冷眼观爱：分分合合的爱情值得经营下去吗

　　zaiyiduanganqingzhong，jiaruqizikandaolelaogongdechugui，neitabeishangdeneixinyehuichanshenghenduoyihuo。qizhongyigelingrenkunhuodewentijiushi：zhidaolaogongchuguihouhaitongfangma？zheigewentikunraozhetaqingganyuxinxu。yinweibuguanxinyouqiqidechiyi，huoshiweileweihuyiwangmeihaojiyideqianrang，qizideneixindoushizaijiliedizhengtuo。zheigewentihaowuyiwenyanjiuleyizhongfanzaxinlizhuangtai，bingqieyejieluleqizizaimianduichuguiqingkuangshiwuzhuyufenqi。zheigewentiyexumeiyouyigejiandandehuida，danshitashiwomensikaoleaiqingyuhunyinlidexinlai、renshouyugerenjiazhi。

　　lejielaogongchuguile，qizishibushihaikenyutazaicigongchuyishishiyigechongchizhefanzaqingganyulunlidaodekaolvdenanti。zheigewentiyinqileyouguanrenshou、beipanheaideshenrufenxi。zaiqingganshangdexuanwozhong，qizijingliguoneixindekuchuhedanyou。

　　背叛的痛苦与恼怒

　　zhidaolaogongchuguihouhaitongfangma，faxianzhangfuchuguihou，qizijingliguomengliedeqingxubianhua。tatihuidaoleshenkeshanghaibeipan，neixinchongmanzheshiwanghexinhan。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，jixuyuchuguidezhangfutongfanghenyoukenengshiyizhongwufajieshouzonghewufaxiangxiangdedeshi。taxuyaoshijianyukongjianlaichulizijidexinqing，zhongxinsikaozheiduanganqing。

　　谦让和追求调解

　　danshi，hunyinliyecunyoufuzadeqingganqiaolianghefuwuchengnuo。qizihenyoukenengzaidezhichuguizhihoujixutongfang，bingbudaibiaotaduiyulaogongdebeipangerenxingweiyixiaolezhi，ershigenjuduonianyilaisuzaodeaiqingheshiminggan。tayexushituyongweichihunyinguanxilaiwanjiuhunyin，zhiwangkeyishilaogonghuiguohouzhongxingoujianqixinlai。

　　心理斗争与个人价值

　　dangmianduilaogongdebeipangerenxingweihou，qizitongchanghuishenxianneixindezhengtuo。takenengxuehuisikaozishenjiazhihezizunxindaodizhibuzhidebeicaita。zaicitongfanghuoxujiushitachangshibiaoxianzijirengranjubeiyingxiangliheshiyongjiazhideyizhongfangshi，danshitongshiyehenyoukenengjitachanshengjingshenshangdeshanghaitongchu。zaizheiguochengzhong，qizibixuxunzhaowaijiededalizhichihejishuzhuanyezhuanyezhidao，bangtazhongshineixinpinghengyuzixin。

　　重建信任与婚姻坚持不懈的努力

　　hunyinjiushiyiduanyaobuduanyunyingheweixiudeguanlian。buguanqizishibushijixutongfang，zhongjianxinrenquanshiguanjiandeyibu。qiziyulaogongbixugongtongfendou，jinxingquanfangweidejiaoliuheqingganshangdexiubu。zheijiangbaokuoxunzhaohunyinzixun、zhongxinjianlizhiduhejiexian、chedigaibianhunyinshenghuodeqidaijiqizijintourugengduodejinglilaijiaqiangaiqing。

　　重新思考感情和爱情的定义

　　qizizaidezhilaogongchuguihoushibushihaitongfang，yeyaozhongxinsikaoganqingheaiqingdedingyi。taxuyaoshenshizijidexuqiuhesixiang，jiqihunyinshenghuoduitadeyiyi。youshi，zaicishizijidezishiqilibingjiejuebuzhengchangdeguanlianyoukenengshigengyouxiaolvdetiaoxuan。wulunruhe，fujianzijideaiqingshizuiguanjiande。

　　深思熟虑和内心的实际需求

　　zuihou，lejielaogongchuguizhihouhaitongfangshifoubixuqizichongfenkaolvzijideqingxu、jiazhonghesixiang。zheishiyigefanzadejuecedeguocheng，bixutajinshenshensishulv，bingzuncongneixindeshijixuqiu。zuizhuyaodeshi，buguanxuanzeshenmeyangdefangfa，qizidouyingdongdezunzhongbingxunzhaodaoduitamenzuiyoulijiejuefangan。

　　在背叛后彻底改变关联

　　buguanqizijixutongfanghuoshixunzhaofenlichulai，beipandoushihuiduifuqiguanxidaozhishenkedeyingxiang。zhongjianxinrenhechedigaibianguanlianhenyoukenengxuyaozhangshijianjianchibuxiedenuliyushijian。hunyinshenghuoshiyigechengzhangyuxuexiguocheng，genjuxianghuzhijianbaorongyulijie，fuqiliangrennenggouzhonggouliangrendeguanxi，maixianggengjiajiankanghexingfudeweilai。

　　zhidaolaogongchuguihouhaitongfangma，lejielaogongchuguihoushibushihaitongfang，shiyigezhijirenxinwenti，tabaoluchuganqingshenghuozhongfuzaqiejiujiederenxing。buguanqizizuizhongxuanzeleshenmeyangdelumian，zuizhongyaodeshitadeyizijideaiqingweichufadian，bingqiezaizishenchengzhangdelushangzhaodaoneixinpinghengbingmanzu。