冷眼观爱：两个都是优质男，我该如何选择

　　laogongzhangqizaiwaidiwochuguile，zailaogongzhangqixingzaiwaidideqiantixia，wobukanrumuguduhexiangnianzhemo，chuguile。zheiyibuzhengquerangwoganjuedaocankuihehouhuimoji，bingqieyejieluleyidilianzhuduopingjingwenti。jibianshishenaidelianren，yeyinweijianjuermianlinwufawanhuidekumenyutongku。woyishichongdongdapoxinlaideqiaoliang，rangwomendeguanxizaoyulejidazaochengdeshanghai。rujin，wobudebumianduiziyideguoshi，bingtanxunfujianzheiduanganqingdefangfa。

　　承受想念，孤独滋生

　　zhangfuchangnianzaiyidi，woxianruyipiangudandedibu。jianjulakaiwomenbiciqiaoliang，liuxiameifamibudekongbai。meitianwanshang，zaiwoduziyirenzaichuangshang，xiangnianfuxianzaiyanqian，jinbuzhudiaoxialaileyididiyanlei。neiyiduanxixizhangzhangdengdaideshijianli，guduhaosiyizhiwuxingguaiwu，qiaoqiaodijindaowoneixin。

　　离不了互联网诱惑

　　xunzhaoyidiananweifuwei，wojiangyanguangzhuanyidaolexuhuanshijie。shejiaowangluopingtai、shejiaoruanjian，chenglewokuanweimubiao。zaineier，wokeyiwangjishijidekunrao，zanshitaoligududecuican。danshi，zhengshizheiyangdeduobi，yaowozhujianmishileziwo。hulianwangshangdeyinyou，gepingwenwantiaodouzhewoxin，xiyinzhuzhetayibubuxianrukepadewoxuan。

　　内心强烈不满与茫然

　　zhangfuchangnianzaiyidi，woyiduhuaiyibicizhijianshibushihaiyouxiwang。guduyukewangaideqingxuchanzazaiyiqi，yaowonanyishihuai。wokewangdedaoguanxin、beiguanzhu，qipanyourenpeiwoduguoshenghuodediandiandidi。xinliqiangliebumanmanmanleiji，chenzhongdejiasuoyaowoshiqulefangxiang。zaigezhongqingxudequdongxia，wobuhuizaixiangchengdanxialai，yincixuanlebuzhengquedefangshi。

　　出轨，一瞬间的想法

　　yizhibuzhudexiangfacaozonglesixu，wodasuanchugui。neiyike，zhenduidaodehefalvhulve，duijiatingdepanbian，haoxiangdouchengweileciyaokaolv。mianduizheileiyishunjiandechengjiugan，wobuhuizaigujiyiqiededaijia。keshizheigeshengshuderen，bianchenglewoxinlingshenchudexiefendemubiao，yaowolinshiwangdiaolezishenqiangliebuman。

　　悲伤的自责后悔莫及

　　chuguiyihou，xinlihenkuaibeiwujinzizehouhuimojisuopuman。woqingchudezhidao，wofanxiawufawanhuicuowu。wogerenxingweishanghaidaofushangshenkederen，weibeilejiazhongdeguannian。wowufayuanliangziji，zhenduiwomensuodailaideshanghaijuedeshenshendikuijiu。danhouhuimojizaoyiwufamibu，wobudebumianduiziyideguoshi，bingweizhifuchuyingyoudedaijia。

　　重建信任，从头开始

　　manxialai，shenzhongkaolv。wozhidao，weiyinenggouyaozuodejiushimianduishiji，mianduibuzhengque。woxuyaoxiangshanghaidaoderenzhiqian，yongshijixingdonglaiyanzhengwozhenzhihehuigaidexin。zhongjianxinrenshiyiduanmanzhangjiankudequanguocheng，danshiwoxiangxin，zhixufuzhunuli，dajiayoukenenghuicongtoukaishi。wojiangyichengxinhetanrandixintaimianduiziyidechuguigerenxingwei，qinfenxiubuwomendeguanxi。

　　异地恋磨炼和挑战

　　yiguolian，bingbushiweiyiyuanyinzaochengdelewochugui。zheiduanganqingbenlaijiumianlinzhuduokunnanhemolian，bixubicibuxiejianchifuchudenuli。jianjuhuidakaiwomendejuli，erguduyuxiangnianzechengweilechuguidefabingyuanyin。yiguolianbixubiciderenke、lejiehejiaoliu，keshiwozaizheiyifangmianxianeryijianyouyidingdebugou。yiner，chuguijinjinyiguoliansuodailaidegenggaotimuzhongdeyihuan。

　　反省和成长

　　cicichuguidezaoyuyaoworenzhenfansi，yishidaolewoxuyaonenggougenghaodijiejueneixindeqingganheyaoqiu。woxuyaodongdemianduiguduyubumanyi，tanxunjijizhudongdejiejuefangfa，erfeijiangzijiyinxiangqitu。woxuyaoshenshizijigerenxingwei，bianchenggengqiangderen、genghaodeairen，bingyicifazhan。

　　从出轨中吸取教训

　　chugui，jiushiworenshengdangzhongyicizhongyaochengfa。woganshoudaoduijiarendepanbiansuodailaideshanghaihehouhuimoji。wozhidao，renbuzhengqueshinenggoujishigaizheng，dansunhaidehenjizeshishenchende。wojiangyinyiweijian，yijianqiangdeyizhiyuxingwei，zaiciwanshanzijiderensheng，qinfenchengweiyiweizhongshi、zhenzhenghejiandingbuyideren。

　　结束语

　　laogongzhangqizaiwaidiwochuguile，zheigeshiworichangshenghuozhongyigewuketidaidebuzhengque。jinguanwomeifahuidaocongqian，danshiwoxiangxin，zhixuyouzhezhenxinshiyihenuli，womennengfujianwomendeguanxi，yiqimianduijianglai。yucitongshi，zheixiejingliyerangwokandaozishendebuzuhechengzhangdefangxiang，wojiangyicizuoweiqudongli，xiangzhezuihaodezijiqianxing。