冷眼观爱：女生追男生真的不靠谱吗

　　benwenjiangweirao“laogongjurannengrongrenwodechugui”zheiyiyouxiyinlidekeguanshishijinxing，taolunshencengyuanyinshenglixinli。genjutansuozheiyilingrenzhenjingdezhuangkuang，womenjiangyaosikaozenmeyangdeyaosurangrenmenzaiguanlianzhongtiaoxuanbaorongbingxunzhaodiaojie。yucitongshi，dajiayeyaokaolvchuguiduifuqiganqinghegerentishengchanshengdeyingxiang，ruhegenghaodizouchuyinyingbingfujianxinren。zuihou，womenjiangyaoweizheiyifuzaqierangrenlijiebuledezhuangkuangzhaodaoyigeyoujiazhidebiaoshu。

　　我出轨和他的包容

　　yanjingzhushizhejingzhongdeziji，kanjiandangchuneigeyizhibuzhuneixindeyuwangerbeiqilingyifangderen。yizhongshenshendineijiugancongxinliranranshengqi，danyewufahushineixinshenchudexunwen：weishawodelaogongjurannengrongrenwodechugui？

　　一. 探索身后的原因

　　zairenjijiaowangzhong，xinrenbeishiweiyizhongguanjiandezhongyaoqianti。yidanzheiyigengenjiyaobaibuding，liefengjiuhuikuozhang。danshi，lingrenzhenjingdeshi，wochuguibingbushixiangyuxiangdeneibanshiwomendehunyinyaoyaoyuzhui，fanguolai，tahaoxiangbianchenglewomengengjialaogudeqiaoliang。

　　二. 其背后的深爱着和包容

　　aishiyizhongqiangjingdeqingxunengliang，tarangwomenyuanyikuanrongduifangguoshi，bingjieshoutamenzishendequedian。wodelaogongduiwochuguihenyoukenengbingbushimeiyoufannao，danshitadebaorongzhanxianchuletaduiwonongnongdeaiyi。tahaowuyiwenqidaiwomendehunyinkeyihuiguizhenggui，shiwomenjianlixindexinrenyuwennuan。

　　三. 复建的过程与艰难

　　danshi，baorongbingbudengyuyiqiekeyihuidaocongqiandemeimiao。fujianhunyinxuyaoyiduanshijian、nuliyuzhencheng。wohenqingchuzishenbudanyaoxiangwodebanlvzhiqian，haixuyaojijizhudongcaiquyouxiaocuoshilaigaibianxianzhuang，cainengzuodaozhenzhenggentazhengshiwozhidetadexinrenyuai。

　　四. 叛变对婚姻和个人产生的影响

　　wochuguibudanduiwomendehunyindaozhilechongjixing，yeduiwogerentishengxingchengleshenyuandeyingxiang。worenshidaozijidebuzhengquebingfuchuguojidadaijia，danshi，yechengweilewochengzhangyufanshengziwodejihui。woxuehuilezhenxihunyinyujiating，donglelingwudezhilianghuibiyishidechongdonggengweizhongyao。

　　五. 彻底改变婚姻和复建信任

　　dajiayizhizainulichedigaibianwomendehunyin，bingzhidingyigexindejiben。zheiyiguochengbushiyicuerjiude，danshiwomenxinxinjixuqianjin。genjuzhenchengdejiaoliu、xianghufuchiyufuchu，woxiwangfujianxinren、xiufuhunyinjiankang，bingzhubupingfuneixinshenchudeshangba。

　　六. 深入感悟教训与警告

　　wochuguiqinshenjinglijileshenkedejiaoxunhejinggao。tadingzhuwozhenxidangxiayongyoudexingfu，jiqihunyinlidedandanghefuwuchengnuo。yucitongshi，yedingzhuwoguanzhuwomendeqingganxuqiu，bingqiezaimianlinkunjingshixunzhaogenghaodegoutonghejiejuefangfa，yifangtarucengjingdewotabiancuowulumian。

　　wolaogongjurannengrongrenwodechugui，zheishiyiduanqinshenjinglirangwomingbailepanbiandeshanghaibaorongdeyuanyin。zheishiyiduanbeishangdequanguocheng，danyezhanxianleaihexinrendenengliang。womenjiangjixuqinfenfujianhunyin，weiweilaideshenghuochuangzaoyigegengweiwanqiang、wennuanyouchongchizhenongnongdeaiyigenji。