和家婆住在一起婆媳关系处理不好

在外人际关系一般，在内婆媳关系紧张，敏感内向的我应该如何处理好人情世故，与朝夕相处的婆婆和谐相处？

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冷爱老师你好，我今年32岁了，虽然年纪不小，但是很多事情处理得都不成熟。我这个人性格内向，不擅交际，在公司也是独来独往不喜欢跟别人相处。有时候为自己人际关系和为人处世感到烦恼，就像得了痛苦症一样。

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