和男朋友吵架了冷战怎么办 跟男朋友吵架后的处理

 qingganzhongzuikongbudebingbushizhengchao，zhishilengbaoli。shiduoshaohaohaodideqingganbianshilianrenlianggerenlengzhelengzhejiufenshou，neiyangduibicizhijianbianshiyizhongsunhai。yinerjinriwojiulaihedahuoertaolunyixiagennanpengyouzhengchaolelengzhanzenmeban？gennanpengyouchaojialezenmeban？gennanpengyouchaojiahoudechuli，gennanpengyouliaotiangailiaoshenme。

一、给彼此一段冷静期

 zuixian，zuoweiyigenvshengeryan，dajiajiyulingyifanghuanjuhuashuojibiciyixielizhideshijianhenbixude，keshizheizhonglizhideshijianbubichaochusantian。

 jiarusantianyihounanxinghuoshiyongneiyangdefangshilaiyingduini，danshiniyoushifenbufangqizheiyiduanqinggan，haixiangyaoyutazaicizaiyiqi，dajiajiubixuqujijiquzhaonanyoutaojinhu，huoshijijidiquzhaotagoutongjiaoliu，zaiwomenyongruanruodexiangshengduitajianghuadeqingkuangxia，zaiwomenyongneileikeyitiansishidexiangshengdongxiangtabiaoshuzishendeqingyishi，jianxinyiqieyigenanshengdoudiyubulezheileiwenwandejingong。

 niyizhizaigentashuodaozheizhonghuadeqingkuangxia，zaixianghupeihekeyijijidiquxianyinqin，nidezheiyicuoshikeyirangnimenliangrendeguanlianxunsuxiufudaogangchuduixiangshideneileitianmei。

二、好好地沟通交流

 jiarushuozheicilengbaolishinanshengjijitiaodongde，dajiajiuyingdangshitalejiejijitiaodonglengbaolibushiduide，jinyoushitakeyizhangwozaiqizhongdeliyubi，huanjuhuashuoshijiarushuodajiakeyishitalejiezaicineiyanglengbaolixialai，bianhuiwanquandeshiquleni，huoxutahuijijidejiuwanbizheicilengbaoli。

 dangran，shuozheileihuadejihuihaoxie，jiarubicidoushizaieyuxiangxiangdeqingkuangxia，shuozheileihuafeichangrongyijiutuobujue，yinxiaoshida。

三、积极给阶梯

 jiarunimenzhengchuzaiyishangneileisheidoubuyaoxianglisheideqingkuangzhong，keshiyaorangliangrentichufenshouyouyouhenduodeshebude，neimaniyejiuyingdangjijiquzhaonanyou，jijiquzhaotafuhexing，jijiquzhaotagoutongjiaoliu，nanshenggennilengbaoli，tadeneixinyenanguo，jiarunijiletajietixiadeqingkuangxia，tahenkenengjiujianjixingshizouxialaile。

 henduorenganjue，jiarunanyouhuoshinvyougenzishenlengbaoli，zishenzuixiandixiatoudehuahendiuren，yineryingzhetoupigenlingyifangdalengzhan，zheishijishangshicuowudexingwei。yiduanqingganjinyouxingfukuailehebuxingfukuailedechabie，meiyoushibushiduiyucuodechabie，jiarudixiatoujiunengwanliuyiduanzhenzhideganqing，neihekunanaozishenni？zheicaisuanshigennanpengyouzhengchaolelengzhanzenmebandechuliguanjian。gennanpengyouchaojialezenmeban？gennanpengyouchaojiahoudechuli，gennanpengyouliaotiangailiaoshenme。