zenyangwanhuilaopoyiduiwoliangtoudexin,wangyoupinglun:“lingjiehunzheng6nian,xianzaiheweilaizhangfuyitianshuobushanglai10ju,shifouzhiyoulihun?”
shijishang,hunyinjiuxiangjialilaokongdiao,yunzuoshijianzhanglemianbulejichenkadun,lijigenghuantaikexile,dongde“chaixiechuhui”caisuanshibenling。
xiamian,gongxiang7gelaizixunzhongyanzhengguodequeshifangshi,danshixuyaochouhuashuozaiqianmian:
zhikanmeidongyeshibaikan,laijiuhunyinshenghuodeconglaidoubushifangshi,jiushinixiangyaosidiaobahendeqipo。
1.吵架的时候喊“中止动态口令”,比甩门更有用
liru,qizishuomeicichaojialaogongjiushuaimenzou,liutayigerenzhanzaiyuandibenkui。
jiaotachengnuoyigelizhianyu,liru“bingjiling”,zhixuyifangjiangchuzheici,lianggerenwubifenli5minqushenghuoyangtaitoutoufeng。
shangxingqidianhuahuifangshilaopoxiaozheshuodao:“youyicitaganggangyaohou,wojiaoleshengbingjiling,talengzhule2miaojingranxiaochulai,qiyixiazijiuxiaoxiaqule。”
jilao:chaojiadeshihounenganxiazantingjianderen,caisuanshilianxidezhangduoren。
2.每天都要做“微波炉加热式关注”,别整满汉全席
haoduorenyixiangdaoxiufuguanxi,jiuyaosongdaligaolanman,jieguoduifangfanerhuijuedeyalitaida。
burushishi“weibolujiareshiguanzhu”:
tajiabanjiadianshifazhan“gangrangnireleniuru”detupian,tazuojiawuhuoshimomodidikuaimaojin。
congweijianguorucinuanhedeanlishiyiweilaogong,meirizaoshangchumenqianzailaopohuazhuangjingzishangtiezhangbianjian:
“jinrikouhongsehaozhenpiaoliang”
nuli3geyuehou,laopojijizhenglitayinianmeisoujidexiaoshufang。
3.用“探案逻辑思维”找分歧根本原因,别当法官判案
yeyouduifufulaowei“sheiguanqian”zhengchao,biaocengkanqilaishijinqianwenti,shenrufenxicaifaxianqiziershiqueguishugan,laogongzedichubeirenkongzhi。
houlaichuangzaole“fenqizhuisubiao”,meicichaojiahouyiqitian:
“cicizhengchaorangwoxiangdaozhiqiantawangdiaofufangzushihoudejinghuang”
“wofapiqiqishijiushipayihounianjidalemeiqiankanbing”。
dangchouxianghuadexintaibianweishijigushi,dikangjiuhuibianchenglejie。
4.每星期开“夸一夸会”,把苛刻换为“光学显微镜式赞扬”
zenyangwanhuilaopoyiduiwoliangtoudexin,jiuyouwangyoumaiyuanlaogongzongxiantacaichaodexian,rangqishiyixiameizhouwuwanshangkai10min“kuayikuahui”,wubijiangchulingyifang3geshijiyoushi。
tadiyiciyaozheyashuo:“nizuoribangzhuhaizitieshouchaobaoneirongshi,xianmiaohuadefeichangzhi”,laogongjingyademukuaidoudiaole。
rujintadekuayikuajiuhuibianchenglejiatingchuantong,lianhaizidounengshuo:“mamajintiantuodishi,shafadixiayemeifangle”。
5.建“婚姻生活储蓄罐”,把琐事存成实打动
zaijialimian,zhunbeiyigekongguanzi,meiyicilingyifangjinxingleshiniganrendeshiqing,jiuxiezhangxiaozhitiaozhuangjinqu:
“jintianxiayutaraodaojiwodaisan”“banyeqichuangjixiaohaichongpaonaifenmeijiaowo”。
shangyigeyueyeyouduifufukaiqicunzhe1niantaoguan,laopobiandubianku:
“yuanyiweitashayemeigan,yuanxiantajiangaidouzangzaizheizhongxiaozhitiaolimianle”。
youshihoubushimeiai,shiwomenwanglebalingsuidewenxinbaocunqilai。
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