挽回修复：教你挽回一个死心的人

　　jiaoniwanhuiyigesixinderen，hunyinshenghuo，shiaiqingdechixu，doushilianggerengongtongshenghuoyishu。danshi，aiqingyuhunyinzhongjian，changchanghuiyouyitiaokanbudaodeqiuhe。dangshenghuodesuosui、yali、haizichengzhangdengshiwomenchoumeibuzhanshi，hunyinshenghuojingchangbuzhibujuejiuhuibiande“pingpingchangchang”。

　　nishifouxianzaikaishicaiyi：“hunyinshenghuozhendekeyijianchixiaquma?”

　　biezheji，jinrijiudainiyiqilaikankan，ruhewanhuihunyin，rangganqingzaicitiwen，zhongshidangchuneigeqingxindetahuota。

　　1. 聆听，还是很重要的

　　youxieshihou，hunyinlidefenqibushiyinwei“zhengchao”zishen，zhishiyinwei“bubeirenlijie”。dajiazongshiyiweizishenshuoleyixie，danshiduifangqishimeiyoutingdejinqu。

　　哪些才算是聆听?

　　budandanshiguaiqiao，fanershilejieduifangdeqingxu。danglingyibanzaisushuoshi，paokaishouji，xuehuifangxiazheixieyijingdajiaonidesiweizasheng，jibicichongzudeguanzhuxixin。ninengjingqidifaxian，xuduowentijinjinzhiyaowomenmeiyouwanquantingmingbaierjidianbianchengwufadiaohedeliefeng。

　　社会心理学讲解：

　　zhenzhengyiyishangdelingtingkeyizengjiaqinmigan，rangbicijuedebeizhongshiheguanai，zheibujinnengxiubuwuhui，haikeyijiazhongqingganshangdeshenceng。

　　2. 拾起幽会，避免陷入舒适圈

　　biewangji，dajiayecengshilangmanlianren!

　　hunyinshenghuojindaowendingxinghou，tongchanghuixianru“richang”deshushiquan——buhuizaiguanxinduifangdexiaoxiguan，bianbuzaiweiduifangdeqingxuzuochuxixindihuifu。

　　该怎么办?

　　rutongchuciyuehuishiyiyang，zaiciyouhui、zaicizhizaoyixieshenmigan。napashiyigejiandandewancan，huoshiyiqiqukanyichangdianying，ranghunyinlidelanmanzhonggui，nijiuhuifaxiannimendeguanxihuomiaohaimeiyouwanquanmiediao。

　　社会心理学讲解：

　　shehuixinlixuegaojiewomen，tanlianaizhongchangyongde“qitexiaoyong”yeshiyongyuhunyinshenghuo。dangniderichangbiandeyouquhefangsongshi，yehuizengjiaqingxudeyingxiangli，ranghunyinchongchizheshenmigan。

　　3. 懂得致歉，回绝“是非对错”

　　hunyinshenghuoli，nanmianhuiyudaomaodun。youshi，shifeiduicuomeineimezhongyao，zuizhongyaodeshidajiayuanbuyuanyicongbicizhijiandejiaodukaolv，xuehuifangxia“naweizhengquede”zheiyangdexintai。

　　jiaoniwanhuiyigesixinderen，zhiqianbingbushirouruo，ershiyizhongdanliangyubaorong。jiaruniyishidaolenalizuocuole，jiandingdirencuo，erbushiyiweijianchibuxiezijidelichang，aiqingdeliefenghuibijiaorongyixiubu。

　　社会心理学讲解：

　　yanjiufaxian，rencuodenengliangkeyiyouxiaojianqingfenqi，tebieshi“aiqingzhiqian”，nenggoucujinshuangfangqingganshangdehaiyuanheqinmigandexiufu。

　　niyaozhiqianshi，shiyinweinizaiyilingyifang，yezunzhongzheiduanganqing。

　　4. 不要压抑自己情绪，适度缓解压力

　　haoduorenwurenweihunyinlideqingganbiaoxianyaoyongyuan“rouhelixing”。shijishang，shidudexuanxieqingxushijiankanghunyinshenghuodeyibufen。

　　jiaruniyouxintai，huozheshiduimoushibiaoshibuman，lijibiaoxianchulai，erbushijiangquanbubumanyimaizaixinli，zheiyangdeqingxujidianzuizhongzhihuirangfenqibaofadegengjiaqianglie。

　　社会心理学讲解：

　　zhangjiudexinliyayiyehuidaozhixinliyali，gezhongyalizaihunyinshenghuozhongwufadedaoshidushifangchulaishi，henhuiyanzhongyingxiangfuqizhijiandeqinmigan，shenzhizaochengbubiyaozhengchao。

　　shidudeqingxufaxieyouliyuxinlishangde“ziwoliaoyu”，keyiranglianggerenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliugengweishunchang。