冷眼观爱：当我们遇到艳照威胁的时候，该怎么办

 yudaoyanzhaoweixieshi，wulunduifangshixianrenhaishiqianren，nidouyinggaiyishidaoduifangyijingshinidediren。buyaoshewangduifangyourenhehaozhuandekenengxing，gengbuyaoqingxinduifangshuoshenmezhishihenideqishibushizhenxiangshanghainide。zhenzhengshandainiderenjueduibuhuiyongyanzhaolaiweixieni，yinweineixiexindishanliangderengenbenbuhuixiangdaoyongzheizhao。

【心态建设】

 dangnimianlinyanzhaoweixiedeshihou，nihuifeichangjinzhang、jiaolvhekongju。nihaipabeifumukandao，haipabeiqitaqinpenghaoyoukandao，haipayiyezhijianquanshijiederendoukandao。nibujintongku，pazijideyinsibeibaolu；nihaifennu，yinweizhengzaibeizijicengjingaiguoderenshanghai；gengshixiukui，danxinzijideqinpenghaoyoushiwang，yedanxinzheixieshiqinghuishanghaidaozijideqinrenmen。zheixieqingxudouwanquankeyibeilijie。

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【操作技巧】

 mianduiyanzhaoweixieshi，shouxianyaobaoquansuoyouzhengju，lirutongguogongzhengluyindefangshibaoliutaweixiedeneirong，baocunnimensuoyoudeliaotianjilu，zuizhongyaodeshiyaozaizheixieduihuazhongzhichuzheifenyanzhaomuqianzhiyoutayigerenyou，ruguoyouxielu，neijiuzhinengshitazuode。

 qici，chulijiqiaoshiqingmiaodanxie。yaoruowuqishidibashangmianguanyuwangyoudefenxishuochulai，liru：『chenguanxiyanzhaomenxianzaidoumeirenkan，nifazheigesheikana？buxinnizijiquzipaiqukankan，daochudoushi。hehe。』niyueshiqingmiaodanxie，duifangyueshinanimeizhe，jiuxiangshiyiquandazaimianhuashangjuedemeijingyiyang，ziranyejiumeiyouyisile。

 jiexialaijinruchuliliucheng。nifeichanglengjingdibazheigeshiqingdehouguojitafenxiqingchu，nidesunshizhishizhaopian，tadesunshizeshiyaoquzuolao。zheizhongxingweizhishaokeyipangesannian，houguoyanzhongdehuawunianyishangshenzhidouyoukeneng。nishenzhikeyibawomendechuliliuchenggaosuta，womenxianzaiyijingbaoquanlezhengju，xiayiburuguoduifanghaibuxiaohuizhaopian，neimewomenhuigaozhiduifangfumu、jiarenyijisuozaigongzuodanwei；zaixiayibu，womenhuibaojingbingqiepinqingzhuanyelvshiqisusuopei，duifangbujinyaozuolao，haidepeilidaoqianbingpeichangjingjisunshi。

 zuihou，tanpanjiqiaoshiyongbusuijing。nayanzhaoweixienideren，jiuxiangshizhanzhengzhongweixietaguodexieezhengquan，tamenshimeiyourenhedixiande。napashinidayingletamendetiaojian，tamenyeyoukenengzuochushanghainideshiqing。suoyi，congyikaishijiubuyaodayingduifangderenhetiaojian，zhishizhizhongyaolichangjianding，jujuerenhetiaojian。ruguofaxianrenhewenti，jiulikeanzhaoshangmiandechuliliucheng，gaigaosutajiarenjiugaosu，gaibaojingjiujianjuebaojing。qianwanbuyaoguxiyangjian，yuetuoxieduifangjiuyuehuiyaoxieni。

 zaizhengjianshiqingdechuliguochengzhong，ruguoshitaikekong，keyizanshibugaosufumuyijishenbianderen；ruguoshitaiehua，yidingyaogaosunidefumu，bujinkeyihuodebangzhu，haikeyijiangditamendeyuqi，zaiweilairuguozhaopianzhendeliuchuanchuqu，tamenzhishaoyezuolexintaijianshe，buzhiyuyixiazizaoshoudaji。

xuanze，zhongyugaibian。zhongxinxiwangyuedudaozheiduanwenzidepengyou，yongyuanyongbushangzheixie。