冷眼观爱：女生应该怎样和男生聊天

　　zaiwomentaolunhunyinlidezhongshishi，tongchangjuedechuguishiyigebukeyijieshoudepanbiangerenxingwei。danshi，lingrenchijingdeshi，youyixiefuqiganqingjinguanjingliguochuguiyinying，danlaogongjurannengrongrenwodechugui。zheileirenshouyebushiweileduifangzuixingzhiruowangwen，fanershishijianlizainonghoudexinren、lejiehejiaoliujichushang。zheipiangushiyinqilerenmenduiyuhunyinyishidetansuo，yerangwomensikaolezhongshidezhenzhenzhengzhenghanyi。lianggerensuochengxiandebaoronghexiufuzhongjingliguodejiannanyuzhengtuo，xingchenglezheiyiduanchaohuchangrendehunyinguanliandeguanjian。

　　考验与复建

　　zaihunyinzhong，zhongshibeishiweishizuizhongyaodefuwuchengnuozhiyi，danshi，dangchajuezijijingranchuguihou，xinlidewentikuijiuxianglaimeiyourenkeyilijie。zheiyiqinshenjinglishiwoxianrushenshendineixinzhengzhazhong，danshi，lingrenchijingdeshi，wolaogongjurannengrongrenwodechugui。

　　更深刻的缘故

　　zaiyanjiuzhangfudebaorongyiqian，bixuzhangwoshenhoushencengcideyuangu。hunyinbujinshiliangrenjiandeganqinglianluo，gengjiashishijianlizaixianghuzhichihejiaoliudeqiantixia。yexu，dajiazaihunyinzhongchuangzaoleyizhongyuzhongbutongmoqihexinren，rangtaduiwodebuzhengquetiaoxuanyouyidingderenshou。

　　信任和沟通

　　zaihunyinzhong，xinrenshibukequeshaode。bicizhongchengshiweixiguanxidezhongyaozuchengbufen，errenshouchuguijiushiyizhongduixinrendetiaozhan。yexu，liangrendeguanxishijianlizaibicizhenchengyuzhenshideqiantixia，yiner，zaiwofanxiacuowushi，tadebaoronghuoxushilaiziyuduiwoxinrenheduizanmenzhijiandeguanxidezhizhe。

　　情感上的反转

　　beirongrendejuedebingbushiyizhongjiaoaohuojijileguandexintai，zhishixinliduizishendeneijiuduibicideneijiu。zheileifanzhuandeqingxujiyuworenzhendesikao。shibushiwogaigewaizhenxiyanqiandexingfu？shibushiwomenyaogengduodeguanxinbicizhijiandeyaoqiuhetihui？

　　恢复与新建

　　minruidedongchalirangwocaiyishidao，zhangfurenshouwochuguibingfeifangzhebuguan，fanershihunyinganqingzhongdeyicixiufufujian。womenyitongmianduishiji，yiqijinglibeishangdezhiyuzhixing。zheiyiguochengrangwomengengjiashenkedilejieduifang，yegengjiandingdixinxinfujianwomenzijidehunyin。

　　婚姻思考

　　zheiyiduyiwuerdehunyinguanlianjiwomendailaileduixianyouhunyinsixiangdesisuo。yexu，zhongshibudandanshiyangekongzhigerenxingwei，gengjiashishijianlizaixianghuzhichihebaorongdeqiantixia。zheizhonghunyinguanlianxuyaodajiasikao，zhongxinsikaohunyinlidejiazhiguan，bingyicixunzhaojiangudezhongyaoqianti。

　　结果

　　womenzijidehunyinyoubieyupingchangren，youyulaogongjurannengrongrenwodechugui。zheiyiqinshenjinglirangwomenzhongxinlejiedaohunyinlidezhongshihebaorong，yerangwomengewaizhenxiyunulibaochizheiyifenteshuguanlian。baorongbingbushirenshouguodu，ershixinrenhejiaoliudeqiantixiaxunzhaoxiufufujian。zheipiangushitixingzhedajia，hunyinlidezhongshiherenshoubingbushidanyi，ershiyigefanzaqiefuyouqingganshangdequanguocheng。