冷眼观爱：什么是情绪价值？

　　chuguilezenmeranglaogongyuanliang，zaiwomenshenxianwaiyudebuzhengqueyihou，ranglingyibanyuanliangjiushiwomenzuixiangwangdejielun。danshi，zenyangzaipanbianxingshanghaizhongxunzhaozhongjianxinrendeluqueshiyigejianxinermanzhangdeguocheng。zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangyaotaolunchuguizhihou，genjuzhenchenghuigaiyuxingweilaihuodelaogongdeyuanliangdefangshiheduice。bulunshitiaominghehuihen，huoshiqinfenxiubuhunyinhejianlixindeqinmiguanxi，womenjiangyaotanxunzuiyouxiaodefangfalaifujiandajialiekaidehunyin，jinerzaicihuodelaogongxin。

　　探寻内心的气魄

　　chuguilezenmeranglaogongyuanliang，dangyigenvrenchajuezijichuguizhihou，neixinchongmanzheneijiuaohui。tarenshidaozijifanxiapanbian，duilaogongdaozhilesunhai，eryuanlianghaoxiangxianggewanli。danshi，xiangranglaogongyuanliang，shouxianyaotanxunneixindeqipojienazijideguoshi，bingzhenxinchengyihuihen。

　　挑明揭开内心的真相

　　zhendexiangbeijielushi，jiekaizheiyicengbahenbingfeiyishi。danshi，weiyinenggouzhongjianxinrendefangfajiushitiaoming。suiranyingduilaogongdexinhanfennuhenyoukenengrangrenhaipa，danrencuotongshitigongquanbuyouguanxinxishibukequeshaode。weiyoutongguozhenchengyuzhenshi，cainengzhenzhengdezhanshichuneixindebianhuahechengxin。

　　时间不会解毒药，可是必须的

　　shijianyigelebuqidezhiyuzhe，danshiduiyushanghaixiububingbushiweiyi。laogongduiwaiyudesunhaiburongyiyiyejianxiaotui，yiner，jiyuduifangshijianyukongjianlaichulizijidexinqingshifeichangbiyaode。yucitongshi，chuguizheyeyaogenjuxingweizhengmingzijigenggai，genjubuduannulizhongjianxinren。

　　积极开展婚姻医治

　　hunyinyizhishixiufufushanghunyindezhongyaofangshi。genjuxunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu，fuqiliangrennenggouqingtuneixindekuchu，yikaozhuanyerenyuandezhidaohetiyixunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。canjiahunyinyizhixianxianchudajiazhenzhengxiangyaoxiubuhunyinjuexin，laogonghaihuishizhiweijijizhudongdexingwei。

　　重构亲密关系

　　fujianqinmiguanxibixufuzhunulinaixin。genjuxietongpeihe，gongtongshangdingzhengtiguihua，jiqiyitongcanjiahuodong，womennengmanmanhuifuhunyinlideaiqinglianluo。yucitongshi，zhanxianduilaogongdeguanhuaiyulijie，hetazhongxinjianlipeihemoqiyeshifeichangzhongyaodeyibu。

　　坚持不懈的勤奋

　　huodelaogongdeyuanliangbingbushishiyishidequanguocheng，ershiyigechixubuduandeqinfen。womenyinggaizhanxianchuwomendoushizhidexinlaihehuafeideairen，bingjianshouchengnuo。genjujiandingdeyizhihejianchibuxiedeqinfen，dajiayouxiwangfujianhunyin，bingyingdelaogongxin。

　　汇总

　　chuguilezenmeranglaogongyuanliang，buguanwomenfanxiaruhecuowu，zhenchenghezhenchengshifujianhunyindeguanjiansuozai。genjuneixindeqipo，tiaomingjieluneixindezhenxiang，jiyushijianyukongjian，jijikaizhanhunyinyizhi，zhonggouqinmiguanxi，bingjianchibuxiedeqinfen，renmenhaiyoujihuiranglaogongyuanliangbingfujianwomenzijidehunyin。danshi，zhongjianxinrenjuefeiyishi，yaobicigongtongfendounaixin。zuizhuyaodeshi，chuguizhewubiyishidaozijidebuzhengque，bingjichuzhenzhengdegaibian。