沟通从心开始之如何沟通

 goutongcongxinkaishichufade。shenghuozhongwomenshiyidinghuifashengyushenbianderenjinxinggoutongde，neimejiarunigoutongbudangbianhuichanshengfenqi。guanyuruhegoutong、goutonganlidefenxianggenzhexiaobianyiqilaikankanba。

一、如何沟通

 1、weixiaozhequgoutonghenzhongyao！yinweiweixiaoyeshiyimenrenwenyishu。zaifennudeyichangqingxuqushixiazenmecainenggoutingxialaizhenchengdigoutongni？neijiuxuyaoniyouyigelianghaodeqingxuhehuanjing。zuodaolezheiyidianniyubierendejulijiujinleyibu，zheishirenyurenzhijianzuijibendexinren。

 2、womenyaoxuehuiqingting、duotingtingbierendekanfa、quzhengquedelingting。shidangdiantoubiaoshinizairenzhenting。jishiniyouyiduzidehuaxiangshuoyededengdaobierenshuowanzaishuo。

 3、nachupinghedeqingxuqumiandui、yongchengkendeyuqiqujiaoliu，rangtarenjuedenishiyigeyousuzhideren。jiaotanguochengzhongyaoweiwandetichuduifangdebuzuyucuowu。xianshuoyixiezanshangzhileidehuayu，ranhouzaiyong“danshi、buguo”zhileideciyujinxingtichubutongdeyijian。

二、沟通案例——沙漠里的爱情

 yigezhishenshamoguliwuyuandefaguoshibing，jihuyanyanyixidihundaozaiyandongli。daitaxinglaishijinghuangdiquefaxianyizhiyeshoutangzaitadeshenbian，yuanlaishiyitouzuishanghaizhanzhexuejidebaozi。suoxinghuabaochibaolecaiduitabingwueyi。

 shibingbenxiangshiyongbishouchenjishasita，suihouquegaibianlezhuyi。tayongwenrouduoqingdedongzuofumocibao、tongtayouhaoxiangchu、jianlileganqing、yitongyouxiwanshua。ranershibinghaishihaipa，chenzhebaozishuizhedeshihoutoutoutaopaole。

 danzoubuduoyuanbaozihenkuaijiuganleshanglai。zheishishibingbuxiaoxinxianruliushazhong，baoziyaozhutadeyilingbatajiulechulai。shibingyiweitashiyaochita，shiyongbishoucijinletadebozi。erhuabaozhengzhashijuranyanjinglimeiyouyisiyihaodefennu。

 shibingzaijiangdaozheiduanjinglishijiangdao“wokannalidoubibushangshamo、neilimeiyouren、zhiyoushangdi。”shibingzairenleishehuiganshoubudaodedongxi，zaishamoliganshoudaole。

 duonianlaixiaobianyizhibeizheigegushigandongzhe，taxiangrenmenzhuanshulegoutongdewuxiankenengxing、jishizairenyushouzhijian。tongshiyerangwomenduiyuwomenrenleizishendejiaoliugengfuyouxinxin。goutongcongxinkaishi……