情感问答：男人真的可以把性和爱分开吗？

　　fenshoufuhehounanpengyoubuyuanyipengwo，zaizheijuhuazhongchuandachuleshiwanghedanyouqingxu。fuhexingsihushiyizhongcongtoukaishidehaojihui，danquebingmeiyouruyuqiyibanxingfu。zheileikangjudegerenxingwei，budandanshishentishangshuyuan，gengjiashiduiaiqingdelengdan。womenyinggaiqutanjiuwentidebenzhi，yexushicongqiandewaishangjuedingzhetamendexingwei，huozhechanshenglexindemaodun。buguanzenyang，renzhihehezuoshifujianguanliandeguanjiansuozai，xiezhubicizhijianxiufuqinggandexianghulianjie，yimaijinyigegengwengu、xianghulijieweilaidefazhan。

　　陌生轻抚

　　fenshoufuhehounanpengyoubuyuanyipengwo，fuhele，yiqianqinmiwujiannanyoujuranbuyuanyijiechuwo，zheileicubujifangdezhuanbianshiwokunhuobuyiheshiwang。huiyiqidajiafenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，wojianjianzhiyizijishibushinalizuocuolehuoshicunbucunzaibiededeanquanyinhuan。zaizheijianshiqingshang，woxianrugulvzhong，meifaxunzhaodaodaan。

　　旧伤未愈

　　yexu，dajiafuheledenanyoubingmeiyouwanquancongfenshoudeshangtonglizouchulai。tacongqiandeqingganwaishangkenenghaizaitadexinlingshenchucancun，rangtayuelaiyueduiyuwobaochiyidingdejuli。zheileifangzhijiechuwodexingwei，henyoukenengshitachangshibaohuhaozijimianzaozaidushanghaifangfa。wogaigengweireqinghelejie，jiyuduifangshijianyukongjianququanyucongqiandeshangba。

　　一个新的矛盾和挣脱

　　dedaofuhexingdeniwo，yexuyishenxiandaoxindemaodunhetongkuzhong。huoxuwomenbingmeiyouwanquanchulifenshoudemaodun，erkeyizanshidijiangnantixianzhiyibian。fuhele，suizheshijiandetuiyi，zheizhongweijiejuewentizhujianfuchushuimian，zaochenglexianghujiandebupinghenghegejue。zheileibuyuanyijiechuwoxingwei，henyoukenengshitaduidangqiankunjingdewukenaihezhuyaobiaoxian。womenyinggaiyonggandequmianduigezhongwenti，genjuzhenchengdeduitanhetuoxielaixunqiuduice。

　　情感和交流的破裂

　　fuhele，qingganhejiaoliudepolieyoukenengshinanyoubuyuanyijiechuwodeyuanyinzhiyi。zaifenshoudeshiqi，bicizhijianhenyoukenengjingliguohenyanzhongdejiaoliuzhangai，zaochenglebicijiandejiedi。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，jinguanwomenzhongxinzaiyiqi，danxianghuzhijiandeqingganherenkedehuifuyexuyaoshijian。tabuyuanyijiechuwohuoxushitashangweihuifuduiwodexinren，yeyoukenengshitayiranhuaizhezenghenbiaoxian。woxuyaonaixindigoujianqiwomenbiciqingganxianghulianjie，bingnulicujinzhenzhidegoutongjiaoliu。

　　逐渐恢复彼此之间的接触

　　zaizheijianshiqingshang，womenxuyaozhudongjingong，yunanyoukaizhanzhenzhidehuihua，bingchangshilejietaweishenmebuyuanyijiechuwo。yucitongshi，wogaichengxianguanaihelejie，qinfenxiubuxianghuzhijiandeqingganlianluo。jianliqigengjiawenguderenke，gaijingoutongjiaoliu，binggongtongjiejuewomenzijidemaodunhezhengtuo，dajiajiuyouwangzhujianhuifubicizhijiandejiechu。

　　fenshoufuhehounanpengyoubuyuanyipengwo，genjugongtongdenuliheqingxidu，dajiahuoxukeyizaicigoujianqilaoguerhaodeguanxi，keyixiangshoubicizhijiandejiechuyuyongbao。