聊天中怎么和妹子拉近距离？主动聊天第一句说啥?

 zhudongliaotiandazhaohudiyiju，zaiwomenpengdaoxihuandemeizhibingqudechenggongyaodaotadeshoujiweixinhou，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuosha？dajiagaizenmehelingyifanglajinjianjuni?xuduodixiongxiaihemeizhilaguanxi，liaoyixieyouguanmeizhidehuatitaolun，yikaishiliaodehaibucuo，kejianjiandejiujuedeliaomeidongle，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuoshenme？neimagaizenyangzaixianliaozhonghemeizhilajinjianju?

1、和女生闲聊的开局分配

 xuduocikexintiaopanbianjuedeshuodiyicihenvshengxianliaohenzhongyao，yaojinvshengliuyouhaoyinxiang，shijishang zheileisixiangzaishehuixinlixueshangguishuyuyunlunxiaoying，zhixiangchubicichanshengdediyiyinxiangduizhihouxiangchuguanlianguanliandeyinxiang，yejiushirenmenchangshuode“zhuguanyiduan”，shijishang zaiwomenkeyiqudechenggongyaodaonvhaizideshoujiweixinshi，biaomingdiyiyinxiangzaoyichenggongle，yinci zaixianliaozhongbuyonghaofeitaiduodeshijianduanlaiwenhaoheziwojieshao。

 yibanlaishuojianyihuhuanbicidemingzihou，xianliaojiubixudajiajijilaijinruhuatitaolunle，yibannvshengshibukenengjijijiyuhuatitaolunle。

2、聊天的话题的挑选

 shuodaoliaotiandehuati，xuduodixiongshuobuqingchuliaoshenme，shijishang yikaishixianliao，xintaijiaolvbuanshimianbulede，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuoshenme？youxierenxiaijiaodaiyixiahenvshengyaoshoujiweixinshizishenjidongdexintai，naizhihaihuijixuxiangnvshengjiaodaizheishinidiyicihenvshengyaoshoujiweixin，

 shijishang zheiquanshimeibiyaode，zanqiebushuonvshengniwanle，nidegerenxingweidoushizaishuomingnidequefazixin，huijinvshengliuyoudishiyongjiazhideyinxiang。

 neimagaizenmeliaoni?youxierenhuizanyangnvsheng，huoshiliaonvshengyouguandeshiqing，shijishang liaonvshengzheiyijianshier，shihenyoubiyaode，danshibixuyixiejutifangfa，。

 jiunazanyangnvshengzheiyijianshiereryan，niruguozanyangnvshengpiaoliangqichanghao，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuosha？shijiaoweipianmianhua，nvshengzhinengwenminglimaohuifuyijuganxie，bingbuhuichanshengguoduodeqingxubodong，jianyanzhi，bianshimeiyoubanfarangxianliaochixu，zheiyejiushiweihexuduodixiongliaotianliaotianjiujuedeliaomeidong，yaoxiangzhuanhuanhuatitaolundeyuangu。

 yaoxianggenjuzanyangnvshenglaikaizhanhuatitaolun，nenggouzhuyaoliaoyiliaonvshengdeguanjiandian，lirushuangyan，mengmengdade，xiangxiaobaitu;xiufa，zhangfapiaoyi，dounenggoujiexifashuiguanggaole。lian，jingqiao，erguangdadexiaoliandan，rangbiedenvshengyanxiansi。

例如：

nan：nideheizhizhang，lingqipiaowu，dounenggoujiexifashuiguanggaole

女：嘿嘿，哪里有

nan：woruguoxifayeshengchanshang，yidinghuiyuenipinpaidaiyande

nv：heihei，zhangfananyiqingxide(zhujianjijijiyuhuatitaolun)

 nineimeyiliao，nvshengkendinggaoxing，huihenleyiyunitantaozishen，zheiernvshengzhujianziwojieshaodezhuangkuang，bianshiyigehaozhuangkuang，biaomingyidingduidajiayouxingqule，jibian zuihuaidezhuangkuangpengdaonvshengjinjinshuoganxie，yexuyaobiniganbiedezanyangnvshengshijixiaoguohaoxie。

 jiaruyaoxiangdaliangzhangwotanlianaizhuanyezhishidepengyoumen，nenggoujiashangwenweitanlianailaoshideshoujiweixin，mianfeilingyijishiyongjiazhi199yuande《ruhebianchengnvrenyanlizuisatuodekunanren?jiaoniziwotishengdegaojiesiwei!》zaixiankecheng，zhenzhenzhengzhengdeyiyishangdebangnichuliaiqingwenti。

3、聊天的话题的持续

 zaiwomengenjuliaoyixieyouguannvshengdeguanjiandianjinxingxianliaohou，nvshengdexintaiyibanshifeichanghaode，cikeliaonvshengdehuanjiezhongbixuliaoyiliaozishen，shunbianchengxianyixiabenshendeshiyongjiazhi，lirushangbiannvshengshuoshuaidiaonanqingxi，womenenggouhuiyingshuo：

woyizhishiduantoufa，neiyangjiaoweibianjie，youyuzuoyemangqilaiyihou，yemeishijianquguanle。

 yaojilaohenvshengxianliao，jinjinxiantanshichuangjianbushangxiyinzhude，liaonvshengjiqitayouxingqudewupin，neimeniyejinjinyigepeiliao，ruguobulijidezhanshizijideshiyongjiazhiheyouhuoli，shifeichangrongyiliaojin“youqingqu”de，zheiyejiushixuduodixiongliaolehaozhangshijian，henvshengdeyingxiangmeiyoushizhijindudeyuangu。

 zheiergaozhinvshengzishenshiduantoufa，erqiejiaodaizishengongzuozhongmang，zhudongliaotiandazhaohudiyiju，shijishang yeshizaifanyingzishendeshiyongjiazhi，baliaonvshengqudechenggongqianyidaoziyideshenshang，duidajiazaochengxingquaihao。