老公不主动联系我我该变主动吗？

　　danglaogongchuguizijiguimi，congqinmiwujiandederenzhongzaodaobeipan，suizheerchengdeshiyichangqingganshangdedizhenzaihai。zheibantongkudebeipanrangrenchengshoubuzhu，budanmanzhangsishoubianchengleyiqian，yeshixinrenheyouqingdeqiaoliangruhaishishenloutupianpingkongxiaoshi。qingganshangdeshoushang，zenmemianduibeipanderenyushi，ruhezhongxinxiubuneixindewaishang，chengweileyigejiannandexuanzehechaoguo。zhongjiu，jiechuzheibuxingdemidi，caikenengmaixiangyigexindekaishi。

　　冲击性人心的背叛

　　 dangyouqingyuaiqingdeqiaoliangjiaozhizaiyiqi，qijianyunhanzhewuqiongdexinrenheyikao。danshi，danglaogongchuguizijiguimi，zheiyikanqilaiwanmeigouzaobeisipo，yichangchongjixingrenxindebeipanzhujian。zaizheiyangyigebuxingyiyangdechangjingxia，womenyinggairenqingbeipandetongku，bingxunzhaochuyitiaofujianzishendelu。

　　 接受不了的事实

　　 beipandeshishihaosiyikedashaqi，yishunjiansipoleneixindeningjing。dajiabukebimiandishenxianmimanghecaiyidangzhong，tongkudequxunwenweihe。zheiyicengjingrucihaodeguanxi，zheibanxinlaidemubiao，zenyanghuidiaorubeipandeshenyuan？buguanduomewufajieshou，womenyinggaimianduizheiyangdekeguanshishi，jienaxianshizhongcanren。

　　 损害与痛苦的交错

　　 beipanzaochengdeshanghaiyutongku，shihennanwenzibiaodade。neixinxiangshibeidaotongyiban，meiyicihuxidoushizaiwujintongkubianyuanpaihuai。nuqiyuyoushangjiaozhizaiyiqi，dajiaxianrunanyizibadexintaiwoxuan。danshi，zheiyipiantongkuzhihaili，womenyinggaixunzhaoyongqiyuliliang，congzheidangzhongxingqi，gaibianziwo。

　　 社会舆论与责怪压力

　　 beipancongsirendeguanlianyongxianggonggongxingdechangsuo，shehuiyulunyuzeguaiyaliwuchubuzai。haopengyou、qinren、shehuifazhanmuguanghuaguo，haoxianglirenbangeduanwomenzijideneixin。dajiawufahuibilaiyuanyubierendechizehezhize，chengshoulenanyiyanyuyali，changshizaishehuiyulunwoxuanzhongbaochiyisiqingmingjie。

　　 探寻治愈的路

　　 zaibeipandeanheixia，womenyinggaitanxunyitiaozhiyudelu。zaizheigeguochengzhong，womenyinggaishendusikaoziyideneixin，zhangwozijideyaoqiuheqiwang。nenggoushiyouxunzhaogengzhuanyedexinlifudao，nenggoushiyouyuqinmiderengongxiangneixindetongku，nenggoushiyouzhaodaoxindeaihekaixin。buguantiaoxuanshenmeyangdefangshi，dajiadoubixuyaojizijizhaodaoyigezhongxinqihangdeyuanyin，jieshoucongqiandetongku，dongdeshifangchulaixinlingshenchudefudan。

　　 从背叛迈向新的开始

　　 zongranbeipanshiyichangniannianbuwangdetongku，danshiwomenyidingyaonulijiangqizuoweiyiwang，maixiangxindekaishi。zheiyiguochengxuyaodajiaxiubuxinlingdechuangshang，zhongxinjianliziworenshi，zhongxinsikaozijidejiazhiherenshengguihua。buguanzenyang，womenyinggaijianxin，beipandetongkuburongyishizhongjushuzhudajia，womenyiranyoushilixiangyonggengmeihaodemingtian。

　　 laogongchuguizijiguimi，beipandetongkubawomenyinxiangshenshendiqingxudiguqi。danshi，zaizheipianheianlixunzhaoguangmingdelu，jinliangrangzijizaicidianranzuiwennuandehuomiao，zheicaishiweiyidexuanze。beipansuiranrangrentongku，danshiwomenyaojianxin，yonggandemianduibeipan，dajianengzhaodaozhenzhenzhengzhengguishuyuzijideaiqing。