情感问答：女生约会如何表现得矜持又大方？

　　fenshouhoufuheganjueguaiguaide，jishiyizhongmomingdijiliaoyousanfachuyisixiwangdeqingxu。zaicizoudaoyiqi，congqiandeyuanqianqingshenzaixinshang，yanzhongyingxiangleneixindeningjing。zhuiyiyutongkuhuxiangronghe，budeburangrenshenxianxinxudewoxuan。danfuheyeweiyihoudakailedamenkou，erkeshenshenaizhedeneixinzaiyicitiejin，yexujieguohuiyoubutong。zheileibuduijingtihuilingrenyouyubuding，yibianxiangwangzhexingfukuaile，yibianyoujupazhezaidufushang。zhiyoujianjixingshi，xiwangfuhezhihoudeganjuekeyibiandeyuelaiyuemingliang。

　　复合的担心：甜美与顾虑

　　fenshouhoufuheganjueguaiguaide，fenshouzhihoufuhe，rangrendeqingxuruguoshanchebanbianhuawuchang。cengjingdeaiqingjishilangmandejiyili，yeshiruanruodeshangba。zhongxindianrandeqingxurangwomenjuedexiyueyuxiwang，danshiyucitongshiyebeigulvyubuansuoyingxiang。

　　以往的伤痛：抹不去的黑影

　　fenshouzhihou，yiqiandeshangtongyiranliuzaixinzhong，haoxiangmobuqudeheiying。huixiangzhecongqiandezhengchaohesunhai，dajiananyibaituoxiaojiqingxudezhigu。bujuedingshifounenggouzhongxingoujianqirentongheguishugan，rangwomendeneixinchongmanzhejiaolvqingxu。

　　复建关联：迷茫与测试

　　fuhezhihoudeguanlianxuzhongxinchuangjian，dajiashituzhaodaoyiwangmoqiheqinmigan。danshi，zaifujiandeguochengdangzhong，renmenchangchangganjuemimangheshouzuwucuo。shizheheduifangzaidugongchu，shitanxingdelingyifangfanying，xiwangkeyizhaodaodangshineifenpeihemoqihexingfu。

　　分歧的情绪：爱和困惑的交错

　　dajiaaizhelingyifang，xiwangkeyixiufucongqiandebuzhengque，congtoukaishi。danshi，fenshouzhihoufuhezengtianlewujinkunhuohedanyou。womenbujinwenyixiazijishibushizhendezuochulezhengquedejueding，shifounengyingduicongqiandewentihetiaozhan。aihekunhuozaixinjianjiaocuo，rangwomenmangranshicuo。

　　彻底改变：成长自我改变

　　fenshouhoufuhe，rangwomenpobudeyizhongxinshenshihechedigaibianliangrendeguanxi。xianghujiandechengzhangziwogaibian，xuyaodajiashiyinghejiena。womenyinggaimianduiguoqucuowuyutongku，tongshihaiyaoxiangxinwomennengyitongmaixianggenghaodemingtian。zheiyizhongdingyideyigeguochengkenengjianxin，danshiruguowomenbicizhijianzhongshi，bingxinkufuchu，dajiayujizaixindeqidianzhongxunzhaogengjiashenruxingfu。

　　将来的不确定性：挣脱和期待

　　fuhesuodailaideganjueshibuduijing，zhiyaowomenbuzhidaoweilaihuiyoushenme。womennulizhuazhudangxia，queyoudanxinzaiyicisangshi。zaizhengzhahejianzhengxia，womenchangshizhejianxinaideliliang，xiangxinwomendenulihejianchikeyihuandemeihaojielun。

　　勇敢的面对：接纳复合里的怪物感

　　fuhesuodailaideguaiwuganshizhengchang，dajiabingbuyidingduobihuofouren。fanguolai，womenyinggaiyonggandequmianduihejiena。genjuzhenchengdejiaoliuhexianghuxinren，dajianenggoujianshaofenshouhoufuhedebuquedingganhejiaolvqingxu。bingjianqianxing，gongtongfendou，yexuwomenkeyizhizaochuyiduangengjiajiangugengjiachengshudeaiqing。

　　成长与包容：分手后复合教训

　　fenshouhoufuhedezaoyurangwomenchengzhang，jiaohuiwomenbaorong。womenxuehuileaixiyanqiandexingfu，dongdekuanrongbicizhijiandequexianheguoqudebuzhengque。fenshouhoufuhedeguaiwuganrangwomengengdongdeaiqingdebaoguihemingan，gengdongdeweiduifangerfendouziwogaibian。

　　fenshouhoufuheganjueguaiguaide，zaifuhedaolushang，dajiayexuhuiqinshenjinglibuduijingganjue，danzhiyaowomenweichizhenzhiheqinfen，jiqidongdejienahechengzhang，dajiahaiyoujihuizhizaochuyuelaiyuemeihaoerwendingdeguanlian。buguanjieguoruhe，fenshouhoufuhedezaoyudouhuichengweidajiashengmingzhongzhongyaodeyibufen，rangwomengengjiajianqianggengjiachengshu。