主动聊天第一句说啥?女孩聊天冷淡还继续吗？

 zhudongliaotiandazhaohudiyiju，xuduodixionghemeiziliaotianshi，reqingruhuo，henbunengbazijidetaofeichuqujilingyifang，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuosha？kelingyifangdefanyingquehenpingpingdandannaizhiyouyixielengmo，neimayingduizheigeqingxingshi，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuoshenme？bixuzaicichanzhenvshenghetaliaoma?

 huidashiquanpanfoudingde，youxierenyexuyaoshuo，wobuqulimeizhi，tayaoduiyuwomeishenmexingqulegaizenmeban?yaomeizhiqueshiduinimeishenmexingqule，niyinggaifeichangzhidexingyun，youyulingyifanggenbenmeiyoujiangnifangzaixinli。

1、将你的套近乎作为理所当然

 dandajiazhenzhenzhengzhengxihuanyigerendeqingkuangxia，henyoukenengquanbudegerenxingweizishendouwufakongzhi，yizhiqingbuzijinyaoxianglianluolingyifang，zongdianjizhekandaolingyifang，zheizhongzhuyaobiaoxiankeyirangnvshengkandechunishixiaitade，danshiyimeideneiyang，yikaishitahenyoukenengyounaixin，keshijianzhangle，huibazheizuoweilisuodangran。

zhenzhengdeaiqingbixuyoumoshenggande，zhongjiudaobutongbuxiangweimou，bubiyizhijiji，neiyangjiuhuirangnvshengyanfan。

youshihoudehenvren“fenshou”，huirangtajuedeyouyizhongxinxiangan，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuosha？fandaoduinigengweichimi。

2、丧失恋爱中的“神秘感”

 zailianaizhizhong，xuduodixiongxiaiyonggeshigeyangdexingshirangnvshengduitafangzaixinshang，danshixuduoqingkuangxiazheizhongzuofatongchangdebuchangshi。

 zhenzhengdeaiqingbixushenmigande，bushiniyuechanzheyigenvren，zhudongliaotiandiyijushuoshenme？tajiuyueduiniyouganjue，fanguolaineiyanghuibatatuideyuezouyueyuan。youshihoudelaici“fenshou“，rangnimendeguanliankeyiyouyidingdejianwen，kannvshengshibushizaihuni，duinideguannianjiukeyikandechutashibushiduiniyouganjue。

 yexuyouyixienanshenghuiwen，jiaruwoliang“fenshou”，shifouhuidaozuizhongtahuiwangdiaowocunzai，shijishang nanshengwuxuqudanyou，jiarutawangjinidecunyou，neimejiushuomingtabingmeiyouneiyangdezaihuni，liyongzheiduanhaikeyikandechutadezhenxinshiyi。

suoyishuo，zaiganqingzhongshibushidehenvren“fenshou”，zhudongliaotiandazhaohudiyiju，yexuhuirangtaainiduoyidian。