如何自我沟通？如何正确沟通？你怎么看？

 renyichushengxialaibianyaoyubierendajiaodao。jibianbuhuishuohua、jiezhuqitashouduanyeyidingyaoyubierengoutong。guanyuruheziwogoutong、ruhezhengquegoutong、ruheshanyugoutongzheixiewentixiaobianxiamianweidajiayiyijieda。

一、如何自我沟通

 zhenzhengdirenshizijishiziwogoutongdediyibu。zhiyouzhenzhengdirenshileziwo，cainenggouzaicijichuzhishangzuochuzhengquedepanduan、caiquheshidexingdong。

 xiladeerfeiaboluoshendianzhengmianshangdebeimingshiduanduandejigezi——renshiniziji。lusuochengzheiyibeiming：“bilunlixuejiamendeyiqiejuzuogengweizhongyao、gengweishenao。”renshiziwobaokuorenshizijideqinggan、qizhi、nengli、shuiping、pindexiuyanghechushifangshideng，yiweizheyigerenzhenzhengzuodaogongguofenming、shishiqiushi。jibuzaibierendeyimeizhicizhongwanghusuoyi、yebuyintarenyishidefoudingerzibaoziqi。

ziwogoutongnenglidepeiyangjuefeiyicuerjiu，yibuyibulaifangcainenggouzhenzhengdidadaoziwogoutongdequeshixiaoguo。

二、如何正确沟通

1、学会全心倾听

yaoxuehuirenzhenditingduifangshuohua、buchazuiduifangshuohua。yidingbuyaoyongzijidepanduanlihuozhexiangfaquqiangjiajibieren。

2、学会配合对方

 zaiduifangshuodehenyoudaolidetongshiyaojijizuochuzantongdehuiying。zheiyanghuijiduifangdailaigongming，cainengrangzheigoutongdadaoshanjierenyidexiaoguo。

3、学会总结

 yuduifangjiaoliuzhihou，renzhendihuiweiyixiagoutongdeneirong，zixidizongjieyixiayounaxieshouhuo。meiyicidegoutonghuoduohuoshaodouhuiyoushouhuode。

三、如何善于沟通

1、善于倾听

 shanyuqingtingderengoutongnengdoubuhuihencha。yinweitamendongderuhequzhuazhuzhongdianbingjishidezuochuhuiying。suoyixiangyaoxuehuiruhequshuobianyaoxianxuehuiruhequting，renzhenditingdongbierenshuodezhongdian。

2、所学知识

 hebierengoutongdeguochengzhongciqiongyeshihengangadeyijianshi，suoyiyaoduojileigezhongdezhishi。youletanzizhihoucainengshenrudejinxingxiaqu。

3、抓共同点

 genbirendetanhuahuishejihenduodefangmian，suoyiyidingyaocongdadefangxiangzhongzhaodaonimendegongtongdian，zhuazhuzheigegongtongdianshenruliaoxiaqu。

4、思路清晰

 liaotianzuijihuidejiushiyuyibuming。bierengenbenlijiebulenizaishuoshenmedehuatanhuashiwufajinxingxiaqude。xiangyaohuodegenghaodegoutongnengli，qiejiyaoyouyidingdeluojinengli，biaodachunixiangyaobiaodadeyisi。