如何学会沟通?如何高效沟通?你怎么看?

 womenmeigerenshiyidulidegeticunzaiyuzheigeshijieshangde，queshikezaiyuzhouweideshijiejinxingzhelianluo。ruheherengoutongbianchengleyimenxuewen。neimewomenyaoruhexuehuigoutong、ruhegaoxiaogoutongni？

一、如何学会沟通

 shizihelaohuzhijianmeiyouxuehuiruhegoutongzuihoubaofaleyichangjiliedechongtu、liangbaijushang。shizikuaiyaoduanqishiduilaohushuo：“ruguobushinifeiyaoqiangwodedipan，womenyebuhuinongchengrujinzheibanmoyang。”laohuchijingdishuo：“wocongweixiangguoyaoqiangnidedipan，wobuduanyiweishiniyaoqinfanwo。”goutongdezhongyaoxingyoucikejian。

 1、lianggerendegoutongzaiqingxuheneirongshangjiqizhongyao。qingxuruobuduineirongjiuhuibeiniuqu、sixiangyehuisuizhigaibian，mishilegoutongdezuichudefangxiangjimude。

 2、zongyouyiduzideqingsu，meiyoulianghaodeqingxushuodezaiduoyezhishifaxie。xinlixiangzhegoutongyudiaoqueyinyangguaiqi，buzhidaoshigoutong、haishitiaoxin。

 3、yaogoutong、jiuchengxinshiyi。pinghedeqingxu、chengkendeyuqi，caihuirangrenjuedenishiyousuzhideren。tongshiniyaobiaoxiandejuzhidafang、zhongqingzhongyi、shiyigezhidexiangxinderen！

4、xuehuigoutong、xuehuidiaozhengqingxu、xuehuikongzhipiqi。

二、如何高效沟通

1、沟通的前提

 dafanlianggerenjiechu，xianghudouhuiyouyigedatipanbieranhouxingchenggoutongdechubuyinxiang。liruduifangdejingshenmianmao。yigejinzhangxixiderenhuochongmanjiaolvderenhennanyougaoxiaodegoutong，daduohuizaodaobierendepaichi。yigechongmanzixinqiexintaipinghederenhuijirenliuxialianghaodeyinxiang。ciwaidetideyizhehelianghaodejingshenmianmaoyijidedangdeyanyufenggeyeshilianghaogoutongdeqiantitiaojian。yigeyouxiudegoutongzheyaosuzaohepeiyangzijidexingweijudong，zuodaonengzaidiyishijianneijirenyilianghaodeyinxiang。

2、沟通的原则

 goutongyidingyaozhenchenghepingdeng，buzhenchengnanyilajinrenyurendejiange，erbuduidengzebunengrangrenchongfenbiaodaguandianhejieshoubicideguandian。goutonghaiyaozhangwohaobicidejiange，bunengkeyiqugaibianbicidejuli。keyilajinjulixiandezijiqingfurongyibeibierenxintaishangpaichi，keyijiangjuliladetaiyuanrongyichanshengwuhui。xianzainizhidaoruheherengoutonglema？