爱情咨询：女朋友说我们不合适怎么挽回

　　nvpengyoushuowomenbuheshizenmewanhui，qinrenmen，danghunyinshenghuozheiyitiaoxiaofanchuanzaishenghuolangtaolihuangdong，naizhiyankanzhezhuangshangle“liyi”zheifangmianyanjiao，nixinlikendingyouhuangyouluan，shiba?buyaopa，zhiyaonihaizaihuzheifenganqing，xiangyaobaqizidexinzaicilashanglai，womenyeyoufangfaranghunyinhuiguizhenggui。xiamianzheigefangfa，doushimanmandechengyiyuwennuan，yidingduiniyousuobangzhu。

　　一、让心态“解暑”：自我反省与理智

　　hunyinzhongyidanfashengzhengzhi，neihuamian，rutongdianrandehedan，yidianjiuzha。kezheishihou，niyaokuaijizijidexinqingqingcaichache。huiguotoulai，nishibushiyeyouguozheiyangdeqinshenjingli：yuqizichaodaolianhongerchi，zuizhongshuochudehua，zijidouhouhuimoji。suoyiya，zhaogeanjingdejiaoluo，mengxijiyikouqi，shizijijingxiaxinlai。

　　jingxiaxinlaihou，womenjiuyaolaihuiguyixiazheimeduoniandeganqingshenghuo。rutongfanyueyibenlaoxiangce，baneixiemeihaode、buzhenguideshunjiandounachulaikankan。nimenyoumeiyouchangchanghuiyinweimangzhegongzuo，cuoguoletajingxinzhunbeidewanfan?taxintoubiequyueniqingtushi，nishifoufuyanleshidihuileliangjujiuleshi?bazheixiewentidousouchulai，jinyoulejiewentichuzaina，womenlaijiejueta。

　　二、真心实意沟通交流：搭起内心沟通桥梁

　　dengbicideqingxuwendingxialai，suibianzhaogeheshideshijian，haohaodiyuqiziliaoyiliao。lirutiaoyigelibaitiandewuhou，yangguangnuannuandisazaidaketing，paodaoerbeitaxihuandechashui，zuoxiahaohaoliaoliao。

　　kaichangdeqingkuangxia，yidingyaozhenxinchengyigentashuoninduizheiduanganqingdegaoduzhongshi，rangtazhidaoniconglaimeiyouxiangguoxianglikai，jianglaiderizi，nihainenghetayiqizouguo。xiamian，bianbashuohuadejihuijiaoji，yongxintingtajiang。wuluntashuoxieshenme，doubuyaozhejibianbo，jiusuanxinlibutairenke。nijiunadiandiantou、xiaoronghuifuta，rangtazhidaoniyizhizaiyongxinquganshou。dengtashuowanle，nizaijiangshuotadexiangfaheganshou。jilao，zheigebushibianlunhui，bingbushiweilezhengshifeiduicuo，gengshiweilexianghuxinren，rangliangxinzaicijiejin。

　　三、拾起信赖：修复破损的信赖拼图图片

　　xinlaijiuxiangyizuofangwu，yidanshoudaopohuai，xuyaofujianjiuburongyile，danshiyebushimeifazuodao。niyaojiairenchongzukongjianheshijian，rangqijianjiandicongyuanlaidesunhaizhongzouchulai，zaicijianxinnimenzhijiandeganqing。

　　nvpengyoushuowomenbuheshizenmewanhui，dannizijini，yidingyaoyaneryouxin，yishijixingdongshuomingnidegenggai。tongyitaxiabanlejiuhuilai，neijiubiezaiwaimomocengceng;shuohaoyiqizuojiawu，jiubietoulan。chumenzhiqianjijigentashuoniqunaer、shenmeshihouhuijia，rangqixinliyoudi。jianjiandi，taduinidexinrenbianhuiyidiandianxiufu，rutongbaposundepintutupian，yikuaiyikuaizaicipinhao。

　　四、关注她要求：做她最温暖的依靠

　　zaishenghuozhong，womenyaoduozhuyilaopodeyijuyidong。tagongzuozhongleileyitianhuidaojiali，nijiujitadaobeicha，jitaananjianbang;tajijialideshiqingfanchoushi，nizhudongbangchen，rangtazhidaoniyizhigentabingjianzhandou。

　　chukaishenghuozhongdezhaoliao，gengyaoguanzhutajingshenxuqiu。gesanchawujitayidianxiaolangman，youkenengshitaxihuandeyibenshu，yeyoukenengshihurandaitachiyidundacan。zheixiexiaoxiaodexingwei，rutongdongrizhongdeaiyang，huirangtaneixinnuanhonghongde，zaicikanjiannideaigenzaiyi。