如何拒绝吃力不讨好的活

 taikeyizuoderenfeichangrongyizuoshenmechilibutaohaodehuo，jinguanlaodongliangxuduobingqiegandetinglei。zheixieganchilibutaohaoderenyiban shidaxiaoshibixuguan，liqihuoliqihuodoudezuo,。neiyanghenkeyizuodenizaitarenyanzhongjiubianweile"chaoren"，naxiechilibutaohaodegongzuozhongdouyaguonideshoushang。jiexiaqu huazhenqingganwangbian woyelaigaozhidayingduichilibutaohaodehuagaizenmeban。

一、怎样拒绝吃力不讨好得话

 xuduoneishihoudajiadouyuanguquganzanchengtarendejianjiedeshier，yizhiganjuezishenzaiduitarenshuo"bu"deneishihouhuiyourongyidezuirendejuede，lingwaihuirangbicidouganjuenanshou。qidaiyuzhoubianrenhuoziranhuanjingyouyigehemudefenweidexinyuanbianweizulanduiyurenshuo"bu"。

 shijishangmeiyigerenyebuxiangyaoshenmechilibutaohaodehualunweidaozishenshoushang，yincizaiyingduichilibutaohaodehuaneishihouyidingyaoyingyongdeshuobu。

1、rouhejiandingbuyidishuo"bu"

 ruguonixixinqingtinglepengyoudeguidingbingjuedezishenyingdangjujuedeneishihou，shuo"bu"dexintaiwubishirouheerjiandingbuyide。rutongyiyangshiyaoli，waibianguoshangtangyideyaojiujiaoweilingrenfeichangrongyitongdao。yiyangdiwanzhuanbiaoshujujueyebilijishuo"bu"lingrenjieshouchengdugao。

2、一定要有上进心

 youyushanxinermeileshangjinxinde，gengyoujianghuibianchenggongsicaiyuandezhuyaozongtimubiao。zaiqiyelimankouzanghuade"laoshiren"maomaoyu。gongzuoshangtayudahuoerrongruyugongzaiyoujiannandeneishihoudoushiyudahuoeryiqikang，tarendayingtajiudaying，tarenshuohuaitajiuwudongyuzhongmomodizangnizaidahuoerdangzhong。shijianyizhangtabianchenglaozongzhiruowangwendeyinxingren。zaiqiyedimilaozongyouxingongsicaiyuanquezuixianxiangqileta。

4、xianqingtingzailiao"bu"

 qingtingnengranglingyifangxianyoubeizhongshidejuede，zainiweiwanshuomingzishenjujuedeguandiandelingwaiyejiaoweinengfangzhisunhaitadejuedehuojirenyizhongnizaiyingdui。qingtingdelingyigeyichujiushinijinguanjujueta，quenenggouduiyutadezhuangkuang，tiyizenyanghuodeshidudeyuanzhu。

5、duoyixieguanaiyuyanzhanxing。

 youshijujuebierenhuoshizuojujueneishihoushiyigeyouzhangdequanguocheng，lingyifanghuibudingqimingquetichuyiyangdeguiding。ruonengjijidiquguanailingyifanglingwaiyouranglingyifangrenshizijidekuchuyuguandian，jiunenggouzaijiaodashuipingshangjiangdijujuedenankanyuweihai。huanjuhuashuoyaoshiniyeshizhenxinshiyidishuo"bu"，lingyifangyidinghuiqianjiunidekuchu。

 zaizhirenyuanzaigongzuozhongmeiyigerenbixuxuehuijujuechilibutaohaodehuo，zenyangjujuehaiyaoshijishiershenrufenxile，youguoyouaihaonenggouqukankanzheizheishu《buhuiliaotianjiushudiao》libianyoushijideshili，shoubashoujiaonizaizhirenyuanchangzhongshuohuajiao。