教你从害羞心态学的角度，与女孩交流

 nanhaimenjingchangbaoyuanyunvhaigoutongshibijiaokunnande。raner，ruheyuyigehaixiudenvhaigoutongkenengshiyigegengdadetiaozhan。haixiuderenhuibijiaoneilian，jiexialaijiaodajiaconghaixiuxintaixuedejiaodulaitantan，ruheyunvhaijiaoliu。

一、不要滔滔不绝的表达

 dangniyuyigehaixiudenvhaijiaotanshi，buyaoyinweitadehuashaojiuzijitaotaobujuedebiaoda。yexunihuirenweizheiyangyouzhuyubimianlengchangdegangajumian，huoshiweilehuanjiezijidejiaolv，danwangwangzheihuirangtagandaozhixi。shizherangzijifangsongxialai，duoyongxinquganshoutayouneierwaisanfachudeqichangyuxinhao，jinlijiangzijideyuyan、zhiti、jiezouyuzhipipei，jiangyuyanjiaoliushangshengweiganshoutihui。

二、不要急躁而过于激进

 ruguotahenhaixiu，neimetaxuyaoyouyiduanshijiandexianghulejielaizengqiangduinidexinrenchengdu，eryicilaizuoweihuanchongqu。ruguonizhendexihuanta，nitongyangyehuinaixindeduohuashijianqulejieta。buyaojiyuqiucheng，gengbuyaoyinweimeiyoumanzunijieduanxingdexintaiyuqierbiaoxiandeduoduobiren，yinweizheiyangbudanbuhuiyourenhejinzhan，fanerhuijiangtatuikai。

三、用聊天软件建立联络

 ruguotahenneixiang，neimebuyaojiyujianmian。keyixiantongguoweixindengliaotianruanjianlaizengjinbicidelejie，zheiyangbudankeyiranghuifuyouchongzudesikaoshijian，gengyouzhuyuyangchengyizhongmeiriyunilianluodexiguan。danyikaishibuyaolianluodeguoyupinfan，yaoxunxujianjin，zheiyanghuimanmanjiangdiduifangdexinlifangbei，tongshiyouzhuyuweidianhuagoutongyujianmiangoutongshoujiyuzhunbeihuati。

四、通过电话来拉近关系

 ruguobicitongguoliaotianruanjianliaotiandepinciyuliuchangdudadaoyidingchengdu，keyichangshizhedianhualiaotian。kaishicongxuhanwennuankaishi，shijianbuyaoguozhang，xunxujianjindezengjiatonghuadeshizhangyuhuatideguangdu，congerjinyibuzengjinbicidelejieyushuxidu。

五、选取安静的会见场所

 ruguoduifangshiyigewaixiangde、huopodenvhai，dakexuanzeyixiektv、jiuba、youlechangzhileidechangsuo，keyikuaisudedianranxingfen。danshiruguoduiyuyigehanxiudenvhai，tanhuadechangsuoxuanzexiangduianjing，renjiaoshaodechangsuo，neixiangdenvhaigengduozhuzhongdeshixinlingdejiaoliuerfeibenfangdeheermeng。

六、会面尽量单独去赴约

 youxienanhaikenengrenweidanduhuijianhuirangbenlaihanxiudenvhaigengweihanxiu，zhaoyixiepengyoukenenghuixiandebuneimekeyi。danzheiyangxiangnijiucuole，yiqundalaoyemenhuobushuxidenvrenweiraozaitashenbianshi，zhihuirangtagandaojinzhanghebuziran，shenzhishiyizhongkonghe。ruguomeiyougongtongdepengyouquan，neimehaishidandudehuijianbijiaohao。