如何改善与男朋友的关系 跟男朋友吵架后的处理

 niyizhiyunidenanyouzhengchaoma?weichihegaijinnimendeguanlianshiyimenzaoxingyishu，ruguonipengdaoganqing，ninengyewubishiyigeyishudashihuoyigechusedexuesheng。gennanpengyouchaojialezenmeban？gennanpengyouchaojiahoudechuli，gennanpengyouliaotiangailiaoshenme。

 jiarunigennanpengyouchaojiajia，quebuqingchuruhejiejuezheigewenti，neimejiuqingjixuyuedubenwenba，tabaokuolezhengchaohouzenyanggaijingennanpengyouguanliandetiyi。ninengxuedeyouxiaodefangfahexiaojiqiao，shinizaigengqiangdeguanlianzhongbianchenggengqiangdelianren。

zenyanggaijinyunanyoudeguanlian?

1.找到争执的直接原因

 nimenlianghenyoukenenghuizaixuduonantishangchanshengmaodun，lirugongzuozhong、qiancaihuobiedezheixie。zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，ruguonipingjingxialaideqingkuangxia，yidingyaozhaodaodajiadououdezhijieyuanyin。

 ziran，ninengyouyixieyiqiezhengchangdejuede，rubeiyiqi、haipa、bugou、mengpianzheixie。jiarunigennanpengyouzhengchaole，qingyurenxiangchuhaoduogezhongtou，zhaodaozhengzhideyuangu。congzhaoxunyuanguzhong，ninengxuedezenyanggaijinguanlianhefangzhimaodun。

jilaobubilikeshuotichufenshou，neijiushizuishadebulizhi。

2.处理矛盾

yaoxiangjiangnidenanyouzhaohuijia，changshihetazhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliu。

 xuexipeixunzenyanggaijinyizhongguanlian，jiuwubixuexipeixunzenyangyoulimaoheyurenxiangchu，bubiyoukuyounao，xiangzaibabamamayanqianyiyang，huoshiganjuetajiugaibafumugengchongni，baopiqizaiganqingyanqianbianshimanxingzhongdu。

duitashuoguanjianyuangu，xiezhutadaliangdizhangwonidehaipa，jiqitadegezhongbuliangxingwei。

chucizhiwai，jiaruniyizhizeguaita，biaoshunidedizhijianyi，neimejiuchangshigenggainijianghuadefangfa。

zhengchaoshi，jiarunishuoleyixiemeilimaodehua，shuobaoqian，bingyunideairenbiaoshu，zenmehuineiyang。

ziran，nibunengxiangheshichao，jiuchao，suihoushuobaoqian，neijiushibuchengdande，gengbunengyongzheiyifangfajiechuanyiqieyigeren。

 jiarunineibanzuo，nimendeguanlianxunsubianhuiwanbi。jiaruniqueshixianghetazaiyiqi，zaizheiliduanguanlianzhong，danfuqinideyiwu。

keshi，nibuyongjinimeiyouzuoledeshizhiqian，zhixuzhenxinshiyiheqianxun!

qian，shizaochengnigennanpengyouzhengzhidezuizhongyaodeyaosuzhiyi。jiaruhenyoukenengdehua，changshihetashangyi，jiangdimaodun。

jinguanzhengzhihuomaodun，shishifenguangfanheyiqiezhengchangde，danchangshijinliangdixiandingzhengzhidepinciheshuiping。

yaoxiangxiangshenmejiaobuzhizhengzhide，nimeiyingdangzeguaita，youyunihuirenaoyigezhenzhengainideren。

3.赏析他

jiarumaodunnenghuodechuli，nimenbicidoushihuijuedeqingqingsongsong，duitazaigongzuozhongherichangshenghuosuozuodeshierbiaoshiganji。

 zainirichangshenghuodequanbuguanlianzhong，baohanniyulianrendeguanlian，shangxilingyifang，jiushiniyingdangjiyuhexuexipeixunde，jiushiniwubizuodeyijianshi。

zheiyeshiyigezenyanggaijinliangxingguanxidehelitiyi，nanhaihenvhaidouyingdangxuexipeixun。

zeguaibingbingbushitishengnimenguanliandehaofangfa，dantahuixunsucuihuinimendeguanlian。

jiarunichangchangdangxuduorendemianzhizeta，nidenanrenburongyiganjuenizhongshita。

yiner，shizhongganxiehejilita，bingfentantazaigongzuozhongyushenghuoshangpengdaodeyoulv。

4.越来越更女性

nishiyigenvhai，niyinggaixuehaozenyangyuelaiyuegengnvxing，youyujibenshangquanbudenanshengdouxiaiyounvrenqizhidenvxing。

henxianzhu，younvrenqizhishihenduonvshiyijingyingyongdegaijinguanliandeqiaomenzhiyi。

 niyaoxiangzaininanshengdeyanliyuelaiyuegengpiaoliangma?xiangxinziji，jiarunibudanshencaimiaotiao、zhangdepiaoliang，bingqiexinxiongkuanguang，neimanimendeguanlianhuigengzhangqi。gennanpengyouchaojialezenmeban？gennanpengyouchaojiahoudechuli，gennanpengyouliaotiangailiaoshenme。