冷眼观爱：化解情侣之间的矛盾 学会冲突管理

　　laogongrangwochugui，zaizheigegushizhong，nvyihaowufahuibiyigejiannandejueze。talaogongrangqichugui，zheigexianshirangtajuedeshiwangheyihuo。tachajuezijixianruyigeshehuidaodedejiongjing，yaobupanbianhunyindezhishi，yaobuchengshoubumanyiderichangshenghuo。wuluntatiaoxuannatiaolu，doujianghuiduitadexinlizaochengshenyuandeyingxiang。zheigegushigoujianlehunyinlidekuailehetongchu，bingzhanxianleyigenvrenzaiwunaihesuiyijiandezhengtuo。

　　婚宴身后阴影

　　laogongrangwochugui，zaineigechuntiandehunlixianchang，wobaozhemanhuaixingfuzourulehunyindeshengdian。danshi，womeiyouyishidao，zaimeilideershenhouyunzangzheyipianheiying。

　　初见

　　womenxiangyuzaidaxueqijian，zheigerenshiweiyoumoyouqudenanhaizi，yinrenzhuyi。dajiakuaisuzhuiluolewenrouxiang，quedingyitongzouguorenshengdemeiyigejieduan。yinci，wohaobuyouyudejieshoutadelangmanqiuhun，tiqianzhunbeijindaohunyindeshengdian。

　　婚姻幻想

　　yuanyiweihunyinjianghuishiyiduantianmeilvcheng，liangrenhuxiangzhaogu，yitongzhuixunxingfu。danshi，shijiquemanmanzhangxianleqicankuyimian。laogongzhujianbuzaineimezhaoguwo，duiwoyaoqiubuwenbuwen。tagengduodejiangjinglifangzailegongzuoyuxihaozhong，bingfeiguanxinzhichiwo。wohaipaguduheshiwang。

　　外遇的诱惑

　　congwowukenaihedeqingkuangxia，yigerangwoxinyiderenchuxian。tajiwojiubeilaogonghushideguanaiyuwennuan，rangwozaicitihuidaoxingfudeziwei。zaimouyigeshengengbanyedexiangqinyuehuihou，dajiachuxianleyiliaozhiwaideqinjin。woxianruzizenanyizibadenitanzhong，xinlipinmingzhengzha。

　　道德和法律挣脱

　　woshenshengaoqingchuchuguishiyizhongpanbian，budanshanghailewodelaogong，yeshanghailewozishen。keshi，youzenmenenggouchengshourifuyiridelengmogudanni？wojiubeisuokundaodehefalvliangnankunjing，meifaxiajuexin。

　　探寻真相

　　manmandi，wojianjianshendusikaowohunyin。wodasuanzhudongyulaogonggoutongjiaoliu，sousuodaan。wogentashuowodeganjueyutongku，xiwangkeyiyousuobianhua。danshi，tadehuifurangwogengweibengkui。tajingranganjinglisuodeshuo：“ruguonibukaixin，jiulikaile。”

　　迈向摆脱

　　zheihuahaositianbengdilieban，bawocongshuimengzhongjingxing。wobuhuizaijizijidesangshieryoushang，fandaojuedehuorankailang。zhongyuyishidao，wobudebuduizijihaodian，tanxunguishuyuwodekuaile。wogaosuzijiyaowanqiang，likaizheigedifangrangwoshenxinpibeidehunyin。

　　从头开始

　　lihunzhihou，wozaicizhuixunxinzhongdemengxianghemeihao。wodongdeledandu，xuehuilezizunziai。wojianjianfujianzishenderenshengjingli，nulizuoyigegengyouzixinhejianqiangdenvren。zuizhuyaodeshi，wozaiyicizhaodaoshiwodezijideaiqing。

　　结束语

　　laogongrangwochugui，jinguanwobudebushuo，zaihunyinzhongchuguishiyizhongbudaodedexingwei，dantongshiyeyaorenqinghunyinlideduoyangxinghedajiarenxingdeyoudian。renrendouyouzhipeiquanxunzhaozijideaiqing，erbuxuyaobeisuokunbukaixinkuailedeguanxili。baituohunyinyinying，zaicixunzhaozijideaiqing，caisuanshiwomensuoyourenyingdangsuozhuiqiudezhenzhenzhengzhengshiyongjiazhi。