiyoushuangfangdouganjuedaozijizaifuchudeqinggancainengzhangqiwendingfazhan。fouze，jiuhenrongyizaoyuxiamianzheigenvshengdefannao。

 “jintiannanyoujiwodadianhuashuotajianeibianjiehunpinlijideshao，yibandoushinvfangdaotie。qishiwomencongxiaoyuandaogongzuo，taconglaibushedejiwohuaqian，xianzaihaishuoyaowojializhunbeidejiazhuangshiyilianghaoche，jitayong。nvcainanmaojiushiyaojinanyouhuaqian，yaoburanjiufenshou？tashizaishitanwo？zheishishenmeyisi？”

 qishi，zheishinvcainanmaomoshizhongnvshengjingchanghuiyudaodewenti。yinweiyikaishinvshengbuzhuyihuaxiaodewenti，yiweizijiyouqian，xuyaotitieduifangjingjitiaojianbuhao，suoyiyizhidaotie。zheiyangnvshengduinanshengdetouzibiranyuelaiyueduo，nanfangduinvfangdetouzibiranjianshaoshenzhibutouru。zhangciyiwang，huirangduifangjuedenisuoyoudefuchudoushiyingdangde，nanfanghuigennvfangsuoqiugengduodewuzhi，zhengrushangmiandeqingkuang，zaoyuhunqianshajia。

所以， 女孩子是不要进入女财男貌模式 。

Tips：女财男貌的指标

 ruguoyigenanrenyizhibushedejinihuaqian，haixiangrangnijitahuaqian，shenzhejiehundouxiangrangnidaotie，biruzhunbeijiehunzhiqianhuiwenni“pinliduoshaola”huozheyoushuo“nvfangdaotieya”zhileidehua，shenzhishizhidingnipeijiadeshihouyaomaihaoche，zheidoushizaimingxianbuguodenvcainanmaodezhibiaole。

 danruguoniyijingjinrunvcainanmaomoshi，qiexiangyaobimianjinrunvcainanmaomoshizhongnvshengtouruguoduodeqingkuang，neiweiyidebanfajiushi，zaiyikaishideshihoujiuyaotebiejinshendichulihuaxiaodewenti。

举个例子，你和男朋友两个人出去旅游，假设男方刚出来工作没有存款，你的收入比他 3 倍，你们计划去好一点的地方旅游，但对方多次表示机票很贵、旅程花销过高。这时候，你千万不要说，反正现在我有钱啦，那我就来付啦。这样做不但不讨好，还会伤害他作为一个男生的自尊。所以此时，你可以这样说：

 “yaobuwomenbuqule，gaijinyidiandedifangqu，wozhidaoyouyigetebieyouyisidedifang，woyeyizhitingxiangqude，yaobuwomenzheicixianquneiba。”（jiusuannizhendexiangchengdanzheibifeiyong，niyebuyaozhijieshuo“zheigefeiyongdouwolaifula”。）

 ruguojipiaozhendehenguidehua，nikeyishuo：“wozheilizhenghaoyouyixiejifen，keyiyongjifenlaiduihuanlicheng。”huozheshuo：“wozhidaolvchengdeyixiejueqiaokeyibangwomenshengxiayibufenqian。”（zongeryanzhijiushiyaoyiyigedajiadoubijiaorongyijieshoudefangshiqushuo，nilaichuzhibufenfeiyongzheijianshiqing。niyaorangduifangjuedenimenshizaigongtongtouru，erbushinidanfangmiandetouru。）

对于已经进入女财男貌模式的女生，我有以下两方面的建议：

1 、如果你接受不了舍不得给你花钱的男人。

 zhishitantunanshengdeyanzhihetatigongdegaoqingxujiazhi，quexianqiduifangjiajingbuhao。zaiwokanlai，zheizhongqingkuangxiabiranshihuifenshoude。buxihuanshebudejinihuaqiandenanren，neijiubuyaozhaoshebudejizijihuaqiandenanren。neinijiuzhaoyigezaiyanzhishanglvediyunidenanpengyou，huozheshuozaizonghebanlvjiazhifangmianqiguxiangdang、jiazhipipeidelingyiban。ruguonitantuletadeyanzhi，neibiranshiyaozaiqitadifangshangyousuofuchude，birunihennanrangduifangduinitouzi。

2 、进入女财男貌模式，想将感情良好地维持下去的女生，需要做好两个准备：

 diyi，niyihoujianghuichixudizaiganqingzhongjinxinggengduodefuchu，dandaoshihoubuyaojuedeweiqu，yinweizheitiaolushinizijixuande。dier，ruguonanfangjinhouzhaobu，yaotiqianzuohaoxintaijianshe。

zhiyuzenmezuoxuanze，zuncongneixinxiangfa，yonggandimianduiyujuezeba。