冷眼观爱：我要如何确定他是否喜欢我

　　laogongzaiwaidizenmepanduanchumeichugui，danglaogongzaiwaidishi，yaofenbianduifangshifouchugui，yongyouzhongduoyihuo。fuqizhijiandexinlaigenjizaoshoumolian，ershenchuyidigulvgengweilingrenjiaolv。danshi，yaopingzheyijuhuaquedingshifouchugui，juefeiyishi。waidizhuangkuangfenfanfuza，bingmeiyouquelidefangfalaiburongzhiyidifenbian。xiangbiyikaocaixiangyucaiyi，fufuyingdangzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，jianlixianghuxinrenyulijiedeqianti，weiciyiqimianduinandian，yeshiyufangchuguidejuejiajindao。

　　顾虑担心：外地婚姻的考验

　　laogongzaiwaidizenmepanduanchumeichugui，hunhou，bansuizhegongzuofazhanhuozheqitayuanyin，laogongjingchangbixuwaidigongzuohuozhewaichu。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，qizitongchanghuishenxiangulvdanxindangzhong，buzhidaogairuhefenbianlaogongshibushichugui。zheileibuquedingganjihunyindailailejidadefengxianxing，yinerzenmekandaizheizhongqingkuangbianchenglehunyinzhongyigezhongyaodehuatitaolun。

　　建立沟通交流基本：诚实守信是重要

　　dangmianduiwaidihunyindeyihuoshi，jianligoutongjiaoliuqiantishizhiguanzhongyaode。fuqizhijianyinggaibicizhencheng，erfeijiujiecaixiangyucaiyi。weiyoutongguotanchengjiaoliu，caikeyiqingchuwuhui、jianlixianghuxinren，jinerweichijiankangdeshenghuofuqiganqing。

　　寻找直接证据：但谨慎为先

　　dangcunyouzhiyishi，dajiatongchanghuixunzhaozhijiezhengjulaiquedingshifouchugui。danshi，jinshenheyouxiaodexintaiyouweizhongyao。buyaomangmufanyueshoujishang、jiansuotongxunjiluhuojiankongduifangxingji。zheizhongzuofabudanweihaidaoduifanggerenyinsi，kenenghuihuihuaifuqijiandeguanlian。yingdangzaiyizhongshidangdefangfaxiazhankaidiaocha，baozhengzhijiezhengjudewendingxing，bingtongguoyubanlvdezhenchenghuihuaqujiejuewenti。

　　关心个人行为转变：用心观察至关重要

　　zaiwaididelaogongchuguishi，kenenghuiyouyixiegerenxingweishangdegaibian。qiziyingdangyongxinguanchashibushichuxianlemingxiandegenggai，liruyanxingjuzhiquebuyizhi、huranjiabanjiadianhuojingchangjiaoji、shengshuganjiajudexianxiang。danshi，zheizhongxingweibingwufaquedingchugui，yexuzhishirichangshenghuozhongdeyixiezhuanbian，yinerfenbianyidingyaoshenzhong。

　　夫妇共同奋斗：建立信赖的婚姻

　　zaiwaidihunyinzhong，fuqiliangrendouyaogongtongfendou，jianligenjurentonghejieshoudehunyin。qizizaigulvshibixujianchikeguan，binghelaogongkaizhanshenrudejiaoliu。erlaogongzeyidingyaoxiangqizixiediaogongzuozhuangkuang，bingzhanshichuduihunyinchengnuo。genjufufuzhijiandegoutongyuzhichi，keyigenghaodejiejuewaidihunyinlidekaoyan。

　　总的来说

　　laogongzaiwaidizenmepanduanchumeichugui，bulunshizaiwaidihuoshijiali，fenbianlaogongshibushichuguiquanshiyixiangjiannanerminganmeirirenwu。zaizheiguochengzhong，jianligoutongjiaoliujiben、jinshenxunzhaozhengju、yongxinguanchagerenxingweizhuanbianjiqifufugongtongfendouquanshizhongyaoyinsu。yucitongshi，shendusikaoyulijiedoushiweichihunyinpingwendeguanjiansuozai。zhihuizaixianghulijiehexinrendeqiantishang，hunyincaikeyijianlizhashidejishi。