冷爱精选：不要把丈夫当作是供养者

　　nanrenchuguilenvrengaizenmeban，zaimianduinanrenwaiyushi，nvrenjingchangmianlinfeichangdadeshenglixinliqingganwenti。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nvrenbixuzhenzuoqilai，lengjingfenxiyuchulizheiyiwenti。tamennengtiaoxuanzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，xunqiufuqiganqingdexiubu；huoshiquedingliquzheiyiduanbuzhongdehunyin，congtoukaishiyiduanquanxindeshenghuo。buguantamentiaoxuanshenmeyangdefangshi，zuizhongyaodeshinvrenyaoyonggandemianduishiqing，xunzhaoneixindepinghenghepingjing。weiyouruci，tamencaikeyizaizheilinijingzhongzhaodaoshuyuzijidelilianghegerenjiazhi，zhonggouxingfudeweilai。youyu，nanrenyoulewaiyu，nvrenrengranyekeyizaibianhuaduoduandeyishengzhongxunzhaozijideaiqing。

　　心理状态挣脱与理智会话

　　nanrenchuguilenvrengaizenmeban，zaimianduinanrenwaiyushi，nvrenjingchangshenxianxinlizhuangtaizhengtuoyuyihuodangzhong。tamenhenyoukenengjuedenaonu、panbian、shiwanghejuewang，buzhidaoruhejiejuezheiyibeishangdeshiji。danshi，yezhengshizaizheiyijinyaoguantou，nvrenbixubaochilixingranhoujinxingziwoduihua，yilixingdijiejuezheizhongqingkuang。

　　zuixian，nvrenbixujingxiaxinlai，shenxiqibingtanxunneixinshenchudejunheng。zailizhizhuangtaixia，tamennengwenyixiazijiyixiezhongyaodenanti：tamenyuanbuyuanyizaiciweichizheiduanganqing？tamennengfoukuanrongnanrendepanbiangerenxingwei？tamenshibushitiqianzhunbeiyingduihunyindekaoyanbingshizhexiubuta？

　　真诚交流和诉求点

　　buguannvrenquedingzaicihunyinhaishixuanliqu，zhenchengdejiaoliushibukequeshaode。tongguoyunanrenchuangjianzhenchengdeduitan，nvrennenggoubiaoshuzijideqingxuyuxuqiu，tongshihainenggouzhengqiunanrendemiaoshuhesikao。

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，nvrennenggoumingquetichuzijidexiangfahegulv，xiangnanrenbiaomingtamenduiyuzhongshiherenkedeguannian。yucitongshi，nvrenyeyaolingtingnanrendemiaoshuhesikao，yilijietachuguideyuanyin，bingquedinghunyinweilaidefazhan。neiyangdejiaoliuyouliyugoujiangengnonghoudeqingxulianluo，youweichuliwentixunzhaohenyoukenengfangxiang。

　　寻求婚姻指导和专业支持

　　yingduinanrenwaiyudetongchu，nvrenkeyikaolvxunqiuhunyinzhidaoyuzhuanyezhichi。hunyinzhidaoshinenggoutigongzhuanyedejianjieyujianyi，xiezhufuqiliangrenliqingxintai、gaijingoutongjiaoliu，bingtanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。zheizhongzhichiyouliyujianlixindefuqijianderentonghehunyinguanxi，youweihunyindehuifutigongzhichihezhichi。

　　chucizhiwai，nvrenhainenggouxunqiubenrenxinlishudaohuocanyuzhichirenqun。zheizhongxingweinenggoubangzhutamenjiejuezijidexinqing，gaibianziwoshiyongjiazhi，bingyicizhaodaoduizishenbijiaohaodejiejuefangfa。jishuzhuanyezhichishinvrenbaituokunjingdezhuyaowangluoziyuan，haikeyiweitamenjiyujingshenshangdezhichiyukuanwei。

　　彻底改变自身与连接未来

　　wulunnvrenjixuhunyinhaishilikai，tawubichedigaibianzishen，bingyonggandequmianduijianglai。zaizheigeguochengzhong，nvrenbixuduizishenjiazhiyuxuqiukaizhansikao，binggenjuzishendexinlingshenchuquzuochujuece。

　　jiarunvrenquedingzaicihunyin，tamenyaojiyunanrengenzijiyigejihui，hemuxiangchu，bingqieyichuangxinxingdefangfazhongjianxinrenhehunyinguanxi。jiarunvrenlikai，tamenjiuxuyaozhaodaoxindemubiaohezongtimubiao，congtoukaishiyiduanquanxindeshenghuo。

　　nanrenchuguilenvrengaizenmeban，buguantiaoxuanshenmeyangdefangshi，nvrendouyaoxiangxinzijineizaideliliang，jianqiangdimianduikunnan，bingqieyijijidexintaimaixiangweilai。nanrenwaiyujinjinshenghuodangzhongyicicuobai，ernvrennenggoubangzhuxuexipeixun，fazhan，bingzhaodaozijidexingfukuaile。