男友说我伤害了前任 我应该分手吗？

　　laogonghezijimamachuguilezenmebanya，mianduineiyangdejiongjing，danglaogongyuzijidemamachuguishi，xinlidekuchuheyihanwufayanyu。danshi，womenbunengshizijibeiyoushangfennusuodadao。zuixian，womenyinggaipingjingxialai，weichiqingxingtounao。cizhi，yushoushanghaideqinrenxianghuxinrenheqingtu，yitongmianduinanti。zuizhongyaodeshi，chongfenkaolvgerenhuoyigejiatingdequanyi，jinxingxiangyingdeguanlijuece，jiangbaokuozixunzhuanyerenyuandejianyihexunzhaofalvfuwu。zuizhuyaodeshi，yaoxiangxinzishenjiazhihezizun，bingjiejinquanliweizijiderenshengzhaodaofazhanfangxiang。

　　冲击性与疑惑：面对背叛的苦楚

　　laogonghezijimamachuguilezenmebanya，zaiwomenfaxianlaogongyuzijidemamachuguishi，jingshenshangdedaolejidachongji。zheizhongbeipanshiwomengandaokongju、yihuoheyihan。rangwomenyiqilaizhiyizijixuanzeyuxinlaideshiyongjiazhi。danshi，mianduizheizhongqingkuang，womenbunengchenmiyukunanzhong，ershiyaoyongganmiandui，bingzhaodaojiejuefangan。

　　保持理性：在错乱中找到均衡

　　lizhishijiejueyiqiejiongjingdezhongyaoqianti。suiranxintaihenyoukenengchuzaiwufakongzhibianyuan，danshiwomenwubijiejinquanlibaochilixingdedanao。xunzhaoyigeanjingdejiaoluo，bikaiyingxiang，jizijiliudianchushijianyukongjianqusikaoheshulixinxu。neiyangnengbangzhuwomencongcuoluanzhonghuifupingheng，shiwomenkeyizuochumingzhidexuanzeguanlijuecetiaoxuan。

　　倾吐和支持：找到真心以待得人

　　mianduibeipanheneixinshenchudetongku，womenyinggaixiangzaoshouyiyangshanghaiqinrenbiaoshuwomenzijidetihui，bingxianghufuchi。zheizhongqingtunengbangzhuwomenhuanjiexinliyali，bingrangwomenjuedeanweilejie。zheishi，zhaodaoyiweiyaohaodepengyou、xinlixuezixunshihuoqitazhuanyerenyuanlailingtinghetigongtiyiyeshihenyoubiyaode。

　　明确方向和判断：给自己与家庭设置界线

　　mianduiwaiyunanti，womenyinggaiqingxidizhidingmubiaohepanduan。zuixian，womenyaokeshouzuorendedixian，burenshoubeipanhechuguixingwei。womenyinggaibaohuhaozijidezunyanzizunxin，bukeyizishenshenxianjinyibudekunanzhong。cizhi，womenyaokaolvdaoyigejiatingdequanyi，bingqieweiweihubaoyanghunyinguanxizuochunuli。danzheijiuxuyaogenjushijiqingkuanglaizaijuedingshifouxuzhongxinlajinguanxiheguanlianxiubu。

　　技术专业协助与法律援助中心：寻找外界适用

　　zaiduidaigaileifanzazhuangkuangshi，tongchanghuiyudaoyixiejiannan。yiner，xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhushishifenzhongyaode。xinlixuezixunshi、hunyinyujiatingzixunguwenhuojingshenbingyishengdengzhuanyerenyuankeyitigongyouhaochudetiyiyuzhichi。chucizhiwai，genjushijiqingkuang，niyekeyizhaolvshizixun，zhangwoxiangguanfalvfaguiwentiyuweiquantujing。

　　自然恢复与重塑未来：自尊和希望的改造

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　　结束语

　　laogonghezijimamachuguilezenmebanya，zaiwomenfaxianlaogongyuzijidemamachuguishi，womenhuoxuxianruwujindeheianzhong。danshi，dajiabiewangji，zairenshenglvtuzhong，dajiadoumianlinzhetiaozhanmolian。zhiyouyongganmianduihecongrongyingdui，cainengzhenzhengdezhaodaojiejuewentifangshi。bunengrangbeipanzulanwomenzijideqianxing，ershiyiwanqiangyuzhihuiqujibenjianshexingfudeshenghuojianglai。