冷爱书单，总有一本适合你

　　chuguinanrenhuiguihoudexinlishizenyangde，zhixingjiaosedingweidechuguinanren，jingliguohuiguihou，neixinqingkuangchuxianlemingxianzhuanbian。tashenfuneijiuhouhuichenzhongfudan，neixinbiandefuzaermingan。tayexuzaoshouzhekuijiu、huihenjiqihaipabeijuqingxu，qinfenxiubuliekaizhijiandeguanxi。yucitongshi，tazhengmianlinzhebierendezhengyiyucaixiang，shizhexiufuxinlaiyuelaiyuemanzhangjianxin。chuguinanrenhuiguihouxinlizhuangtaibujinyouneibudouzhengdekuchu，yeshiyouzaicichuangshedejihuihenuli。

　　挣脱与愧疚：承受外遇的愧疚

　　chuguinanrenhuiguihoudexinlishizenyangde，chuguinanrenhuiguihou，xintaijingliguohendadebianhua。beikuijiusuoyingxiang，chixushenshizijigerenxingweizaochengdeshanghaihebuliangyingxiang。tashenshendiganshoudaozijiduiyubanlvdepanbian，duijiarendehuihuai，zheileineixindekuijiuchixucuicanzheziji。

　　zaineixinzuishenchu，taqingximingquezijidewentihebufuzerengerenxingwei。tayishidaolewaiyusuoxingchengdesunhaiwufawanhui，zheileiwuzhuganshitaxinlishangbeishouzhemo。duizijixingchengleshenshendiyanfanhezenge，jingchangshenxianziwodouzhengheziwochengfadezhouqizhong。

　　zheiyiduanshijian，tahuishichangfanshengzijiweishenmehuitaruwaiyudelumian。tahuitanxunneizaiyuangu，rushibushiquefazilv、shibushishouyinyou，yihuozheshiyinweijiatingguanlianchulewenti。tahuisikaoneixindeyuwangyijixuyao，changshishulixinxubingxunzhaoneixindeshijihuida。

　　紧张与害怕：修复关联的不确定因素

　　chuguinanrenhuiguihou，tabudanyaozhimianzijineixindezhengtuo，haiyaomianlinbanlvheshenbianrendehuaiyiyubuxinren。taganshoudaolaiyuanyubanlvdexinhanfennu，yeganshoudaozhouweiderenduiyutadefengcihelengdan。zheirangrengandaogongzuoyalizengzhang，neixinchongmanzhejiaolvqingxuyuhaipa。

　　tadanxinbanlvshifounengkuanshuziji，danyoulianggerendeganqinghainengbunengxiufu。taneixinchongmanzhejiaolv，danxinbanlvdouhuixuanzefenli，danxinzijizaidusangshihenzhongyaoderen。taqinfenchangshimibuguoqucuowu，yiqiukeyifujianrongqiadeguanlian。

　　zaizheiqijian，tahuiganshoudaojidaxinliyali。tabujinxuyaojienazijideneixinzhengtuo，yeyaochengdandazhongduitadehuaiyihebuxinren。zheileijingshenyaliyehuidaozhitazaochengjiaolvqingxu、shimianzheng、shiyubujiadengshenxinjiankangbushigandebingzheng。

　　自我反省和成长：寻觅内心更改的路

　　chuguinanrenhuiguihou，tachongfenrenshizijidewenti，xiwangkeyicongzheidangzhongjiqujiaoxun，bingzaijinhoudegongzuozhongkaizhangerentishengziwogaibian。

　　weilenenggaizhengtamendexingwei，tahuijijidicanjiaxinlifudao、xiufukechengneirongjiqihunyinfudaodengxiliehuodong，yibangzhugenghaodilejiezishenyutarendebixu。tahuiguanxinqingganshangdegoutongyulingting，xuexipeixunruheyouxiaodajianjiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。

　　tahuisikaozijiderenshengguanhesixiang，sisuowaiyushenhoudegenbenyuanyin，bingbuduanxunzhaochuliwenti、diaozhengzijidelujing。takenenghexinlidaoshihuolingqixunzhaozhequdelianxi，tanxunneixindepinghenghechedigaibianzishen。

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，tafaxianzijideneixinyousuobianhua。tahuigengjiazhongshibanlvdetiyanyuxuqiu，gengweizhenxiganqingdezhengui。tahuidongdenenggougenghaodicaozongneixindeyuwangyuqinggan，peiyuchugengwendinghewanshandeneixin。

　　重建信任与和睦：漫长路面

　　chuguinanrenhuiguihou，tayishidaoleyaozhongjianxinrenshiyigemanzhangjiankudequanguocheng。tayaobuduanzhengmingzijigenggai，genjuhuodonglaihuodebanlvderenkehedakaixinfei。

　　tahuishizhejijikaizhanrichangshenghuo，zhanxianduibanlvdeguanhuaidalizhichi。tahuijijiyubanlvgoutongjiaoliu，lingtingbierendeganshouyuxuqiu，bingzhongshichulicunzaidebuzu。tahuichengdanqizijidezeren，weixiufuguanlianerfendou。

　　zhongjianxinrenxuyaoyiduanshijiannaixin。taxiangyaohuodebanlvderenke，bixuyongzhenchenghedudingdexingweizhengmingzijidebianhua。tahuijienabanlvdejianguanhebuxinren，zhenchengyingduiyiqiehuaiyihekaoyan，chixuxiangqiantuijin。

　　chuguinanrenhuiguihoudexinlishizenyangde，zuihou，dangchuguinanrenhuiguihouxinlizhuangtaihuodemanmangaishanhebenzhijunhengshi，tabakeyizaifujianzhijiandeguanxizhongxunzhaoshencengcidehemuhexingfu。tahuigaoqingchuwaiyuweizijiyutarendailaideshanghai，yicizuoweijinggao，gengweizhenxidangxiayongyoudeyiqie。