如何与固执的人进行沟通

 zairichangshenghuozhong，womenmeigerendexinggepiqibingxingdengdoubutong，youxierenshengxingbijiaohuopokailang，youxierenguzhijijian，guzhidejianchiziji。jintianlaijidajiashuoshuoruguoyudaobijiaoguzhiderenshi，gairuheyuqijinxinggoutongyujiaotan。

一、学会展开话题

 zairichangshenghuozhong，youxierenhuiyinweixinggedeyuanyinerbuzhidaoruheyurenjiaotan，youxierenhuiyinweiguoyuhaixiuerbuzhidaoruheyurenjiaotan。mianduibierentichudewenti，guzhiderendeneixinhuibiandejinzhangyujucu，jinerchuxianshuohuayuwuluncidengqingkuang。

 jianyizaishenghuozhongyingxuehuitiyixiejuyoukaizhanxingyuchanshuxingdehuati，runipingshixihuantingshenmegequni？qiejibuyaoxunwenduifangyixieguoyusimixingdewenti，yebuyaotichuneixieyongshihuozhebushijiukeyihuidadewenti。

二、学会理解对方

 xiandaishehui，gongzuoyaliyushenghuoyalidengdoubijiaoda，youqishiduiyuneixieganggangburushehuidedaxueshenglaishuogengshiruci，yuanbenhuanxiangdeshibiyezhihoukeyidanglaoban，danzaixianshishenghuozhongqueshiduanchadaoshuidepaotang。zaizheizhongjiaodadexintailuochazhixia，youxierendexinggehuiyoucifashengzhuanbian，huoshiyoukailanghuopobianweichenmoguayan，huoshiyouchenmenneixiangbianweiyansuguzhi。jianyizaishenghuozhongyingshidangdelijieyixiaduifang，yingshidangdezhanzaiduifangdejiaodukaolvyixiawenti。

三、注意一下自己的行为举止

 zaiyuguzhijijianderenjiaotanshi，yidingyaoshikezhuyizijideyanxingyujuzhi，fouzeniwuyijiandemouyigedongzuo，mouyizhongyanshendoukenengrangduifangchanshengbumanqingxu，shenzhiyunifashengchongtu。jianyizaishenghuozhongyuzheileirenjiechushi，yingjinliangjiangxingweijuzhifangdeduanzhengyixie，buyaoguofenqingfu，buyaoguofenjiangjiu。

四、学会专心交谈

 guzhiderendeyidatedianjiushizizunxinguoqiang，ruonizaiyuqijiaotanshi，yaobujiushizuoguyoupan，yaobujiushixinbuzaiyandehua，shihenrongyirangduifangyouyizhongbubeizunzhongdeganjuede，shenzhihuizhijiejinudaoduifang。yinci，jianyizaishenghuozhongyingjinliangzuodaozhuanxinjiaotan，yingjinliangrangzijizhuanxinyu，zhuanzhuyuliaotianneirong。

五、学会变通

 zheileirendeyidatedianjiushiguofendejianchijijian，youxieshiqingyidanbeitamenrending，shihennandedaogaibiande。ruocishiniqiangxingdejiangzijideguandianguanshujitadehua，shihenrongyirangduifangbiandeyaneyufanzaode。jianyizaishenghuozhongyuzheileirenjiechushi，yingxuehuitongguoyixiefangfalaijianjiederangduifangjieshounideguandian，rushuxin，huozherangtadelaoshijiarenququanshuodeng。

六、注意一下说话方式

 zairichangshenghuozhong，womenmeigerendeshuohuayuqiyuxiguandengdoubutong，youxierenbijiaowenwenerya，youxierenzebijiaocukuangwaifang，yinci，jianyizaishenghuozhongyingshidangdekongzhiyixiazijideshuohuayuqiheshuohuafangshi，buyaoguoyushengqilingren，yebuyaoguoyudisanxiasi，yipinghede，zixindezitaiqumianduijiuhao。

七、学会倾听

 dongdeqingtingshiyigerendejibensuzhiyugerenxiuyang。ruozaiyurenjiaotanshi，yaobujiushitaotaobujue，yaobujiushisanjuhualiangjuhuafuyanleshidehua，shihenrongyirangduifangchanshengyizhongbubeizunzhongdeganjuede，jianyizaishenghuozhongyingxuehuijiyuduifangzugoudeshijianlaibiaodayijianyuguandian，yingjinliangzuodaorenzhenqingting，youshanfabiaojianjie。