因为婆媳矛盾老公要和我离婚

　　laogongchuguitongshitiantianjianmiannengduanma，danglaogongchuguibingqieyutongshijingchangjianmian，qingganshangdeenyuanhekunhuobimianbule。zaizheiyangdefanzadejumianxia，dajiajinbuzhusisuo：zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，shibushinengduan？genjumianduikunnan、zhenchenggoutongjiaoliu、lingtingduifangdexinsheng，fuqibicihaiyoujihuixunzhaojiejuedebanfa。danshi，zheijiuxuyaobicizhijiandeqinfenheyongqi，yucitongshi，tongshizhijiandeshuyuanyeshibixude，yibaozhangyigejiatingdehemuyupingwen。zaiduidaizheizhongwentishi，lixingheganxingjianju，chuangjianxinrenhexinxinshizhongyao，weiyouruci，zheigewenticaikenengjishijiejue。

　　laogongchuguitongshitiantianjianmiannengduanma

　　weilenengtaolunzheigewenti，womenyinggaicongbutongjiaodusisuo。zuixian，hunyinlidexinrenshidazaopingwenguanliandezhongyaoqianti。danshi，danglaogongchuguierqieyutongshijingchangjiechudeshihou，zheileixinrenhuizaoshouchongjixing。

　　重新思考夫妻关联

　　yingduilaogongchuguideshishi，fuqibiciyingdangkeyijiecijihuizhongxinsikaotamendeganqingguanlian。zaizheiqijian，bixutanchengxiangjiandigoutongjiaoliu，bicizhijianxuehuifangxiaxinlidegeheyutongku，quanmianlejielingyifangneixinshenchudeyaoqiu、tongkuyuyihuo。

　　创建真诚的对谈方式

　　weijiejuezheigewenti，fuqibicikeyijianliyigezhenchengdeduitanfangshi。zheileihuihuafangshiyinggaishiyigeanquanshineikongjian，shibicinenggouzhenchengbiaodachuzijidexiangfayuxuqiu，goutongxieshangbicizhijiandeqidaiheyixiang。

　　寻找技术专业婚姻辅导

　　dangzaoyuneiyangdekunraoshi，xunzhaogengzhuanyedehunyinfudaoshiyigezhengquedexuanze。gengzhuanyedehunyinfudaoshikeyitigongxinlizhichiheyindao，xiezhufuqibicishulixinxu，huajiemaodun，fujianxinren，bingxunzhaochushihetamenjiejuefangan。

　　重新设置界线和规定

　　weilefangzhizaicifashengtongyangdewenti，fuqizhongjianbixuzhongxinshezhijiexianheguiding。zheibaohandanshibuxianyuzhidingbicizunzhongdexingweiguifan，queliburongrendegerenxingwei，xietongpeiheyuzhichibicizhijiandexuyaoheqinggan。

　　避开同事接触

　　weilenengjiejuezheiyijiongjing，fuqibiciyingdangquanliyifujianshaobubiyaodetongshichupeng。zheiwangwangyiweizheqizhongyifanghuoshuangfangyinggaikaolvhuanyifengongzuo，huodiaozhengshijianyubangongdidian。neiyang，fuqiguanliancaikeyihaiyoujihuizaicigoujianqiwendingxinghexianghuzhijianxinrendeqianti。

　　坚毅与信念

　　zaimianduizheiyangdefuzawentishi，fuqibiciyaobaochijianyiheyongqi。zheiyiguochenghenyoukenengchongchizhekunnanyucuozhe，danshizhiyaobicizhongxindexiwangxiufuguanxi，xiangxinzijishuipingheyongqi，tamenjiangnenggoukuayuezhangai，fujianmeimanhunyin。

　　自我提升和重构

　　zuizhong，mianduizheiyangdekaoyan，fuqibiciyeyingdangyunyongzheicijihuikaizhanziwotishenghezhonggou。genjudandudetansuoheziwofansi，tamennenggougenghaodilejiezishengenduifang，tigaoziworentongganhezizunxin，jinerzaiguanlianzhongxunzhaozuiheshidejunheng。

　　laogongchuguitongshitiantianjianmiannengduanma，buguanlaogongchuguitongshitiantianjianmianshibushinengduan，zuizhuyaodeshifuqibiciyingyizhenzhihejijiweijiben，yitongtanxunjiejuewentidefangfa。weiyoutongguomiqiegoutong、xianghuzhichi、chuangjianxianghuxinren，tamencaikeyifujianlianggerendeganqingqiaoliang，maixianggengxingfuzhangqiwendingdeganqingshenghuo。