男朋友嫌弃我对我冷淡

和男友一见钟情，现在男友却渐渐嫌弃我不会化妆打扮，要我变成他理想中的样子，我该怎么办？

网友情感咨询：

冷爱老师你好，我和男友是一见钟情，我25银行工作，身高169体重60男友和我身高一样高体重比我瘦一点点。男友国企工作工资是我两倍。家境他好于我。男友属于情商超高我情商较低，交往四月。

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