广东省婚姻家庭咨询师协会召开 花镇冷爱被选为常务理事

　　dangmianduichuguinanrenshi，dajiajinbuzhuyaokaolvtadeneixinzhenshitiyan。chuguinanrendexintaijingchangchuyuyizhongjiejuzhong，neixinmimanzhewujinfuzuigan。tamenyexuhuigandaoxiukuiyuneijiu，yucitongshiyouhechuguibicipaichi。neixindemaodunyuzhengtuorangtamenshenxianyipianhunluan，yinweitamenzhidaozishenweibeileqinmiguanxichengnuo。zheiyangdexintaijicuicanyouyihuo，tamenwangwangchangshizaizishenfourenyukuijiuzhongjianzhanzhuannanmian。danshi，lejietadexinlizhuangtaibingbudaibiaoduihaizidexingweirangbu，fanershigengqiadangdilizaiqinmiguanxideqiantixia，xunzhaowentijiejueyuziwotishengdegailv。

　　内心的疑惑与矛盾

　　chuguinanrenneixindeyihuoyumaodunjingchangrangtamenshenxianshenshendimangrandangzhong。yifangmian，tamenyishidaochuguishiduiqinmiguanxidepanbian，chanshenglingyibandesunhaihetongku。lingyifangmian，tamennanyibimiandebeiyizhongjihuicijishenshenxiyin，nanyikangjuyouhuoyinyou。zheileineixindezhanzhengshitamenwufaxuanze，meifachedixiaochuwaiyudeyinyou。tamenqipanzhongguiwendingyurongqiadeqinmiguanxi，queyebeiwaibudeyinyousuomengbi，xianrudaolewujinmangran。

　　对自身的蒙骗与否认

　　chuguinanrentongchanghuiweizijidexingweikaizhanmengpianyufouren。takenenghuijiangzhizeguiyinyuwaibudeyinyou，huoshiduiqinmiguanxiqiangliebumanhebuzu。tamenshituyongduizijidexingweitanxunyuanyinyuliyoulaipingfuneixindemaodun。danshi，zheileifourenjinjinweileduobineixindeshiluoganyufuzuigan，meifazhenzhenzhengzhengchuliwenti。tamenyuanyixiangxinhaizidexingweicongweiyouguosunhai，shiyishidemitu，bingfeiduilingyibanheyigejiatingdepanbian。zheileiziwoqipianyufourenzhinengrangtamenshenxiangengshencengcidemian，bunengcongwaiyudeheiyingzhongjiefangchulai。

　　情感上的苦闷与个人价值的缺失

　　chuguinanrendexintaiyejingchanghuibansuiyizhongqingganshangdekumenyugerenjiazhidequeshi。tamenyexuxiwangyongwaiyulaimibuzishenjingshencengmiandequeshaohuotanxunyizhongziworenke。danshi，waiyugenbenwufazhenzhenzhengzhengdadaotamenneixindexuyao，fandaorangzijideqingxugengweikumenyukuwei。tamenyishidaotamendexingweimeifaweitamentigongzhenzhengyiyishangdedadaohekuaile，zhinengdailaigengduosunhaiyuhouhuimoji。zheileineixindejimoyugerenjiazhidequeshijinyibujiajulezijineixindekuchuyuyihuo。

　　迈进自我反省与成长的道路

　　dangmianduichuguinanrendexintaishi，womenyinggaigaoqingchulejiebingbuyiweizheduihaizidexingweirangbu。tadeneixinyihuoyumaodunxuyaodajiajiyulijiehexixin，dantongshihaixuyaozijiyishidaozijidewenti，bingjijimaijinziwofanshengyuchengzhangdedaolu。taxuyaozhenzhenzhengzhengyingduineixindemaodunyuzhengtuo，yonggandemianduitamendexingweizaochengdehouguo。weiyoutongguoshencengcineixindesikaohenuli，tamencainengzuodaozhenzhengbaituowaiyudeheiying，xiubuqinmiguanxi，fujiangerenjiazhi，zhuixungengjiankangyuhemurenjijiaowangguanxi。