【花镇】让男人为你买单，他会更珍惜你，知道为什么吗？

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 laoshimeimei，qiutongma，woheqiannvyouyiqiliangnianle，wulunshijialirenhaishiwohetazhijianyemorenzheyiqiduoyiduanshijianjiujiehunle，danwojuedezijixiangchangshidehaiyouhenduo，suoyizaiyinianqianzheigeyuefen，henjueqingdihetafenshoule，dangranqishifenshouwoyehenshang，danduiwaimiandehaoqixincushizhewojieshuhetadeguanxi。zhihoubujiujiaowanglejigenvsheng，dandoubunengyongxinquxihuan，faxianchuncuiweilemanzuzijifuqiandexuqiu，shenzhihuibanyezijiqichuangkuzhezaixiangta，youshipengyouyitiqita，wodexinmanshibushehetong。zuijinjigeyuewoyouchangshiyongqq、weixin、weibosixin、dianhua、duanxinquchangshijiechuta，dangranjieguobushilaheijiushikeyibulihui。zheiyangdejiejushiwoniangzaochulaide，houguoqueshiyinggaiyaozijichengdan。wobutingdifensanzijizhuyili，danzongrenbuzhu，wohenxiangzhengquhuilai，dannapazhengquyebushineimejiandan。qingmeiliyuzhihuidehuazhentongmawoyidun，huozheciyuwoyidingdianzhihuikanpozheishiba

答：
 benlai，niheniqiannvyouzhijianshidanouxingdeqingganguanxi，nixiangfazhanchengduooumoshi，tadangranbuyuanyi;erqie，nizaitadehuangjinzeouqilidouganzheiyangzuo，yihouhainengzhiwangnihuihaohaoduidairenjiama?wojuedebuneng。niqiannvyoushiyigecongmingdeguniang，yezuochulezhengquedexuanze。woxiwangqitanvhaiyenenggouyinyiweijie：fanshiyunijueqingfenshouguodenanren，xinlikendingdoudazhezijibuweirenzhidexiaosuanpan。huidaonidewentishanglai，nixiangzhengquhuiqiannvyou，kenipingshenmezhengqutani?yikaishi，nimenzhijiandeguanxihenchuncui，danshinibumanzu，haixiangyaohuobisanjia;bijiaozhihou，nijuedeyuanlaizuichudejiushide，xianghuitouzhongxinzhaorenjia，danshinidexinyongyijingpochanle，renjiayijingbuyuanyizaigennizuoshengyi，nishuowonengyoushenmebanfani?zaici，woyeyaotixingguangdananxingpengyoumen：zaichengxinshehuiyidingyaozhongshizijidexinyong，buranjiuhuichuxianmeiyourenyuanyihenizuoshengyideqingkuang。

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 huazhenhao，xiwangnengbeichouzhongwentie!wojinnian20sui，henanpengyougaoyishikaishizaolianzaiyiqi5nian，tademvgaoyuwo，daxueshiyidilian，houlaitashuoxihuanshangbierenhewofenshou。fenshouhouwomeiyouzaiquzhaota，guolejigeyuetahouhuile，jutashuofenshoumeiduojiujiuhouhuile，heneigenvshengzaiyiqiyigeyuefenshoule。yizhiqiufuhe，qiuleyinian，womeiyourenzhuyouhetalianxiqilai，danmeiyoumingquedezaiyiqi。xianzaiwoganjuetalengdanlexialai，tabuzhaowodeshihouwoyebuhuiquzhaota，danshiwohaishixiwangnenggouhehaode。suoyiqiuhuazhenbangmangfenxi，woshifougaiguoduanchoushenzouren?xinfen，xiexiezhijiao*^o^*

答：
 shouxian，niyinggaicankaoyixialoushangdenanshengxintai。qici，ninanyouxianzaidexintaijiushi：qiufuheqiuleyinianyemeiyouchenggong，xianzaitajuedenibuzhidetajixufuchule，shuobaile，zheizhuangmaimaitabuxiangzuole。jirantadoumeiyouchengxinle，nihaiyaomianqiangdihetazaiyiqima?

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 huazhennihao!woshixinfen，yihun，youyigesigeyuedenanbao。zaidulewanmeiguanxihebienahouganjuehaomimang，yinweiwozhijiecailehuazhenshuodeliangdaleiqu：nanfeidu+nvdu，nanchu+nvfeichu。muqianwozaijiadaibaobao，laogongzuoshengyi，jingjidaquanzailaogongshoushangcunkuanzaiwoshoushang，duibaobaohenxihuandanshibuzenmedai，ganqingnongduhaibucuo。xiangwenhuazhenzenmezuokeyiyufang，zhendexiangjibaobaoyigehemudejia。fuhezhao。

答：
两大雷区+老公做生意+经济大权在老公手上，这些都说明你在这段感情中没有主控权，以后很可能会进入大房模式。本来你老公就是“布”的雏形，再加上你目前的状况，所以他极可能会成为50%婚后出轨男人的其中一员。对于“布”，我建议你不要把出轨这个事情看得比天还重，你要做的是“高高举起，轻轻放下”。事发前，你要坚定的表现出“绝对不允许对方出轨”的立场，但是你内心里也要清楚“他出轨的可能性很大”这个事实。你要时刻警醒自己，并做好应对策略，如果哪一天真的事发了，你也要不哭不闹地继续温柔待他，这样他就还会留在你身边。你可能会问“凭什么要这样”?没办法，这就是你选择“布”所必须要面对的事实;而且你现在的选择已经超越了你的应得，所以相应的你也必然要承担高于寻常的风险。这就好比一个天资一般又不用功的学生，却意外幸运地被分进了精英班，你说如果她的成绩不垫底那谁垫底呢?还是那句话，选择了“布”就有“布”的风险，如果你选择了石头男，你就不用面对这种挣扎，但是你也享受不到“布”给你带来的经济条件。


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 huazhenhexiaozhushouhao，qiuchouzhong~woshixinfen，henpeifuhuazhendezhihui，yiqianmeiyourenshihuazhen，zoulehenduowanlu，qianduanganqingduobaopuyinnanyoulaoshishuohuangbutashi。xianzairenshidaozijiguandetaiyanle，huazhendeshuwodoumaile，renzhenxuexizhong~benren26，172cm，56kgfuzhaopianqiuhuazhendafen。zuijinpengyoujieshaoyinanshengrenshishengao187cm，dalanqiude。jianguoliangci，nanfangbiaoshihenxihuanwo，xiangchongzhejiehunqu，danshizhejiquerennannvpengyouguanxi，liaotiandeshihoujingchangwenwoshibushinannvpengyoule，woshuotaikuailehaiganggangrenshi，tashuomeiguanxitadengwo，danhaihuishichangwenqi。tahaihuiliaoyixiejiehunhuozhehunhoudeshi。gentajialishuoguole，shuomamahenxihuanwo。diercijianmiandaiwojianletadehaopengyou，fanhouduchubiaoshixiangqinwo，zuizhongkissle。tashuoganjuezijibuxiaole，shuowoyebuxiaolegaizhejile。xiangqingjiaoyixiahuazhen，xiangwozheiyangdeqingkuang，shibushibuyinggaitaikuaidaying，jianleliangcijuedetahenhuishuohua，gerenyebijiaoxihuantazheizhongleixingde。xianzaitajuedekisslejiushidayingzaiyiqile，huijiaoxifuzhileide。wojuedejinzhandeyouxiekuaile，pabianchengduanze，qinghuazhencijiao，yihouwogaizenmezuonengquebaotaduiwoshizhangze?youyujieshaorenbushizhijiejieshao，suoyiduinanfanglejiebijiaoshao。wozijishuyubijiaoanjing，huaxiangduilaishuojiaoshaoderen，quefaanquangan(meiyoushenmehaodelianaijingli，tanguoyici2nian)shuyuzhuanyideleixing，xiexiehuazhenla!

答：
 shouxian，nidezhuyaowentizaiyubuhuibiaoda。tajingchangwen“shibushinannvpengyoule”，nikeyishuo：“nizheiyangtaikuaile，wohaimeiyouzhunbeihao，woshiyigebijiaomanredenvhai，duidaiganqinghenshenzhong，yidanaishangyigeren，jiuhuihenrenzhen(zhangxianzijidegaomvdipu)。danshiwoduinishiyouhaogande，wohenshaoduirenzheimeyouhaogan(jiduifangyikendinghexiwang，youdaoduifangjinyibufuchu)。”erbunengzhishishengyingdepaochuyiju“taikuaile”，zhidajiduifangdereqing，quebujiduifangguli。qici，guanyutashuojiehunhuozhehunhoudeshi，niyaokantajutishizenmeshuode。duanzenantongchanghuishuo：“woyizhidouzaixiang，woyihouyaojiwoxifumaishenme，wojuedeyihouwodehunliyidingyaozaimaerdaifujuxing，woyidingyaoqingshangsuoyouqinyou，jianzhengwomendexingfudeshike”。erzhangzenanhuishuo：“nishuowomenjiehunzainaerbaijiuhao?”duanzenandehuayuchufadianshi“wo”“wo”“wo”，erzhangzenanhuishuo“ni”“women”，niyaozixiqufen。zuihou，“huijiaoxifuzhileide”，zheishitiyaoqiudejihui。nikeyijiejiwenta：“zheimekuaijiujiaoxifu，nihaimeiqiuhunni”、“zheimekuaijiujiaoxifule，wohaimeiyoujiezhi，jiezhidoumeiyounajiaoxifua”，cushitazuochujinyibudechengnuo。

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花镇你好!新粉一枚!我和我男朋友谈了三年，他比我大5岁，两年前我开服装店倒闭了就一直没找工作，一直是他赚钱，这几年一直在家呆着，我是外地的，这边没朋友也没家人。最近发现他还有别的女人，微信聊天被我发现，聊天发现那女孩还来过家里，他还有陌陌，还和不少女孩聊天暧昧，我还算mv较高pu较低，男方mv也不错。发现之后他不承认，我要搬出去他不让搬，现在一直拖着，但是我原谅不了他背叛。听男方说过他前女友也发现过他背叛，这种男人本性难移了?
答：
 “woyaobanchuqutaburangban，xianzaiyizhituozhe”，fanyiguolaijiushi：nixiangfenshoutabutongyi，shiqingjiujiangchizhele。danshi，zhiyaotabushi24xiaoshijianjinni，zhiyaonishizhenxinxiangban，shiwanquannengbanchuqude。suoyiqishinigenbenbuxiangfen，zhishijieyou“taburang”jizijizhaogetaijiexia。xiangfenshoudeqinglvhenshaoshishuangfangdoutongyicaifenshoude，dabufendoushiyifangbutongyi，lingyifangjianjuefenshouzouren。suoyiwoshuo：qishishinizijigenbenjiubuxiangfen。suiranzheigenanrenjipituiniyoupituiqiannvyou，danshiwoyebudanbaotajiuyidingbunengyudaonengguanzhuta、rangtaandingxialaidenvren;danshiwulunzenyang，zheigerendoubuhuishini。huadoushuodaozheierle，nizijixiangxiangba。

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 huazhennihao，guanzhu10geyue，ganjueshouyifeiqian，tongguonideliluntigaomvjiangpu，xianzaihelianggenanshengbaochilianghaokaishi，danbuzhiruhejueze。liangrenjundianxingligongkedanoushitounan，ashiwaishengfenghuangnan，yangqiqianjingda，nianxin25w+，shiganxing，gongzuosinianzaihangzhoukaozijimaifangyifushoufu，danshenghuoyalida。bshibenshengpianyuandishiren，gongzuosuantongshi，guoqi，ganggongzuoyiniannianxingenwochabuduo10w+，jialitiaojianlvehaozhichimaifang。liangrenjunduiwohenbaorong，yehenjiji，danxianzaiwohenkunao，buzhiruhejueze，qingwenhuazhenzaixuanzedeguochengzhongwoyinggengkanzhongshenme?

答：
 nibatamenlianggefangzaiyiqibijiao，neixinlijiuyinggaiyijingzhidao，nageshiqinggandexuanze，nageshilixingdexuanzele。qinggandejuezewangwanghuijiangrendaoxiangtongku，haishixiangxinlixingdejueze。wozhidaonixihuanqianyige，danshiwojianyinixuanhouyige。fenghuangnankanqilaitongchangbidangdirengengyouxiu，danqishiduinieryan，tamendezongfendoushiyiyangde;zheizhongqingkuangxiayigerendankechengjitebietuchu，neitadeqitakechengjikendingjiuhuiluohou。suoyi，jiukannizijizuikanzhongnagefangmianle。

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 huazhennihao，guanzhunijigeyuele，kanguobienahewanmei，danshihenduowentihaishibuzenmemingbai，helaogongjiehunbudaoyinian，wo24,ta26，xianhuaiyunkuaishengle，laogongjiajinghaoyuwo，wowaizaimvgaoyuta，puyouyidiandiangao，laogongmeigongzuo，tayebuyuanyidaowaimiandagong，juedemeimianzi，tiantianzaijiadayouxi，laoshilingchenjidianshuizhongwucaiqichuang，bijiaodananzizhuyi，zizunxinhenqiang，huaqiandashoudajiao，meicunkuan，wanquankaojiali，womuqianhetabamanainaitongzhu，jialirenduiwohenhao，danshiwomenganqingnongdubugao，wohuaiyunpingshiyemeizenmeguanxinpeiban，danshizaiqinpenghaoyoumianqiantayouhuizuochuguanxinwodeyangzi，wojuedetingqiguaide，mingmingganqingnongdubugaoganmazhuangjibierenkan，haiyoutayoushihoudangzhewodemianhewangshangdemeinvliaotian，suiranmeiyouaimeiyuyan，danshiwojuedezheiyangrangrenhenbushufu，woganjuetashiguyineiyangde，zheishishenmexintai?haiyouhetazheizhongxinggexiangchugaizhuyishenme?xiexieqinaidehuazhenle，xiwangnengbeichouzhong。

答：
 fuerdaidabufendoumeishenmeshangjinxin，nihetazaiyiqihuixishengdiaoyixieganqingshushidu，dannenghuanlainihoudaideanwen。yaozhidao，qitatiaojiangennichabuduodenvsheng，kenengjiadedoushixuyaoyiqidapin、yiqihaifangdai、yiqijigongjiao、yiqicunqianmaichedebanlv，ernibenyingpipeideyechabuduoshizheiyangdenansheng;xianzainidedaolenilaogong，meiyouletamendeshengcunkunnan，neiziranjiuhuiyouyixieqitasuoshifannao。nixiangyaodesuoyoudongxi，doushixuyaoyongqitadongxiquzhihuande，zheiyidianshangrenrenpingdeng。woxiwangninengxiangqingchuqizhongdedaoli，xiangxinzijiyijingzuochuledexuanze，bingqiezunzhongzijidexuanze。yongzhengmiandexintaiquhelaogongxiangchu，yangguangwennuanduoweixiao，taduinihaoshi，niyaojishidijijihuiying，yongzhengmianyindaodefangshilaimanmangaibiannimendeguanxi。meigerendouyoufanxinshide，fanshiduowangjijidefangmianxiang，aixiaodenvrentongchangyunqidoubuhuicha。

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 huazhenhao，xianzaiyougeshiqinghenkunraowo，henanyourenshibujiu，yinhenliaodelai，jiumorenzaiyiqile。nanyoupuhendi，shangxueqijianyoushuyuxueba，cengjingjiutanguoyigelianaihaishiyidi，henyouanquangan，shigeqianligu，wojuedetiaojianhenhao，xiangzhangze，ganghaonanyouyebiaoshixianghewojiehun，sanxuanyitaxuanyi。tachu，wofeichu，tabiaoshibujieyi，danshitamashangjiuyaochuguoxuefeixingyinian，shuoruguoyinianyihounengjianchixialaijiugenwoqiuhun，xiwangwodengtahuilai。yinweitamashangyaochuguo，wobuxiangneimekuaifashengguanxi。tagenwotidaoshuoyinianhouhuiguochengweifujiahoujiuganlaiwojiajianwofumu。wojiachengshi，tajianongcun，mvgaoyuta。tanazhaopianjijialirenkan，doushuotajianlegedabianyi，danshiyougekunrao，tahenzhanren，erqiezhangxiangbushiwoxihuanleixing，suoyiwoyouzhidaowotutashenme，suoyiwohennulijiangdipu。baokuoshuohuafangshiyehuixuexihuazhenneizhongsajiaowenroubanweiquzhuangfeichangshouyong，nanpiaobiaoshiyihoufangzixiewoming，gongzijiaojiwo，danshitagongsizaichengdou，suoyitayihouzhinengquchengdoufazhan，erqiebiaoshixiangjiewoguoqu，woyinbuyingaiqu，neibianwomeiyoujiarenmeiyoupengyou，suiranwocongxiaoxuejiulikaijiazaiwaidishangxue，fumuyebiaoshibuxiangwoyihouliuzaishenbian，rangwochuqufazhan，woxianzaiyoudianjiujie。wohaimeigaosuwojiarenwoliangdeshiqing，woxiangdengyinianhoukankanqingkuangzaishuo，wopawohuiyudaobitatiaojianhaihaodenansheng，wogaizenmeban，wozhidaowozheidiantebiebuhao，zijidoujuedezijizheimexiang，duitahenbugongping，xiwangdedaolaoshidefenxijieda。

答：
 weishenmewozongshuo“nanshaonvfeichu”huifashengwentini?yinweizaixingnenglifangmian，nihaiyouqitadenanshengkeyiyuninanyouxiangbijiao，erqiezheiyidianninanyouyezhidao。erqiexianzainidexinhaibuding，zheigeleiqudeyingxiangjiuhuigengweimingxian。wojianyinibuyaohetafashengguanxi，dengnizhendedingxiaxinlaixianggentazaiyiqishizaikaolv。ruguochuxiantiaojiangenghaogengheshidenansheng，nizijilaibijiaohexuanze。

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 huazhenhao，xiaozhushouhao。wonanpengyou24sui，yinxinggongzuo，zaochenqidianbanjiudedaoyinxingwanshangqibadiancaixiaban，xiabanjiuhuijiawanyouxi，wandeshihounengwandao12dian，wobingbufanduitawanyouxi，tajiuzheiyigeaihao，danshiwohenxintengtashuizheimewan，danshiyoumeiyoubanfa，tahenjuejihubutingwodehua。laoshiweiwendalishuowanyouxishiduixianshideyizhongtaobi，neixinyouyayidewentibuzhidaoruhepaijiecaiquwan，wojuedetayinggaishigongzuohenleicaiquwan，danshiwoyoubuzhidaozenmebangta，qinaidelaoshiwogaizenmezuoni?xiexielaoshihexiaozhushou^_^

答：
 “wobingbufanduitawanyouxi，tajiuzheiyigeaihao“，zheizhongshuofajiushuomingnishigeshengmu，zongshixianggaibianbieren。“danshiyoumeiyoubanfa，tahenjuejihubutingwodehua”，shuomingnizaizheiduanganqingzhongmeiyoukongzhiquan。“laoshiweiwendalishuowanyouxishiduixianshideyizhongtaobi，neixinyouyayidewentibuzhidaoruhepaijiecaiquwan”，nizhidaozheidian，keshinirengranziwoguiyinchengshi“wojuedetayinggaishigongzuohenleicaiquwan，danshiwoyoubuzhidaozenmebangta”，henmingxianninanyoubingbuxuyaonizuozheileishiqing。wojianguohenduozheiyangdeanli，shijishangduoshushinanshengshibumanyitamenzhijiandeguanxi，jutidaonimenshenshangyeshiyiyangde。congnimenlianggedequanliboyilaikan，niduiyuzheiduanguanxishushouwuce、guanjiaowuneng，ertashiyiyiguxing、congbutingquan，zheixiedoushuomingtahenshibumanyinimendeguanxi，zheiyexuhegongzuoyouyidingyuanyin，danshiguanxibuda。qishiwoxiangshuo：kenenglikaini，tajiuhuihaoqilai，danshiniyuanyima?wozhidaozheimeshuohencanren，danzheidequeshizuijiejinzhenxiangdedashihua。

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答：
 nvren，yidingyaorangnanrenweinimaidan。wozhidaozheijuhuazainitinglaikenenghuihenqiguai，xiangzanmenzheigenianlingdenvhai，gujicongxiaojieshoudefumujiaoyudoushinannvpingdeng、buyaohuananrendeqian、yaoziliziqiang。danshimanmannijiuhuifaxian，zheishicuode，qishinanrengengxihuanneixietaweizhihuaqiandenvhai。dagebifang，hua1wankuaimaideyifuhehua100kuaimaideyifu，nihuigengzhenxinayijianni?tourudeyueduojiuyuezhenxi，nanrenduinvrenyeshizheigedaoli。dangran，haiyouyigedaqianti，jiushi1wankuaideyifubenshenshiwuyousuozhide。suoyi，shouxiannidejiazhiyaogao，ranhouniyaotanranjieshouduifangduinidefuchu，tongshiweiduifangtigongqingxujiazhizuoweihuikui，zheijiushizuijiadeganqingmoshi。nibunengmeicidoubiaoxianchu“womeiyouzhannibianyi”、“woshenmedoubuqianni”、“niduiwozuoshenmedoushiyinggaide”dexintai，meiyourenqingwanglaijiuhuixiandeniderenqingweihenxibo，zheiyangfeichangbutaorenxihuan。