renfeishengxian,meigerenyouquexian,dangniyizhidingzhutarendequexianmeifang,dajiadeguanlianhaowuyiwenhaobushang,yuji,dongdexianghulijie,duokanyuedutarendeyoushi,jiuhuifajue,yuekantarenyueduokanbuguan。renzheiyibeizi,nanyibimiandiyaoheren xiangchu ,yaoxiangguodekaixin,haiyaojiejuehaozishenyushenpangrendeguanlian。dangdaidaxueshengzenyangjiejuehaorenjijiaowang?xiabianjiuyaohuazhenqingganwangbianjidahuoerxiangxijieshaoyixiazenyangjiejuerenjijiaowangba。
一、当代大学生怎样解决好人际交往?
1、贫富差距
zaixiaodaxueshenglaiyuanyubuyiyangdediyu,diqudechabiejianghuichanshengpinfuchaju,zheilei“jingjifazhandebugongping”zaochengdeduilimianzaizaixiaodaxueshengzhongyehenbianbu。youyupinfuchajuzaochengdepinkunshengdebuzixinxinsizaixiaoyuanneilidoushiyizhongduofaxinsinanti。tangruozheizhongguanlianjiejuebutaihao,jizaixiaodaxueshengchanshengdexinsisunhaijingchanghuiweihaitamendefazhanqushi。
2、不讲究卫生
changchangxuduorenzaishuiwuzililuanrengdongxi,congbudiebei,chuangbianyouzangyouluan,mianwachuanwandoubuxi,tileqiuyishenchouhandoubuxi,niaoniaoshenzhijingchangwangjichong,conglaibuqingsaowofanghuanjingweisheng,fandaoshifeiqiwuzhizuozhe……zheizhongbuliangxiguanchangrangshiyouchibuxiao,feichangshiyixieaizhengjiedetongxuemen,yidansixiangyishidaozishenbianchengwofangde“qingsaogong”deneishihou,xinzhongbiranhenman。shijianyizhangduilimianfanganjiuhuifabing。
3、焦点人物
“xuexipeixunremenxuanshouni”“jiaoshiremenxuanshouni”“ganqingremenxuanshouni”jingchangshidaxueshengzhongdejiaodianrenwu,danyechangshitongxuemenxianmubuzhidelingyiban,tangruozheizhongtongxuemenzaiyantanjuzhishangfanyingbushan,jingchanghuiyinqitongxuemenduilimianshenzhizaochengqicanjufabing。
4、留宿异性朋友
jinguanyixingpengyouzaiwofangliusuyizhishigaodengyuanxiaoyangeyanjindegerenxingwei,danbaqinglvsongdaoshuiwuzililiusudetongxuemenrengshidayourenzai,youqizheiyiyaoqiugexinghualakaideshiqi,zaixiaodaxueshengdexingshenghuohaosibianchengyizhongshulisuiyi、xingjiefangdeqizi,zheizaiyuanbenchunzhendexiangyazhitaneizaoyibingbushihanshi。danshizheizhongzuofayouguanwofangbiedeshiyoufeichangshibiede“guanggun”eryanqueshishiyizhongchongjixing,zheijibuzhongshishiyou,yeweihaileshiyoudexiexi,zheiruhelingrenchengshou?
5、紧密有间
wulunshiyouqishishibushixiangyao,bixulazheshiyouyiqiduanlian、nianshu、yongcan、kandianshijudeng,guodujinmidexiangchucushishiyoushiquhebierengoutongjiaoliudeshikeyushineikongjian,xiaxiaodeshehuijiaowangrangshiyouganjuekumenerduizheirende“youshan”kunaobukanrumu。“jiezhuxing”penyouzaidaxuenvshengrenqunzhongbingbushishaojian,guoduodizhanyoubierendeshikedegerenxingweizaixinsixueshangchengzuo“chengnianrenjuannian”。taiguojinmidelingyizhongfangfajiushishuobufenbiciyongbierendedongxi,keshiyiqieyou“du”,jinmidetai“aizengfenming”le,haoshieryehuizhuanhuan。biruqishishihaogemendedongxi,yibaobingshishenme,xianchiwanzailiao;yutianbuyuanmaifandiaoshuile,jiuqingtongwofangdezimeidailaoyiciba……yiliangcinenggou,shijianyizhang,tangruobangzhudetizhishiqujiaoti,zaitiededixiong、zaiqindezimei,yehuizhangchuegan。feichangyouyushierfabingzaipengyou,tongxuemendaduoshuhuixuanzebuzhangyangjiejue,dantangruoxinzhongdeyinyizhangjiushiquqingchu,jianmoyezonghuiyoubaofadeyitian。
6、霸权主义
“wodeyishijueduiqiadang”,“zuowenwofangandejiushishuomeiyicifabingzhengzhi,buguanzenyanghuatitaolun,tadouyaojiangwochedipibocaishibubaxiu”,youderenzongaiyubierenzhuanhuansilu,weicishuomingzishendebiejuyige,duiyiqieshier,wulunqinghongzaobaiquanshizishenqiadang,erqiebipobierenjienazishendeyishi。zheizhongzuofafeichangrongyijiqibierendediyuxinsi,zaitongyishuifangnei,buyidingsheideyishijiubibierenjingzhanshiduoshao,yinci,tangruofajuezai“wofangzhengbian”zhongyizhihuodedashengdeyifang,dangxinwofangbutaihaodezhongziyexuzaoyizaixiaotuantilisabokaiguo。
7、遵循作息时间
dangdaizaixiaodaxueshengzaiwofangyouzhediannaoshangzaoyishihenbianbudezhuangkuang,diannaoshangjixuexipeixunchanshengdeyoushishibijiaotuchude,danshi,tangruowanshangwanyouxihuoshishipinyuyindonglaxiche,wanshangyiliangdianhaibukendaiji,gaodewofangjifeigoutiao,jingchangbarenmencongshuijueshihexing,zheihuishitongxuemenjiandeguanlianyuelaiyuejiaolvbuanqilai。wanshangdianxizhuqukanshu、donglaxiche、wanyouxizheizhongzhutihuodongyebuyingdangmoshibierendequanliqiangzhikaizhan,yingdangzunxunwofangdeyiqideguizhangzhidubiaozhun。
二、怎样解决人际交往?
1、帮人困难
bangrenkunnanjiushishuozaitarenjiannandeshiduan,tanchunidebangzhuzhishou,jianghuishiweibozhili,yejianghuiyaoqiubirandenuli,yaoshiyouyiyideshijiuxing,xuezhongsongtan,bibushangjinshangtianhua。
rendaofuguironghuadeshiduannibangta,tabuyidinghuijideni。zaitarenyounandeshiduannijiyulebangzhu,bierenhuijiniyibeizidehao。zaijinijiannandeshiduan,bierenyehuitongyangbangzhuni,nidelucaihuiyuezouyuekuan。
lirurenshengdaoluzhongjingchangpengdaodeyixieshi,shengbingzhuyuanzhiliao、hongbaixishi、tianzairenhuozheixie,nidebangzhu、nideyishengwenhao、yizhiyushiyitiaoduanxiaoxi,doushiwanruchunfengshuinuananzhuang,wanquanlajinbicizhijiandexinsijianju。
2、记人优势
jirenyoushijiushishuoyaoxinhuaiganen。yaolejie,meiyigerencongchushidaoqushi,meiyidianqianxing、meiyidihuode,doubukehuoquebabamama、qinren、penyoudebangzhu。
yongjiuxingjilaotarendehao,caikeyimeirijubeitaiyang,meirichangyoupenyouxiangsui,zhongshenchangyouxingfukuailexiangban;fanguolai,yizhijilaotarendebingbushi,zongshikulezishen。
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