如何自我沟通？如何正确沟通？你怎么看？

 renchushichulaibianyaoyutarenxiangchu。jiusuanbuhuiliaotian、yikaobiedefangshiyebixuyaoyutarengoutongjiaoliu。youguanzenyangzishengoutongjiaoliu、zenyangqiadanggoutongjiaoliu、zenyangshanyugoutongjiaoliuzheizhongnantiwangbianxiabianweidahuoerzhuyijieshi。

一、怎样自身沟通交流

 zhenshidilejiezijishizishengoutongjiaoliudeshouxian。zhinengzhenshidilejielezishen，caikeyizaizheigejichuzhizhongzuochuqiadangdefenbian、caiyongshihedetongyixingdong。

 guxiladeerfeiaboluoshengdianfanmianshangdebeimingshiduanduanhaoduogezi——renshiniziji。lusuochengzheiyibeiming：“bilunlixuejiamenderenhejiazuozhiguanzhongyao、gengjianandong。”ziworenshibaohanlejiezijideganqing、qichang、gongzuonengli、shuizhun、daodexiuyangheweirenchushifangfadeng，daibiaozijizhenzhenzhengzhengdezuodaogongguomingxi、qiuzhenwushi。jimeiyoutarendeyimeizhicizhongmukongyiqie、yebuhuiyinbierenyizhenzidefourenerziganduoluo。

zishengoutongxiediaonenglidesuzaobingfeiyichengbubian，yibubulaifangkekeyizhenshidichaoguozishengoutongjiaoliudedequeshijixiaoguo。

二、怎样恰当沟通交流

1、学好全心全意聆听

yaoxuehaoyongxinditinglingyifangshuohua、buchahualingyifangshuohua。bixubunengyongzishendedongchalihuoshiniantouquqiangjiayujitaren。

2、学好相互配合另一方

 zailingyifangshuodehenrenshengdadaolidelingwaiyaojijizhudongzuochuzanchengdedafu。neiyanghuijilingyifangchanshenggongmingdian，nenggourangzheigoutongjiaoliuchaoguotongqingdalideshijixiaoguo。

3、学好小结

 yulingyifanggoutongjiaoliuyihou，yongxindihuiweiwuqiongyixiaxiagoutongjiaoliudeneirong，xixindizongdelaishuoyoushenmeganshou。meicidegoutongjiaoliunanmianhuidoushiyouganshoude。

三、怎样擅于沟通交流

1、擅于聆听

 shanyulingtingderengoutongjiaoliunengdouburongyihencha。youyutamenmingbaizenyangqubawozhuzhongzhongzhizhongbinglijidezuochuhuiying。yinciyuanyixuehaozenyangqushuobianyaoxianxuehaozenyangquting，yongxinditingdedongtarenshuodezhongzhongzhizhong。

2、所教专业知识

 hetarengoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhongciqiongdoushihaogangadeshiqing，yinciyaoduoleijigezhonggeyangdezhuanyezhishi。yongyoutanlunhuatiyihounenggoushencengcidekaizhanxialai。

3、抓相同点

 genbierendetanhuahuishejidaoxuduodecengmian，yincibixuyaocongdadefangweizhongxunzhaodajiadexiangtongdian，bawozhuzheiyixiangtongdianshencengciliaoxialai。

4、条理清晰

 xianliaozuibihuidejiushishuoyuyimohubuqing。tarenbenzhilejiebushangnishuoshenmedehuatanhuaneirongshimeifakaizhanxialaide。yuanyidedaogengqiangdegoutongxiediaonengli，jinjiyaoyoubixudeluojixinggongzuonengli，biaoshuchuniyuanyibiaoshudehanyi。